fml

under performer final boss

Hiii my Naija babesss🥹💚🤍

HELLLOOOOOOOOOOOO

Gpu

OCHANYA ELIZABETH OGBANJE She was R"ped by both father and son from age 5 to 13 in both holes and died from complications from it. 😢

When you sexualize a conversation early, you’re not just flirting or testing the waters. You’re fundamentally reframing what kind of interaction this is. And the other person has to decide, right then, whether they’re willing to operate inside that frame. If they were interested in you as a person, curious about your thoughts, drawn to your energy, maybe even attracted but not ready to make it the center of everything yet, you’ve just asked them to skip about seven steps. Most people won’t tell you that you’ve done this. They’ll just drift. They’ll match your energy for a bit out of politeness, or awkwardness, or because they’re trying to figure out if they misread you. But the curiosity is gone. You’ve answered a question they weren’t asking yet. I think this happens because we confuse attraction with urgency. Like, if you feel it, you have to do something about it immediately, or the moment dies. But real attraction doesn’t actually work like that. It builds. It breathes. It happens in the margins of normal conversation, in the way someone laughs at your joke, or the fact that they remembered something you said three days ago, or the split second where you both go quiet and it doesn’t feel empty. There’s this idea that if someone’s really into you, they’ll match your sexual energy right away. That anything else is just performance or playing games. But that assumes everyone experiences desire on the same timeline, in the same way. Some people feel attraction as a slow burn. It starts as intrigue, then comfort, then one day they look at you differently and suddenly it’s there. For them, leading with sex isn’t authentic, it’s disorienting. It doesn’t feel like honesty. It feels like a test they didn’t know they were taking. When you sexualize too soon, you’re collapsing all of that into a single transaction. You’re saying, “I want to know if this is going somewhere now.” And maybe it was. But now they have to wonder if you were ever interested in them, or just interested in what they represent. The fumble isn’t that you expressed desire. It’s that you made desire the whole conversation before there was anything else to hold it up.

no meds no therapy no psych ward just raw dogging this mental illness the way god intended

i warn every man that there is smth wrong w me and they still try

i am always on my own chilling and here comes a mad individual

starting a new year sick

🥶

there is something in the air

Highs: Didn't kms Lows: Didn't kms

What a year man

Not even slightly excited. Make we just sleep, wake up, start another calendar tomorrow and keep it moving.

this year has been perhaps the most exhausting and draining year i’ve ever experienced and i wish i had the strength to pull something positive out of myself for the new year but all i can think of is how badly i cannot do this again

I too want to write an end of year essay or make a reel or even find the most meaningful photos to mark the year but all I can think is, “I’m so tired.”

just wanna thank God in advance for the run i’m about to go on

gunna loves that “dey make me lose my composure” part so bad😂