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@jon_d_doe Anambra Agbafian celebration so lovely 😍

Politics is not what I am known for. I am an authority when it comes to relationships or marriages. But political decisions or choices affect leadership. And when leadership is poor, men and women are less interested in getting married and raising a family. Or some would use it as an excuse to steal, harm others or go into fraud. I have looked at all the presidential candidates that we have today, and I see that potential in the persons of Peter Obi and Rabiu Kwankwaso. I won't always discuss politics because I don't like it, and it creates enemies unnecessarily. But I have seen a high level of poverty and shock in the numbers of persons that have been begging for money to survive from close families and friends. And I know it's because of our economy. An economy led by President Tinubu. I have seen wives lose their husbands in a large scale like never seen before due to insecurity. I have seen mothers and wives decide to prostitute themselves because they have to feed their children. I have seen parents enable their children to go into fraud and prostitution because of our harsh economy. I cannot continue to teach people on how to maintain a healthy relationship or marriage, while their pockets cannot sustain it and their children are hungry. I want to promote someone that gives hope to the ordinary Nigerians and has a track record. Do not be distracted by my political posts in recent times. I am doing it because I am concerned with our future. The suffering is too much for a country as rich as Nigeria. And we have leaders who do not show empathy. Rather, they politicize the level of insecurity and massive corruption as a political witch-hunt. Greed and quest for power is the bane. Poverty weaponization is the catalyst. Religion and tribe are the result. You young Nigerians must see these things for what they are. Your mates in countries where they have elected good politicians are getting married very early and raising their families. But you're still begging for recharge card, doing yahoo and olosho on tik tok and IG. This is not the life that was promised to you by these greedy politicians. Take back your country. End.

With the mindset of many Gen Z men, I hope some of you will not divorce your future wives if they lose their jobs. I have said it many times: before you get married, have the 'I can do it alone' mindset. Do not decide to marry a woman mainly because she earns her own money. Remove your eyes from her money and plan your future with her with your own money. A woman's money is not sweet to taste. A woman doesn't have to work to make money, before she qualifies to be a wife and mother. If you're not ready to start thinking this way, please avoid marriage. The fact that women get up to 4 months maternity leave (in some countries, more), should tell you that a woman's place of recognition and strength is mostly from being a mother, a home maker, a nurturer and a wife. See her money as a bonus, or rather, an additional privilege to you. Not your right. Not your entitlement. Not your inheritance. Not your dependable source, but your reliable source. A wife that is playing her roles effectively and efficiently, is not a liability. I don't care what any of you wokist or "in saner" climes pundits want to say about this. This is Africa. And Africa remains the true foundation of family values. We educate women so that our society can be educated. We raise women so that we can have families, responsible children and a home. You cannot call your wife and mother of your children a liability, when you are hardly home, and she's there holding things down in your absence. That's an asset. You young men must start to recalibrate your mindsets and avoid severe depression or consequences in the future in your marriage. A woman will aways remain a woman. End.

Everyone would love to be rich, but not everyone would be rich. For me, as a father and husband, once I am able to put food on the table for my family, provide shelter above their heads, and pay their bills, I feel fulfilled. I am satisfied and grateful to God. No matter how much you have, you won't take a penny to the grave. I have programmed my mindset in such a way as to not envy people's legitimate wealth or success in a bad way. What I pray against every day is that I don't want to have to beg to feed myself and my family. And I want to be in the position of more of a helper than being helped.. You don't need to be rich to achieve this. As long as not all fingers are equal, there will always be people who are better, richer, and more successful than you. And there will be those whom you're better than. Just remember something throughout your life's journey: do not burn bridges and do not betray people's trust. Trees cannot survive for too long if all the branches are cut. End.

@YulEdochie Nwoke I bu Odogwu

Ladies, you deserve to be with a real man. A real man is a hustler. A real man is a warrior. A real man is a provider and a protector. A real man has self belief, hardworking, go getter, fears nothing, positive thinker. If your man is lazy, has no hustling spirit, sits at home waiting for you to make money and give to him, doesn’t provide and protect you, but wants to control you and demand respect from you, dump him immediately. Get yourself a real man.

