Ebele Uba-Metuh

A lot of you on this app grew up in homes where your mother quietly carried the family while your father was still around. In many homes, she was the one paying school fees, sorting bills, feeding the house, and holding things together when life became hard. Sometimes your father lost his job, business slowed down, or life simply happened. And while he was trying to get back on his feet, your mother stepped in and carried the weight without making noise about it. The funny thing is, many of you may never fully know the sacrifices she made because most women protect the pride of their husbands. They still want the children to see their father as “the man of the house.” They cover for him, defend him, and carry the burden quietly so nobody disrespects him. A lot of women have suffered silently just to keep peace, keep dignity in the home, and protect the image of their husbands. This is why people should learn to respect women more. Many of them are carrying emotional stress, financial pressure, family problems, and responsibilities you cannot even see from outside. Not every strong woman is loud about her sacrifices. Some just wake up every day and do what needs to be done. 🤷‍♂️

@AlfaAdam001 @jon_d_doe This is money i didn’t plan to spend on. I don’t even have up to 4 kids o. Let’s not delude ourselves about the harsh realities in this country……..except you want to delude yourself

@AlfaAdam001 @jon_d_doe Are you sure you live in Nigeria at all? I stopped by at market on my way from work to pick my kids in school. I bought Irish potatoes, plantain, eggs, ketchup, knor cubes, vegetables, tooth paste, sugar and munch it amounting to 25k.

And that's the sad reality. In Nigeria of today and as a married man with kids that are above 10 years old. If you don't spend more than N500k in a month to feed your family, you're poor. And it's so sad. It should not be more than N50k. We have a serious problem. End.

I've told you all that I will use my platform to campaign for Peter Obi. He may or may not win. But as far as I am concerned, no other person that will be on the ballot papers for the post of president, is as clean as Peter Obi. You all know this, but your hatred, envy, greed & tribal and religious bigotry won't let you be great. Search your conscience. We have never had a better presidential candidate since the return of democracy. "Politics is about numbers" I agree. But let us have a free, fair and credible elections to test this. Let us have an election where voters are not threatened by thugs, or ballot boxes being snatched, where the security agencies are not used to rig elections. Let us have elections where poor people are not incentivised with money, bags or rice and beans or garri. Peter Obi would win hands down. End.

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There are still very good men out there sis No go marry Herod because you can’t wait o

Pst Jerry Eze gave 240 people $3000 each as he launched his foundation. But we won’t hear talks about it now, pastors laboring over the nation and still doing more for people than all your favorite politicians. God is watching.

Single ladies looking to settle down please be diligent enough to review their digital footprints to avoid had I known!!!!! We have some red billboard lunatics roaming around and looking for who to devour.

@eezharhh Thank God

I will not touch you for 2weeks in this house reply as a wife😊

You husband has more spiritual authority over you than your pastor Your Pastor is not your head Your husband is Don’t joke with his prayers Don’t joke with his declarations He may not be as eloquent as your pastor but He occupies an office that heaven recognizes

@peculiarchichii Ok After this will it stop him from cheating or looking outside? I’m all for being intentional about marital relationships and intimacy. However let’s remember that the reality of life is that the only thing THAT KEEPS A MAN is a man who has DECIDED TO STAY

Dear wives, You have no choice but to become the slut he craves at home. While he’s relaxing on the couch, you strip, climb on top facing away, slide him inside you and ride hard until he fills you up. You will not let him scroll or relax until you’ve drained him. Do you understand?

Unless a Man is an only child,the responsibility of looking after his parents isn’t automatically transferred to the wife. If a wife’s family’s financial load isn’t hereditary,why is a wife’s own automatic? His sisters & brothers should ROTATE the care. Aren’t you people afraid of your parents health deteriorating faster because of a disgruntled wife? Out of the goodness of her heart,she can do it but making it sound like divorcing her is an option if she refuses,is laughable. I also expect same from wives,manage your parents and allow your spouses act from the goodness of their hearts. If you said your wife isn’t a relative & only your kids are yours,keep same energy. You pray for kind spouses but try to over burden them. This is why jumping on stupid takes on X,will make you wakeup when faced with certain realities offline.

• You may think no one notices you, but they do. • You may think no one thinks about you, but they do. • You may think no one cares about you, but they do. • You may think no one is happy for you, but they are. • You may think no one appreciates you, but they do. • You may think no one celebrates you, but they do. People may not tell you that to your face, but they think it to themselves or say it to others in your absence. If you are reading this, it simply means you matter to me and I wouldn’t let Today slip by without sending this to you. #BeEncouraged #YouStillMatter I LOVE YOU ❤️

Dear woman, cohabitation does not favour you in any way You get the shorter end of the stick always My parents have been married for over 30 years and they are still learning each other. People are still constantly evolving and there is no such thing as getting to know someone before you marry them. Even that person does not know who exactly they would be in 20 years. Marriage is about knowing the basics and who has the same fundamental values as you and trusting God and taking that leap So all these things they say about knowing who you can live with and all that is rubbish. It’s all a ploy to get benefits of marriage without actually committing to you You’re not a car to be test run. Any man that cannot respect you enough to do the needful and make an honest woman out of you does not deserve you. You’re a person with intrinsic value that matured and grows and evolves over time and marriage is about learning each other, accepting and adjusting as you both grow. A man puts you in a house that’s most likely his, so you don’t grow and have you own stuff, you’ll be there mostly likely cooking and cleaning and doing wifely duties, some will even get pregnant and have children, and tomorrow he can wake up and decide that you’re not compatible. You better wise up.

