Kibzo.S.B.

"If you are emotionally attached to your tribe, religion or political leaning to the point that truth and justice become secondary considerations, your education is useless. Your exposure is useless. If you cannot reason beyond petty sentiments, you are a liability to mankind."

Dear Masuhd In a world that often tells men to “man up,” many are quietly breaking, and it’s costing us all. Your response in that DM exchange pushes back hard: “The world has no excuse for men. You just have to make it. Shame up, you are a man. Go and work.” It’s the voice of tough love, of self-reliance, of generations who hustled through hardship without complaint. But beneath that frustration lies a deeper truth the world often ignores: too many men are dying in silence because society has taught them they are not allowed to cry, not allowed to hurt, not allowed to hit rock bottom, and certainly not allowed to lack. From childhood, many learn the same script: “Boys don’t cry. Be the provider. Be the rock. Never show weakness. If you’re struggling, figure it out alone that’s what real men do.” So when life hits hard, job loss, debt, failed relationships, mental health struggles, grief, or simply the weight of surviving tough economies many men don’t reach out. They swallow it, isolate, and keep showing up as the strong one until they can’t anymore. Some turn to substances, numb out, quietly give up, or send desperate messages because admitting they have nothing left feels unbearable in a culture that equates manhood with never needing help. This isn’t about excusing poor choices or laziness. It’s about recognizing the invisible prison many men live in. The same expectations that push some to grind relentlessly also crush others at their lowest. When vulnerability is treated as weakness, men suffer alone. When they crack or reach out imperfectly, harsh judgment often meets them instead of support. True compassion doesn’t pick sides between “tough love” and “gentle understanding.” It holds space for both: It’s okay to struggle and still be a man. It’s okay to ask for help financial, emotional, or practical without being diminished. It’s okay to cry, to say “I’m not okay,” to admit you hit rock bottom. Strength isn’t the absence of pain; it’s facing it and letting others walk with you. When we shame men for needing support, we lose fathers, sons, brothers, partners, and friends who could have been helped. We all pay the price in isolation, broken families, and preventable loss. The men who “never cry” or “never lack” often carry the heaviest loads in silence, fathers working multiple jobs, sons supporting families, or good people who ran out of options. We can do better. We can hold high standards for personal responsibility while extending genuine compassion. We can celebrate resilience without demanding silence. When men (and everyone) are allowed to be fully human, to cry, to hurt, to ask, to heal, we build a kinder, stronger world. If you can offer support a kind word, practical advice, or simply not shaming someone at their lowest. that act might be the difference between silence and survival. We’re all in this together. Let’s start acting like it. ❤️ Kindly share his handle, I will support with what I can

God please let this next 6months be the best months of my life. Amen

This was unnecessarily harsh. You even had the option of ignoring the message.

@Beinomugisha_ @sharonguma50 Good one ☝️.

@sharonguma50 Thats why you are bitter

From my bedroom to the bathroom. Shame 🤦🏽‍♀️.

You’re using your platform to ask people why they’re still renting at 40, yet on that same platform, you’re seeing thousands of people talk about being laid off, losing jobs, or struggling to find work. At least if you live in a country like Uganda, you should understand that life isn’t predictable. Some people had the money once. Some invested in businesses that failed. Some bought land that was grabbed from them. Some have never had the privilege of a stable, consistent income. You don’t know people’s stories. Stop reducing someone’s entire life to whether they own a house by a certain age.

Ekiri muggwanga ziringa mbooko za coupling mu high school. Bayita one by one to the staff room🥱

Once upon a time, I thought this woman actually had sense.

Ntv served Muhoozi without mercy 😂😂😂

VIDEO: Armed soldiers are on guard outside the headquarters of Daily Monitor newspaper in Namuwongo, Kampala. The offices remain under military siege following an order by President Museveni's son and military chief Gen Muhoozi Kainerugaba to shut down Nation Media Group (NMG) Uganda outlets, including Daily Monitor and NTV. Other affected outlets include Dembe FM, Spark TV, KFM, and The East African, all under NMG. A similar siege has been reported at the NTV and Spark TV broadcast centre at Serena Hotel since around 12am on Sunday, where military officials have since taken the stations off air.

@Karungisera2 But why would you post something like this about such a respectful man with family and in-laws? At times y’all go overboard and it stinks attention.

The real casualty of the NTV Uganda shutdown is Patrick Mukasa. 😭 Guy got introduced recently. Now, the job is gone, yet he has to pay bills to maintain his beautiful family. 🙏🏾

@MugaluNathan At least Solomon Kampala just called us pussies. He didn’t do the shit this boy has done.

Fathers, Boys need you for proper behavioral adjustment.We are not simply raising boys,we are raising men to take on leadership in homes,communities and the Nation.Such scenarios break our hearts based on principles of collectivity. #IntentionalFatherhood

Believe it or not, people do bounce back. ...from pregnancy, breakups, unemployment, from anything. Keep going.

so many people at their lowest right now, Lord send rescue

@asimat5 @nrgradioug @CindySanyu_UG Absolutely

@nrgradioug @CindySanyu_UG Time was taken and results are everywhere

“I have never had any surgery on my body”😏 @CindySanyu_UG

@shygalasyt @nrgradioug @CindySanyu_UG You’re such an asshole woman. When will you idiots learn to let people do what they want with their lives? Stupid.

@nrgradioug @CindySanyu_UG But she can afford it,I think no, she should rest waiting for her grand children, taking care of them instead of wasting her time jiming, taking cheaper medicine wc will make her old body to crack into pieces 👌

@Shalomheavens22 The video is not less than 3 years old.

Ekili mu bufumbo kibooko enyokeera dala bweti your husband displines you the way he wants 😂😫🙌

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A hard pill to swallow. If your parents never built wealth they cannot teach you how to build wealth. Love them but find new teachers.

@pmukasaofficial Like how you misled us. We thought you were single like us kumbe you were eating munkukutu 🤔

He preaches water and drinks wine! Remember when he attacked men who work out? Mr Mondo...