DID YOU KNOW? ● Mike Tyson – Was drinking and street fighting at 11 ● Cristiano Ronaldo – Had a heart condition at 15 and underwent surgery ● Conor McGregor – Was a plumber at 18 ● Dwayne Johnson (The Rock) – Had only $7 to his name and struggled financially at 23 ● Oprah Winfrey – Was fired from her first TV job and told she wasn’t fit for television ● Steve Jobs – Was fired from the company he co-founded before returning years later ● J.K. Rowling – Was a single mother on welfare before publishing Harry Potter ● Elon Musk – Slept on office floors while building his early companies ● Tony Elumelu – Started from an entry-level banking role before rising to become a top investor ● Funke Akindele – Faced early career setbacks before breaking through with “Jenifa” ● Burna Boy – Faced years of rejection before gaining global recognition None of Them Were Meant to Make It, but They Did. You Have No Excuses.📌

@jon_d_doe @jon_d_doee Congratulations 🎊 This is what transparency is all about Oga diri gi mma Agba

Dear all, The back up page @jon_d_doee is now eligible for both X payout and subscription payout. I'll let you all know when I set it up. But this is what I want to say: On this main page, we have about 470k audience. And the back up page has about 59k audience. The fee for subscribing to the main page is $20 per month. And that of the back up page would be set at $10. Remember, I have relaxed these fees for those who would wish to share their relationship or marriage issues for those who may not be able to afford them. But for ads and other requests, you would have to pay for it. It's now left for you to decide which option you want. If you subscribe $10, your ads and other requests would be handled on the back up page. For ads, they would be pinned for at least 3 hours. If you wish for your relationship or marriage issues not to be shared to the public, you either subscribe $10 or $20 to the back up page or main page respectively. Both pages get good engagements and impressions. The pages are not shadow banned in anyways. Your potential customers can reach or see your posts. If you want page growth or more visibility, you may wish to choose which page you want to subscribe to. But remember, your growth depends on what value to dish. It's ultimately in your hands. If I give you visibility, and you don't keep up, then don't blame me for it. I'll complete the set up soon (say in the next 2 or 3 days). Thank you 🙏.

Love for a woman is care, affection and attention. Love for a man is respect. So if you give her care, affection, attention and more and she cannot give you respect & peace of mind, dump her immediately. Don’t negotiate anything. Leave her. There are other women out there who would respect you and treat you like the King you are.

As a man in your 20s and early 30s, these are the most crucial years of your life. Make every decision count. 1. Eat well, but never too much. 2. Respect people and stay loyal. 3. Seek God and build a real relationship with Him. 4. Speak less. 5. Develop the habit of saving money. 6. Share your knowledge generously. 7. Be visible. Show up and be seen. 8. If you find a good woman, keep her and value her. 9. Always show sincere gratitude. When someone helps you, no matter how small, say "Thank you very much", not just "thanks". 10. Cut your coat according to your size. Never spend to impress people. Spend only when it is necessary. Whatever you are doing to build money or protect your health, give it your absolute best. Ask questions when you are unsure. Seek guidance. Learn from those who have gone ahead of you. Study deeply and consistently. The more you study, the greater your exposure and opportunities. Pay for knowledge. Pay for quality services. But never pay for love. These years will shape the rest of your life. Choose wisely, act boldly, and become the man you are destined to be. Above all, love God.

Yea right ... To an idiot, it sounds like a “job description” because you clowns have reduced marriage to a negotiation of convenience rather than a Covenant of Purpose. Scripture says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord” (Proverbs 18:22). A “good thing” is not accidental, it is cultivated, intentional, and, yes, often sacrificial; and certainly not the one-sided partnership you modern vicious females frame it. You call it a job; others recognize it as stewardship. The same Bible also says, “Through wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established” (Proverbs 24:3). What you’re seeing listed are not duties imposed, but disciplines embraced, expressions of wisdom that sustain peace, order, and honor within a home...you should try it, even though, we know majority of you vicious females lack the capacity for such expression of wisdom. And before you evil lots mistake submission for servitude, remember: “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God” (Ephesians 5:21). The emphasis is mutual, but the expressions may differ. Not everything that looks structured is oppressive. Some things are simply the quiet architecture of a life built on intention rather than impulse. But I understand, what feels like devotion to another, will most certainly feel like a burden an idiots.