@bluprint7g @jon_d_doe Like many here are low key yahoo apologists like this o!!!!!

@jon_d_doe Look at the CS, filled with excuses for doing fraud. Some people now see no evil in fraud. What a generation. Any mention of yahoo yahoo...boom...you mention politicians children. You reap what you sow has NEVER changed. Tueeeeh

Dear young women that do not mind getting married to yahoo boys. Let me tell you something. Please be prepared to stay in that marriage with your kids, when your husband starts to suffer from the consequences of his misdeeds. Enjoy now, but you shall suffer later. End.

@ElderStatesMaan @jon_d_doe Oshe Sir Knee Bender🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@jon_d_doe You sound weak. @jon_d_doe he sounds weak. I can tell his father was also a weak man. There’s a reason the mum won’t bend the knee. Anyways what do I know. One thing is for sure he is his father’s son.

From my DM. Good evening, sir. I'm really sorry for entering your DM like this. I've been meaning to message you since last year, but I was always hesitating. Now that I'm planning to go back home soon, I need your advice on how to approach things. I'm 24 years old, my father's first child, I finished serving last year, and I'm currently staying with a relative. Growing up, my father was very strict; you couldn't approach him unless it was for educational purposes, although my mum made sure she stepped up for the other things. We were comfortable while growing up, but since my dad retired, things have been hard. Before my dad retired, my mom established a school, and that was basically our source of livelihood for the first few years until issues started coming up. The genesis of the issue is that my dad wants to be a signatory to the school account, but my mom said she can't allow that. Her reason is that she has been running the school for years and it's been going well. Allowing my dad to be a signatory will limit her because if my dad does not support anything she needs money for, she won't be able to get the money. My dad said his highest investment is the school. My mom said the school was her idea, and it's her hard work and efforts that have kept the school standing till today, so she can't do what my dad is asking for. This issue has been going on for about 3 years now, and even family members from both sides have talked to them. They urged my dad to let it go, but he refused. Now my mom bears the cost of everything in the house, from my sister's school fees down to the food. My dad complains that my mom doesn't have regards for him anymore, she doesn't give him good food, he said he has lost a lot of weight while my mom is getting fatter and the truth is my mom has always been fat and he is slim. The main issue now is that I'm going back home after over a year, and I want things to get better. I talked to him last week, I complained about lots of things, and he said it's not his fault that he doesn't have any money. But my mom has mentioned that he has some lands and unfinished buildings. I just want to seek your advice on how to approach things when I get home. Our house is not in good condition either. I feel like he might listen to me if I approach him carefully. Thank you very much, sir. End.

@jon_d_doee Women feel immense pain years after having a miscarriage, how much more carrying a healthy baby to full term and loosing it because of a wicked and stupid SIL. For her to meddle at this point, it means her husband has been aware and gave room for it.

@jon_d_doee This is one of the reasons why a woman should be empowered and have a back up plan at all freaking times!!! When you see that your in-law(s) want to move mad, you do the needful and save yourself and baby. I’m so upset watching this video.

This is so painful to watch 💔

@OA_AnimalFarm @jon_d_doe Tell that to your daughters and sisters Sir.

@jjsbakengrub @jon_d_doe Times didn’t change, most of you allowed faux Western civilization to brainwash, program and mislead you. It’s all a rat race & how could they train your children & collect taxes from two people in a household if it didn’t work. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery.

What I grew up to witness as a child was that most married women in my neighborhood were either stay-at-home mothers, running a shop, or had careers that gave them ample time to still be home early. We had more responsible citizens, fewer crimes and prostitution. And our economy was doing better than it is today. End.

@BukolaOni10 By the way, I hope her husband has done DNA on this child to confirm it really is his child o

@BukolaOni10 from their home while telling the world how she wants him to raise another man’s child under his roof. It’s ok if she wants to help but that should be if God directly tells her to take the child to avoid stories. Fake prophets and their propaganda are real.

My colleague walked into the office this morning looking like someone had poured hot water on her chest. Eyes swollen, voice cracking. She pulled me aside before the morning meeting and poured everything out. Her husband finally confessed last night. After 11 years of marriage and three children, the man has a six-year-old son outside. The mother is one small girl he met during one of his site works in Abuja. He was shaking while telling her, even cried small. Said the secret was killing him slowly and he didn’t want to die with it. But that’s not even the worst part. Now the woman is insisting the boy must come and live under his father’s roof. According to her, “words have come out.” Some prophet or pastor told her that the child will not prosper unless he stays with his real father in his proper home. She has been sending long voice notes, quoting Bible verses, cursing indirectly, and applying serious spiritual pressure. My colleague is just 38. A calm, good woman. She said she has tried to forgive the cheating, even though her heart is paining her badly. But bringing the child into their house, in front of her own children, that one is a different level entirely. The man is now confused and desperate for peace. He’s begging her to accept the boy “just for some time.” He even suggested they convert the boys’ quarters into a room for the child. But my colleague asked him one question he couldn’t answer: “If it was my own child I born outside, would you allow the boy to come and live here?” Till now, the house is quiet like a graveyard. The children are sensing that something is wrong, but nobody is talking. The concubine has refused to collect the usual money this month until the matter is settled. This morning at the office, my colleague tried to pretend everything was fine during the meeting. But during lunch she pulled me aside again, eyes red, and asked me with a broken voice. Should I allow this child to come… or should I just pack my things? I didn’t know what to tell her.