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@Ilaimatador Di naman kailangan batak pag artista. Mas may character or realistic sa movies/shows if they have normal physical human forms unless the role demands it. Also, doesnt mean di batak, di na healthy. Some form of exercises dont give you a ‘fit’ look.
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so ed sheeran is the only artist who has the balls to say it and taylor swift is the only one who doesn't give a fuck to say out loud that she doesn't want to fucking retire lmao

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Jack Antonoff says he’s not focused on numbers when making music in new @AppleMusic interview: “No fan cares if their artist is the biggest in the world…artists don’t give a f*ck, I don’t give a f*ck, and none of us do.”
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The more you learn about Chinese culture, the more you understand why their historical explorers traveled around the world, decided to call it quits, and returned home unimpressed.
Brian Roemmele@BrianRoemmele
Computer programming and peacock feathers.
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One thing nobody tells you about adulthood is how fun it is to become your own person. One day you randomly start liking jazz, olive green, expensive dark chocolate, documentaries about volcanoes, weird lamps, sparkling water, books about loneliness in Tokyo, silver jewelry and quiet cafés. Your personality keeps unfolding forever if you let it.
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As one person I know complained, PH beaches are beautiful but Thai beaches are accessible.
yammi@sighyam
The Philippines and Indonesia have more spectacular islands and beaches for sure. But people choose Thailand for its tourism infrastructure and superior luxury services and resorts, even if its islands are less dramatic.
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When someone teaches you something you didn't ask to learn, your brain reacts like it's in physical pain. UCLA scientists watched it happen on brain scans in 2003. The same wiring that fires when you stub your toe also fires when someone treats you like you need fixing.
Naomi Eisenberger and Matthew Lieberman ran the study and published it in Science. The brain region is the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex, which is just the fancy name for your main pain alarm. It doesn't care whether the threat is a hot stove or a friend telling you how to live.
A neuroscientist named David Rock built a framework around this in 2008. Five things make the brain feel safe in social moments: status, certainty, autonomy, relatedness, and fairness. Take away any of those and the alarm fires. Rock wrote that one of the easiest ways to dent someone's status is to give them advice they didn't ask for. Even hinting that they're doing something wrong is enough.
When people are told what to do, they often do the opposite, even when the advice was good. The psychologist Jack Brehm noticed this in 1966, and sixty years of follow-up have confirmed it. The brain is trying to keep your life feeling like your own.
Close friends cut each other off with unsolicited advice in about 70% of supportive conversations, often before the friend has even finished explaining the problem. That number comes from a 2016 study by Bo Feng and Eran Magen in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. The closer the friendship, the worse it gets. And the advice tends to make them more stressed, more depressed, and more lonely, not less.
Giving advice gives the giver a sense of power, even when nobody asked for it. Michael Schaerer and his co-authors, working across Harvard, Duke, INSEAD, USC, and Singapore Management, published this in 2018 after four experiments with about 700 people. People who chase power volunteer advice more often than others. Whether the student actually improves is a side effect, if it happens at all.
So when you feel the urge to teach somebody who never asked, that urge is mostly about you. You walk away feeling a little more powerful. They walk away feeling like they were just told they can't run their own life. Most uninvited teaching is one person's ego dressed up as kindness.
sy@seezyou
RESIST the urge to teach anything to anyone unless you’re asked.
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someone tweeted na baka kaya daw pinoprotektahan ng dds senators si bato kase alam nilang bobo si bato at baka isang tanong lang (from icc), umamin na agad at ireveal lahat ng ginawa nila. TANGJNA TOTOO NGA 😭😭😭😭
marv@mvn_dn
straight from the horse’s mouth: it was really APC who orchestrated it
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