Let me put it in perspective if you still don’t know how ridiculously bad and incompetent this government is; The five naira note is useless. The 10 naira note is useless. The 20 naira note is worthless. The 50 naira note can only buy a sachet of water and gum. N100? Three sachets of water. N200 can’t buy one egg. How about the highest naira denomination? N1,000 cannot buy bread. N1,000 cannot buy sardines. N1,000 cannot buy a liter of fuel. N1,000 cannot buy a liter of juice. N1,000 cannot buy a plate of street food. So, for a poor Nigerian to be able to feed at least 2x a day, they’ll spend between 3-7k (note: I’m talking about poor Nigerians here). Let’s assume they spend 4k per day on food. 4,000 × 30 = 120,000 monthly. Where do you think they’ll be able to see that kind of money, only for food? Tinubu must go, and it shall never be well with all of you supporting this government. You’ll ask God for peace and prosperity, and He will forsake you. 🙏🏾

Today, someone who has never engaged with my posts subscribed to me and I was honestly surprised. So I sent him a DM just to connect, and what he said stayed with me. He said he has been seeing my posts on the timeline, especially how I push for small accounts, and that alone made him subscribe to learn and grow too. He even mentioned the advice and recognition I got from Agba John Doe. That part humbled me. Because truthfully, there are days I sit here feeling overwhelmed, wondering if anyone is even seeing all the effort I put in… or if I’m just doing too much. But this reminded me that people are watching quietly. People are learning quietly. And when the time is right, they show up. My goal is not just money. I want to make real IMPACT. And if you’re reading this, consider this your sign to SUBSCRIBE to this babe. If you’re a small account trying to grow, especially if you’re not monetized yet, I’ve got tips that will help you. Someone called me “Area Mama of small X accounts” today. Another called me “Inspector General of small X accounts.” And I won’t lie… it felt good. Because it means you see me. So support your girl 🤍 HIT THE SUBSCRIBE BUTTON 🙏

I have been at the hospital for over 25 days with my brother who has cancer, and yesterday something happened that made me teary. I was sitting in the waiting area when this young guy, who couldn't have been more than 22, came out of the ward looking completely defeated. He sat on the floor, head in his hands, just staring at a crumpled medical bill. You could tell he’d hit a wall 💔. An older Mama sitting across from me, the kind of Nigerian mother who looks like she carries the world in her wrapper 🙆‍♀️, stood up and walked over. She didn't ask questions. She just sat on the floor right next to him and put her hand on his shoulder. He started sobbing, telling her his sister needed a specific injection for her treatment to continue, but he was ₦15,000 short and the pharmacy wouldn't budge. This woman, who was clearly there for her own issues, reached into her tied wrapper, pulled out a small knot of cash, and counted out exactly ₦15,000. When he tried to refuse, she looked him dead in the eyes and said: “My son, I was praying for a miracle for my own daughter today. Maybe the miracle is that I have enough to make sure your sister stays alive.” The way they both just sat there crying on that hospital floor... I realized we spend so much time complaining about this country, but the "Nigeria" we’re looking for is actually in the way we hold each other up when the system fails us. We really are all we’ve got.

@jon_d_doe Your Mum is not your lover

I remember going to a trade fair in Abuja last year. I spotted a vendor who sells fruit salads with different combos. They were so colorful and were neatly dressed in transparent long cups. So beautiful to the eyes but nobody was buying. I wondered from a distance... The vendor was a young guy. I think he should be in his mid twenties. Like 25-26. He looked worried. And I decided to take a step to approach his stand. "God! Your fruit salad is so colorful, it caught my attention from afar" I said smiling. "Thank you, what would you like to try? We have the A and B combo, the X and Y combo. I prepared everything this morning and posted a few pictures on IG" He said smiling back. "Oh wow, do you blend too?" I asked. "Sure. I do" he replied. I picked the mango, strawberry and kiwi combo to blend. He blended and presented it a fine way in exactly 8 minutes. I tasted it and I was impressed with my choice of different fruits. As I was standing there giving him my honest review and intentionally making it a big deal, 3 friends who were passing by saw how I reacted and came to ask what the vendor has. I gave them space to ask properly and make their orders. Soon after, others who were passing saw what the friends were ordering in their hands and came along too. I smiled and disappeared from the scene. My work was done. I didn't even get to know his Instagram account. But I'm happy he got his stand filled up. It cost $0 to show kindness.

