Lana Blakely

@1txtlvr 100% agree.

@ZulqurnainJaved Which, by the way, you're more than welcome to do. But no woman that I've spoken to has any interest in pursuing a guy (in a romantic way) who's feed consists of soft porn. That doesn't mean those women don't exist though - this is just my personal experience.

@ZulqurnainJaved Of course you can follow girls. I'm referring to the guy who follows 100 people, where 50 of them are girls who post bikini photos.

@XOTWOD57 what's that 😳

@thaqeefsidek but it’s a huge turnoff :(

But, being passive aggressive is fun. 🤩

@itswhatevrrrrr When everyone they follow wear a lot of makeup, drip in chanel and other lux brands, show their butts in every pic, and yet they claim to want a "simple, natural woman".......The math isn't mathing

I’ve had the same question for as long as i can remember especially when they say they don’t like it when women wear too much makeup and they prefer “natural” women yet if u check their following list it’s ALL women who wear an excessive amount of makeup or had cosmetic surgery

@rndmtq writes down *read about madonna-mistress complex*

Madonna–mistress complex

@srhslcs Good ones

Gonna add these to the list: Hypocrisy Close-mindedness Vanity Lack of moral judgment

@iam_snehaaa so icky

@lanablakelys Always complaining and making excuses for their bad habits. @lanablakelys

@Pajtim90 basically the opposite of what I listed self-awareness self-control consequence-based thinking taking personal responsibility ambition being a mature adult intelligence

@lanablakelys it looks like you've got a pretty comprehensive list there. Maybe the real question is, what doesn't give you the ick?

@JosDavi70311632 you listen to people when they talk to you. you take their criticism into consideration. you evaluate your own behaviour (with brutal honesty). you try to see situations objectively. you recognize your own flaws and mistakes. you don't become defensive. you try to do better.

@lanablakelys How do you become more self-aware?

@MasteredJohn "and you cannot be both loving and untruthful." I agree!

@lanablakelys Because kindness is instrumental, not fundamental. There are times to be kind, and there are times to be harsh. What people should be in all times is loving, and you cannot be both loving and untruthful.

@Pajtim90 I think so too.

@lanablakelys Perhaps, the ones who talk about the importance of kindness are trying to convince themselves more than others?

@angelishoe True! As if talking about it would be enough for people to perceive them as kind.

i think it's because they're likely convince themselves that by talking about kindness they already are kind person, and that's why they no longer want to put in the effort in genuinely being kind to others.

@paganaut "Because they want others to be kind to them." this is true! It's like they say that because they want YOU try to treat them with kindness, but they have no intention of doing the same to you

@lanablakelys Because they want others to be kind to them. However, the deeper truth of the matter is that what matters most is intention. Love your enemies, turn the other cheek. Not because you hope to gain something, but because you believe it is the right thing to do.

@Heyitsbeahi this is so true. it's like a delusion. they'd like to think they're kind but they're typically the worst

Because people like to preach so much but in the end it's just a facade, they just want to look good and kind to others but in the end they hurt people and they don't care

@Parv_developer green flag

@lanablakelys what if someone is not even on social media

@JosDavi70311632 butt cheeks

@lanablakelys What do you mean exactly by soft p!rn?

@Pajtim90 👀

@lanablakelys And it's not because she's seeking enlightenment or clarification, but rather just testing your honesty and integrity

@valagrus of course there is. :) x

@lanablakelys OMG ! I read this somewhere before! what an amazing reminder that THERE is that person for YOU, just have patience and you will find him/her!