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Katılım Haziran 2012
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Simon Obasi
Simon Obasi@Simon_Obasi·
Hello @CardinalStoneNG For 6 months, 6 months I've been in your DM. Anyways, appears you guys aren't as useful/serious as I previously thought. Checking another room.
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Oríadé
Oríadé@michaelinioluwa·
This now has over 1000 replies I clearly can’t answer or add everyone as this is not my day job. I also see many folks who are interested in crypto and day trading joining. Just to clarify, this group is mainly for holding global stocks (not NGX) and ETFs, majorly in the AI/Semiconductors/Memory cycle. Not to day trade or to talk about crypto. If this doesn’t interest you, no need to show interest.
Oríadé@michaelinioluwa

i’m creating this say hi below if you wanna join this is a good fit for you if you invest currently or you’re curious about investing focus will mostly be global stocks not ngx (i know nothing about this)

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Harry Da Diegot
Harry Da Diegot@trigottista·
Popular social media activist, Justice Crack reported missing I remember seeing his video first on how @HQNigerianArmy shot and killed Abdulsamad in his family home in Abuja and buried his shattered skull in the backyard
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JASON
JASON@MrAndres___·
The way I’ve been thinking over the past few months isn’t healthy😔 If this crosses your timeline, PLEASE REPOST🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. You could change my life. My UK visa expires May 1st and I’m actively searching for a visa sponsored job before then. I’m a Technical/Application support analyst. I’m skilled at incident & problem management, SQL & database querying, SLA management & ticketing, API & integration support. I’m adaptable and ready to hit the ground running from day one. I’m ready to relocate to any city in the Uk. I’ll really appreciate every retweet, tag, comment. God bless🙏🏽
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Emeka
Emeka@Emeneks·
At some point, you have to accept that you can’t want more for someone than they want for themselves.
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Peter Obi
Peter Obi@PeterObi·
O - Organized B - broad-based I - Inclusive D - democratic I - international E - excellence-driven N - Nigerians from every ethnic group. T - Transparency in governance. -PO
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INALEGWU
INALEGWU@tchaloyi·
Yesterday I wrote about young boys growing up broken. It went viral. People blamed poverty. Some blamed bad governance. Others blamed parents. Everyone had a theory. After thinking deeply, here's what I think we hardly want to admit: We created the monster we're now afraid of. Let me explain. Twenty years ago, when a young boy said "I want to be a doctor," we clapped. When he said "I want to be an engineer," we hailed him. When he said "I want to work hard and build something," we called him intelligent. Today nko? We now mock such a boy. "School na scam", "I dey spend doctor salary for one meal".... Somewhere between then and now, we changed the definition of success. We stopped celebrating builders and started worshipping grabbers. "Na money be fine bobo" A 24 year old software developer earning N200k monthly parks his 04 Corolla and walks into a restaurant. A 19 year old Yahoo boy drives up in a Benz. Who gets the attention? Who do the girls rush to? Who do younger boys want to be like? Who do the staff give more attention to? The Yahoo boy. Unless you've not been paying enough attention. We're the ones who see a young man buy a car at 17 and instead of asking "how?", we ask "when will my own son blow?", "Boss cut soap", "I tap your grace". We're the aunties and uncles who praise the fraudster's mother at church while ignoring the teacher's son who just graduated with first-class honours. "Na first class we go chop" We're the girls who post "I don't date broke guys" and wonder why some boys are desperately chasing money by any means. We're the parents who complain about our children's recklessness but never ask where the sudden money came from. We rewarded the shortcuts. Now we're shocked that nobody wants to take the long road. You want to know why these boys have no respect? Because we taught them that respect is bought, not earned. Why do they pop pills? Because we never taught them how to handle pain without escaping it. Why are they reckless? Because we celebrated recklessness and called it "sharp guy." The 15year old boy watching all this isn't stupid. He sees that the honest man struggles while the fraudster prospers. He sees that patience gets you mockery while overnight riches get you applause. So he makes a choice. And we act surprised. This is not about defending them. This is about accepting that we built the factory that's producing them. Until we're ready to admit that, no amount of blame-shifting will change anything. The problem is not out there. It's in here. In our values. In what we celebrate. In what we excuse. In what we normalise. You can't raise a generation on fraud, greed, and shortcuts, then expect them to value integrity, patience, and hard work. It doesn't work like that. You cannot water weeds and then wonder why no flowers grow. INALEGWU.
INALEGWU@tchaloyi

