Jogothy
756 posts
@jogothy Crazy notion that you don't own your partner, I know.
But yeah. It's ok for you to be into the monogamy kink. Lots of people are. Not hard to find a partner who's down. I'm just saying, you should have explicit discussions and safety parameters, like with any other intense kink.
English
If you examine it rationally, it is clear that monogamy is functionally equivalent to a full time mutual power exchange kink dynamic, and the sooner monogamous people learn from the kink community and treat their kink with that level of deliberate care, the happier they’ll be.
interpretation@materialcritic
gender gap relationships where the couple has a monogamy fetish are so normalized
English
@shaggysurvives I agree. People are very adversarial over something i thought was supposed to be mutually supportive
English
I’m confused. How do you make out with someone you love and are attracted to and not end up wanting to have sex with them? What is going on here? What even is the point of making out if not foreplay? I am a woman and this is baffling to me.
emily may@emilykmay
there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.
English
@SuperZeldaGirl Zelda II. I wanna see what if anything they'd change and it more than any other actually needs a graphics update
English
do not do this btw youll end up doing the Expression
Han🇩🇿@Han31506417073
Back when i was a gloomy teenager i started smiling as a habit cause i thought it would trick my brain into releasing happiness hormones, it didn’t work but it made me look more friendly and thus people approached me more which was what ultimately lifted up my mood.
English
@TheRabbitHole Sure, I'd love to start a business and employ some people. Provide me the respurces to do so. A successful business, obviously. I'll work 90 hour weeks, i'll come up with the idea. That's fine. All i need is the money to hire people. I will not be paying that money back btw.
English
They don’t care for the poor.
They just envy the rich.
English
@LimitSuffraging @Bryndlesino @TheRabbitHole Are you saying that you'd be ok with Universal healthcare, UBI, and a massively expanded system of food stamps, if we got rid of abortion?
English
@Bryndlesino @TheRabbitHole Tell me your thoughts on abortion
Both the military and ‘welfare’ kill kids
Military on accident and rarely
Welfare on purpose and daily
English
@ZombieIanBrooks @Paragraph212 @Emilk010 That's disingenuous. You're explocitly refusing to rank either game on its actual merits because of meta-bullshit about "innovation" regarding the series the games happen to exist within. If you remamed them from Zelda to "legend of Blufo" your argument wouldn't apply
English
@Paragraph212 @Emilk010 BOTW only gets ranked so highly because it was a fresh new experience at the time. Running it back in a carbon-copy sequel exposes everything bad about it: shrines, breakable weapons, no dungeons, shit bosses
English
@NikflixYT @Emilk010 valid i guess but that's more a statement on personal enjoyment and not a fair ranking of the games. If you disliked BOTW yeah you're probably gonna dislike TOTK even more but i liked most of the systems you're complaining about and i think expanding them was what i wanted
English
@mrblackhole_ftw @Emilk010 that is literally specifically the thing that i wanted.
English
@Emilk010 Not only is it just kinda worse even if it was just as good it’s just too similar. Waiting nearly 10 years for a sequel that feels like it’s just the same game but with some bullshit sprinkled in and is $10 more is objectively terrible
English
@DeclanGraphic @Emilk010 BOTW is not a better game just because you hadn't already played BOTW when you played it for the first time. Lazy? Sure. Criticize nintendo for lazy development all you want. But that doesn't make TOTK a bad game in a vacuum
English
@FrenlyOfficer I want these things to happen for my own reasons. I can explain them if you'd like. But it wouldn't convince you because we are different people. So i'm using your belief framework because it reaches the same conclusion. What's wrong with that?
English
@Agros333 @BecomingCritter It would prevent a human death, at a cost that is lesser, morally and economically, than that of a human death. It makes logical sense, what do you dispute?
English
@BecomingCritter never heard a convincing argument for why even a single dollar should be redistributed centrally
English
this really put into perspective for me how terrible wealth redistribution is
they/them might be giants ☭@babadookspinoza
If we liquidated Elon Musk as a financial entity we could each pocket $3,000. Just putting that out there. 3K. Not bad.
English
@BecomingCritter you know wealth redistribution isn't takng one guy's wealth and giving it to everyone, you know that right? Take the wealth of about 200 billionaires, give it only to the bottom 20% of people (who actually need it), excluding children, and you just solve a crisis of your choice
English
@frauleinruby and then you look up what actual legislation is "harming" trans ppl and it's like... having to wait until you're 18 to go on hrt and insurance sometimes not covering it
English
guy who thinks the culture war is a fun side hobby whilst trans people are desperately fighting to not be legislated out of existence
ArchKeyboard734@ArchKeyboard734
English
English
@Molaau6 @redaction "Oh sorry, thought you were hot. My bad, wont happen again."
English
So many zoomers are romantically inert because they’re terrified of either Being Cringe or Accidentally Raping so they have zero erotic instinct and would rather just die having never loved
English
@gachacopium Bro my dad came up to me one day n went "You know, it's ok if you're gay". I'm straight.
English
I was in the middle of playing stellar blade and watching a mint karaoke stream when my dad pulled me for an errand and on the way driving there he gave me the "you gotta find a girl dawg" talk
English