#freenaij #stopAI

with no malice whatsoever to OP, some of you need to learn that more words aren't going to solve your problem if you have something you need to express, write it down somewhere, get it out, then don't send it. tell yourself you can send it later and wait for the moment to pass by doing this and revisiting it later, i learned that everything i wanted to say would have only made things worse, overloaded the other person, and caused them to pull away or not even respond to all the things anyway sometimes, some of the things i wanted to say in the heat of the moment became useful later and i was able to go back and grab them! that was good. a lot of it never got said and the things i did get back after that moment showed me they didn't need to be said. just because you feel it, doesn't mean it's real, and it doesn't mean anyone else needs to hear it. find someone who loves you and talk to them about the things you want to say to this person, get them straight in your own head. it will help deal with the urgency i had disorganized attachment, which features both avoidant AND anxious. for possibly the first time in my life, i experience secure attachment now. the process of getting here was highly unpleasant, but you have to understand that you cannot control other people's behaviour, only your own no-one is going to manage your emotions for you. you have to do it yourself

But gamer gate was some depraved shit and women’s “responsibility” will never outweigh what men did. Ion care about nothing partial. PATRIARCHY serves NOBODY. It keeps EVERYBODY caged up.

getting pickier and meaner

Longlegs (2024)

A controversial opinion of mine is that socialising is like exercise. Even if you don't feel in the mood to do it, you should still be doing it because it's good for you.

white leftists: sex work is the same as wiping tables after a shift at chili's