Something is fundamentally broken with how young boys are growing up right now. It's not discussed enough. Earlier this year, I visited an Amala restaurant. You know those ones where you stand across a transparent glass and make your orders. Three young boys stood beside me. The oldest couldn't have been more than 18. Baggy trousers, oversized crop tops, and flashing their phones for everyone to see. Within seconds, they started shouting at the girls serving to attend to them. One of the girls politely told them to be patient. That there were other people ahead of them. They felt offended. Next thing I heard: "Ogun kee your papa. How much be your salary sef? I dey blow your whole salary one night for Martell inside club." I was stunned. Even Dangote wouldn't be that proud. Thankfully, the older men in the restaurant made them apologise. But the damage was done. The disrespect and humiliation of that young girl. Just last week, I had a conversation with a friend about this. We both agreed: things are getting out of hand. My biggest concern is parenting. Many of the kids that will be raised in the next 15 to 20 years might just lack any form of values. Already, there is a drug abuse pandemic among young boys that isn't talked about enough. Finding young people between 17 and 24 who are not into drugs is like passing a thread through a needle in the dark. Codeine, trams, loud, molly... They're mixing substances like it's a lab experiment. Money fa? Their mindset is completely warped. You see 15-year-old boys talking about buying a Benz. And some actually do. How do they get the money? That's a gist for another day jare. But they're not interested in school, work, or anything requiring patience or hard work. They just want to earn illegally and live lavishly. Should we talk about their attitude to life? Very uncouth. Very reckless. You can even see them here on X. Disrespecting people, mocking people with honest jobs. Celebrating scammers as role models. No respect for anything except money and flex. Now tell me. What kind of kids will these boys raise? What kind of fathers will they become? Kids exposed to drugs from birth. Kids who grow up thinking "pressing" is the only way. Kids who will never understand delayed gratification, sacrifice, or integrity. This is not just about one generation. Broken boys raise broken children. And those children raise even more broken children. The scary part? Many of these boys have parents who are alive and well. But those parents are either too busy, too ignorant, or too afraid to discipline them. Some are even enablers. "My son is hustling." "At least he's not begging." No sir/ma. That's not all that matters. Because when your son disrespects a girl trying to earn honestly, that matters. When your son is popping pills at 17, that matters. When he's scamming people and buying bottles with the money, that matters. We are raising a generation of boys who don't know how to earn respect. They only know how to demand it. Boys who don't know how to build. They only know how to take. A tree that grows crooked from the root will never stand straight, no matter how much you water it. INALEGWU.

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kaosyonah
kaosyonah@kaosyonah·
#Unbelievable on Netflix
Akpos@AkposMalafakumo

There is a movie about a 16-year-old orphan girl who was raped in her own apartment. There was no forced entry. The rapist tied her hands, gagged her with clothes, and raped her for several hours before leaving. He took his time, and the crime scene showed zero evidence that a rape had occurred there. When the girl reported the incident, no one believed her, not the police officers, not even her former foster mother. They all said she lied about the rape. They forced her to make a statement retracting her complaint. The police division even sued her in court, and she was made to pay a fine. Many years later, a group of female police officers investigating similar rape cases across the country finally caught the man responsible. He had kept video clips of all his victims, and in those videos they found images of the 16-year-old girl, she was his first victim. Go and watch the movie to see how carefully he selected and stalked his victims. It is based on a true story. Everything Mirabel narrated in her video resembles this movie. Many scenarios are strikingly similar. I hope she didn’t watch this movie and recreate those scenarios in her head for her video. On the other hand, I hope she did, because that would mean she didn’t actually go through this terrible experience. If she did, she should be punished according to the law. Regardless, everyone who blames a rape victim, God will judge you. The name of the movie is Unbelievable.