Choose someone who aligns with your future, not just your feelings in the moment. Because the right partner doesn’t just share your bed, they shape your life. They influence your mindset, your habits, your growth, your peace. They’re the person you build with, learn from, and lean on when life gets hard. A good partner will challenge you without competing with you, support you without controlling you, and grow with you instead of outgrowing you. Don’t rush it. Don’t ignore red flags. Don’t settle because you’re lonely. Who you choose will either multiply your life… or drain it. Choose wisely.

If you're a man in your 30s & say you can't date or marry a woman in her late 20s. It's because you're looking for a woman that you can control with your chicken change money. And intimidate her with your old age. You don't have the competence & confidence for 25+ women. End.

THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER TOLERATE IN A RELATIONSHIP AS A MAN 👉DISRESPECT If it happens once, talk about it and let it go. If it happens again, address it again. But the third time? That’s no longer a mistake, it’s a habit. At that point, choose yourself and walk away. Respect isn’t something you beg for. 👉HER FAMILY ASKING YOU FOR MONEY DIRECTLY Never get comfortable with her family calling you out of the blue to ask for money or financial help. It might seem harmless at first, but it quickly turns into entitlement. Boundaries matter. 👉LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY If everything is always your fault and she never owns up to anything, it will wear you down over time. You’ll find yourself apologizing for things you didn’t even do just to keep the peace. 👉CONSTANT COMPARISON The moment you’re constantly being compared to other men, something is already off. You’re not here to compete with anyone. You’re supposed to be accepted for who you are. 👉EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION Love shouldn’t feel like mind games. If she uses silence, guilt, or emotions to control situations, that’s not love, that’s pressure. 👉PUBLIC DISRESPECT There’s a way to correct or address issues, and embarrassing you in front of others is not it. What can be said in private should stay in private. 👉LACK OF SUPPORT Life is already hard. The person you’re with shouldn’t be another weight you have to carry. If she doesn’t believe in you or stand by you, it will affect you more than you think. 👉DISHONESTY Once trust starts breaking, everything else follows. Lies, even small ones, build cracks that eventually destroy the whole relationship. 👉CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR There’s a difference between care and control. If you start feeling like you need permission to live your own life, something is wrong. 👉INCONSISTENT ENERGY One day everything is fine, the next day it’s cold and distant. That kind of back-and-forth will leave you confused and drained. 👉REFUSAL TO COMMUNICATE You can’t fix what you can’t talk about. If issues are constantly avoided, they don’t disappear, they pile up. 👉DISREGARD FOR YOUR VALUES If you keep having to bend your principles just to keep her happy, you’ll eventually lose yourself in the process. A MAN WHO ALLOWS EVERYTHING WILL LOSE HIMSELF SET BOUNDARIES, STAND FIRM, AND PROTECT YOUR PEACE📌

HARD TRUTH: Some of you will continue to stay used because you are very non strategic and as stingy as the big accounts you complain about.... It is because you don't want to repost your fellow small account that's why you stay begging Medium and Big account to Repost you... You go suffer for long and chop insult tire.... With your 21 views in 15hrs😂😂😂😂 Person go pay for blue tick go dey use am beg for repost 😂😂😂😂😂

@OgodoSandra Childhood experiences that was never unlearned can cause this too.

Provision is a man's shield & when a man loses it, he starts barking like a dog over every small thing. But barking dogs don't bite, they're just compensating for their inability to bite. Dear ladies and gentlemen; "Love each other. Encourage each other. Keep each other accountable. The longer we try to walk life alone, the harder it gets. Life tends to get heavy. Men try to go as far as they can by themselves. We need each other. And God gives us strength when we stand together. There are times when you'll have to stand alone. Don't do it out of pride or stubbornness. If you need help, ASK. If you see a brother in need, HELP. Stand with him, treat him the way you want to be treated...... Even though, you can take a stand on your own, WE NEED EACH OTHER." 👍🏿