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@FemCondition @DanielStra73179 Femme doll I'm leaving the conversation the person you're speaking with is a discriminator and I'm all set you know I pride my belief of complete equal with the same consequences as well as accolades I cannot continue reading this person's bs

@DanielStra73179 @kill4mebitch No...You're making all sort of false equivalence arguments to support your own irrational fallacy beliefs. So what if a woman becomes a school teacher and a man becomes a doctor? He might treat the child; she teaches the child who may eventually become a doctor him/herself.

I'll say it again: EVERY RESTRICTION ever placed on women- financial, social, life- was based in the misogynistic idea we were dumber, more innocent, simple creatures that needed protection. I'll be damned if I'm going to accept your "protection" today. A gilded cage is a cage.

@DanielStra73179 @FemCondition 🙄 that's the excuse you use to make other humans less than you and disregard them smfh

@FemCondition @kill4mebitch decide to study less useful fields. Making them more unable to repay their debt in an adequate timeframe. Women are generally tax drainers in all western societies (and more). I am refering to new zealands releases on this which I would assume apply to most countries.

@DanielStra73179 @FemCondition Had being the keyword no longer has

@kill4mebitch @FemCondition The gilded cage femme talked about. Maybe it had useful functions that helped society?

@seeingeyespy @FemCondition A mental cage isn't imaginary just not seeable by others

@FemCondition It’s true but do go on rallying against your imaginary cage.

@DanielStra73179 @FemCondition This seems like an irrelevant point to make ...

@FemCondition Do you know which gender holds more personal debt?

@NoctrnlValkyrie I'm getting notifications but only partial messages contained in those I answered the last one even tho it's not showing the message you sent

@kill4mebitch It might take a while for that. Mind took forever and it still takes forever for the notifications with my messages to show up , if at all.

@NoctrnlValkyrie 👀

@NoctrnlValkyrie Old messages and chats yes but new messages aren't showing up at all

@NoctrnlValkyrie Idk wtf x is doing but it just made me create a password and it won't show me my dm messages ffs

@NoctrnlValkyrie That was in my dms hang on

@kill4mebitch Check your dm's : )

Yes. I've never met a survivor of any abuse who didn't phase through anger in recovery. We turn away from anger and shame it. Embracing and creating healthy outlets is vital.

5. Move From Anger to Power Eventually , the goal is not to stay angry forever—it’s to convert that anger into boundaries, clarity, self-respect, and agency. When fully processed, anger becomes: the voice that says “never again” the boundary that protects your future the wisdom that sees red flags instantly the energy that fuels your healing and purpose It transforms from raw fire into inner authority. It does get better over time. I know how painful it is, like life will never be tolerable with the anger for the injustice we feel. It will likely take years, but it does get easier and then one day, you’ll realize you don’t feel that anger anymore. Your peace will come back to you. Hang in there. 🫂

4. Find the Grief Underneath Anger is often the guard dog standing in front of grief.
Once the initial fire burns, survivors often uncover: Grief for the years they lost Grief for the version of themselves that they had to kill off to survive Grief for the love, parenting, or safety they deserved but never got Grief for the life taken from them Processing the anger helps you reach the grief—which is where the deepest healing occurs. Cont

There are several parts to processing that rage: 1. Normalize It: Your Anger Is Proof You Woke Up You couldn’t safely express your rage during the abuse—it wasn’t allowed.
It shows up now because your nervous system finally believes you’re safe enough to feel it.
That’s not

Survivors of narcissistic abuse often carry a level of anger or rage for what their abusers did to them that feels overwhelming, explosive, and incredibly painful to carry and contain and it can feel like that anger and that pain will never go away. But this anger is actually a

@FemCondition Rofl they really believe that shit to don't they 😂

@kill4mebitch They put it back up.

This sort of widely supported ignorance has to stop. First, to believe this, you must ignore men are also classified as virgins. All virgin means is "haven't had sex." Second, virginity in women was valued bc children of marriage in a time pre-DNA test. It's not all about you.

@FemCondition Please tell me you have a screenshot of the original tweet you responded to so I can read it lol

Ha! OP limited post visibility. Stop rage baiting. Stop spreading misandrist lies.

Maybe they aren't thoughts, dreams or beliefs Maybe they are memories of a life lived in a place different from this one A place where the impossible is ordinary, where the imaginary is the reality A place where all things begin and all things come to end

There is a need to reign in this impatience...

@yvessirae Men aren't the ones trying to keep from getting their selves pregnant your body your responsibility if you can't be bothered to protect yourself you have no right demanding someone else protects you use your fucking brain

One man can impregnate 9 women everyday for nine months. Those will be 2,430 pregnancies. A woman can only get pregnant once within nine months, even if she sleeps w 9 men everyday within 9 months. so, birth control should be for MEN, Science is busy making pills, and birth control for the WRONG PERSON.