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Aisha💕
Aisha💕@nobdylikesaisha·
@germanlang25 How about me? How many likes
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GBOLAHAN 🪬
GBOLAHAN 🪬@gbolaha_n9·
@germanlang25 Can I have this kinda opportunity too ? It’s being my dream to be fluent in German and aspiring to work in Germany soon 🙏🏽
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The Force!
The Force!@Orifunke·
I believe we're seeing the repercussions of decades of societal, cultural and religious structures focusing on preparing women for marriage and implicitly assuming that men do not need to prepare for marriage that much. Women are taught how to be wives. At home. In church. Everywhere. It's everywhere from the chores you're asked to do to how you walk, speak, dream, show up. Any misbehaviour is tackled with, "Is this how you want to behave in your husband's house?" These aren't just questions, they're preparations for marriage. But have there always been concrete trainings for men in this regard, apart from "making money" and "being a man" and "being the head of the family"? Not as much. Do parents, society or churches see a single man misbehaving and say, "Is this how you would behave when you get married?" or "You will not be able to get a good wife this way"? I am uncertain. What we see, rather, is people often subconsciously expecting that even men with bad behaviours will find their own women. It's why you would see men with serious moral deficiencies, lazy and irresponsible, and the solution would be to "Get a wife". When I first met my husband, I was surprised at how much relationship/marriage content he had invested in. It was evident that he didn't just want to get married, he also wanted to be a great husband. It was refreshing to see and I think this should be mainstream. When one party is groomed to aspire to marriage without preparing for it, chaos is bound to happen. Nobody learns about marriage automatically. They have to invest in knowledge, both men and women.
kingsley okonkwo@kingsleypst

Ladies and gentlemen we have a crisis! I'm very concerned about the quality of men out there these days… I stand to be corrected but it seems the gap between men and women in terms of quality is widening, it’s getting harder to find solid men

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Stanbic IBTC
Stanbic IBTC@StanbicIBTC·
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Laide Abdul
Laide Abdul@laide0·
@MrMekzy_ And also, you suddenly realize one morning while making breakfast that you haven’t talked in 3 days
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Pharaoh👳🏾‍♂️👑
I’ve lived alone for the past 5 years and with utmost certainty I can tell you that living on your own is not depressing. It teaches you responsibility, discipline, importance of freedom. You sleep in blissful silence. Everything you put in the fridge is still there when you get home, you can wear whatever you want, you can watch your movies/ shows whenever you want and record them and no one erases it, clean bathrooms, only one persons laundry, your type of music all the time, lower energy bills. The list goes on and on lol. I love it immensely. You can entertain a person or people for a night to interact and then back to much needed solitude.
BIG AYO🔰@47kasz

Living alone is so sweet but depressing

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Oluwadamilola 🖤
Oluwadamilola 🖤@callmedharmmie·
Lmao I’m a unisex salon owner and walai this thing you typed here is a big cap There’s no reason to plait any cornrow for more than 3k. 0 reasons My salon is located in Jahi & trust me when I tell you it’s a proper standard one. There’s no world where paying more than that is appropriate right now✋🏾🫵🏾 RUUBs washes for 2500 and make cornrow for 2500, this is only because Shampoo and cost of light went higher. We usually take 1500 up until late last year so please dead this narrative 🙏🏾
Ụlọma@ulxma

The shampoos and conditioners your hairstylist uses, the attachments, gel, other hair products and accessories, plus the cost of living, have all increased. That’s why they’re charging you more. They’re not charging you more because of hairstylists who serve luxury clientele.

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Toyosi Godwin
Toyosi Godwin@ToyosiGodwin·
If this appears on your timeline, please repost. We haven’t found him 🙏
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Patrick Zweig deserves better
Patrick Zweig deserves better@rockinfabblue·
@julzsherura I know older women who are because they revolved their entire lives around their husband and children. When their children leave, they become lonely.
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