@WindsSylvie No problem and i could have been nicer honestly I appreciate that you were also open to discussion !
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@kitty1176051 yes this is true, we are all a little ashamed of ourselves and we project it onto others too and we sexualize ourselves, project that to people. when we realized we were naked^^ i guess thats just the fallen side of me speaking. thank you for speaking kindly
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usually id agree but i dont want to see a naked old man cuddled into his blanket either, okay. like and you turned off comments, and i debated quoting this. but i have no followers so at least im not offending anyone else's eyes but my own everytime i open my profile.
Valeria@valeriavenoire
you guys are creepy as fuck for reacting like this when you see the body of an older woman. literally no woman has to fit your ideal image of femininity just grow up
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@WindsSylvie Def agree, mixed with the fact a lot of people are a bit afraid of seeing a human in the nude for some reason 😂 i think it’s a mix between discomfort with the reminder we are all just animals + the cultural association we have between nudity and sexuality
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@kitty1176051 yes and i had put that last segment crassly. you did make me realize it wouldnt be so bad in an artistic lens. the post had made a comparison of men vs women, but i dont think peoples disgust is bc its woman who is older, but rather because we are all a little ageist.
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@WindsSylvie Sadly twitter sucks for art in that there’s really no good way to tag it, and most casual users of the app don’t use tags so they will just get random art pieces they don’t understand or want to see on their FYP.
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@WindsSylvie That’s unfortunate that you were exposed to something you’re uncomfortable with but I do think it’s important to keep in mind that just because something makes you personally uncomfortable/u don’t want to see it, doesn’t mean it’s inherently wrong or has the same effect for all
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@WindsSylvie “No one wants to see this and it’s too much” Please never go to an art gallery it will give you a brain aneurysm
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@WindsSylvie You have a sad and close minded idea of art and beauty. . Don’t project that on everyone else- speak for yourself
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Use your agency and put on ur fucking big girl pants to do something about it instead of being catty and rude. Venting about something when u actually did something in the moment to stand up for urself is fine, great even? Talking shit, thats weird lmao grow up ur not 5
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my main issue w friends that talk shit is that some of yall arent willing to say it to the other person’s face. a lot of my friends that talk shit to me about their other friends don’t actually do or say anything about it they just bottle it up then talk behind their friends back
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it’s very normal and common. everybody is annoying, you’re gonna annoy people that love you & they’re gonna talk about it
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@seriesera @iE10W It just seems crazy to me that US size s these days is so big (relatively) when there are so many people much smaller than that xD Japan is proof that there are a lot of smaller built people who also need clothes
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@seriesera @iE10W Oh I wear mostly used/vintage clothes maybe that’s why (i just realized) if I wear modern clothes I’m xxs or even xxxs which is ridiculous💀
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Most humbling experience is buying new underwear & seeing them & being like LOL THESE ARE SO BIG. THEYRE HUGE IM GONNA SWIM IN THEM & they fit like a glove
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@seriesera @iE10W I just realized this comes off like a pick me “look at me im so small uwu” but i’m really not that tiny hence the confusion xD
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@seriesera @iE10W I just meant the pov that it’s unusually tiny… But idk maybe the brands i shop are different i’m 00 and I’m a small where i usually buy from
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@manhaterlolzz @wigsnatcher3 @fallingintolouu girl no the beauty standard in white communities is definitely thin maybe online in 2018 it was thicker but irl no
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@seriesera @iE10W “meaning their s is like size 0 or 00” thats literally normal idk where your pov is coming from😭😭
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@iE10W japanese uniqlo underwear is TINY! US size 6-8 and you need XL size and even that is tight, meaning their S is like size 0 or 00. fortunately US uniqlo sizes fit much better
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@dollyhitsuji the most popular guys in my grade laughed about accidentally hitting their friend’s car when she wasn’t in class to hear it so ….yeah😭
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@TheRealZIG @crazy_goblins thats not hyperanalyzing, anyone who is familiar with drawing and animating can tell how impressive that is at a glance. you’re just nitpicking if you have an issue with someone describing a flannel as a patterned jacket, bc that’s how most people treat it in their outfits anyway
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@crazy_goblins Well you did hyper analyze tho since you’re so concerned with a shirt pattern being animated, and flannel shirts are incredibly common.
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@kitty1176051 @kairocarite @oliveegger I don't think I said otherwise. Its just that there is no desire to befriend boys the same way. Boys also didn't seek me out to harass me for entertainment the way some girls did.
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@23skiddsy @kairocarite @oliveegger No it’s not surprising- which is why the focus on “WOMEN CAN BE MEAN TOO!” is odd to me. just because the boys weren’t being NASTY doesn’t mean they weren’t being mean- ostracization for no reason is a form of bullying
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@kitty1176051 @kairocarite @oliveegger Is it really surprising that girls who seek out friendships with girls and get rejected just tend to tune out of friendships altogether?
In my experience boys/men didn't fake being friendly and be nasty behind my back, either. I was just disregarded altogether.
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@kairocarite @oliveegger Something about how having an abusive mother made it hard for them to make female friendships, my kneejerk reaction was “hell no” because my mother was abusive and I was a weird girl and it never gave me the desire to make strange misogynistic posts online. Uncharitable i admit
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@kitty1176051 @oliveegger i forgot to reply to you bc some other ppl already had, but my point was more about girls being ostracised for having boyish interests and being called weird for that, just my personal interpretation of the post. it had nothing to do with attractiveness, simply like mindedness
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