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Without bias and insults, can someone give me 5 reasonable benefits of marriage for women?

Guys, please put a brother on. What tech skills can I use to buy AMG in 2 years?

“I like you Somto, but I’m on a celibacy journey”

Even the sex they believe they bring to the table is not even guaranteed and they will constantly shame you for having sexual needs while comparing you to their exes and previous body counts. You are supposed to meet up with the standards other men and of course sex toys set for them or else you are a two minutes man who is bad in bed and doesn't satisfy her. Ask the squatters to at least clean up the house they do not contribute to the rent nor contributed a dime to the construction, they will throw tantrums and call it slavery or unpaid labour. She never contributes a dime to the marriage even when she works and earns just because you are the man and you are supposed to provide. I mean her money is her money after all and your own money is for everyone. Don't even get me started on their numerous health issues that you must put up with or you are not a rEaL and KiNd mAn. All these sacrifices you are making doesn't even guarantee her fidelity because she can still be cheating with her exes or be cheating with a colleague at work with a very high possibility of pinning a bastard on you. You are also not guaranteed peace and respect because it is in their very chaotic nature to shit-test you and cross boundaries occasionally just to know if you are still worthy of leading them. They are always in unnecessary competition with the women who have long been in your life before they started existing in your life and you must choose them and put them first. Heck, some of them even wish your mother was dead. Let's not also forget that their loyalty and commitment is not guaranteed because they can up and leave or outrightly start cheating at the first sign of any financial difficulty. They can move into your house and start squatting with you while laying claim to everything you amassed before you met them all in the name of marriage but you will be disrespected if you ever sleep over in their own house not to talk of moving in. How have men been putting up with this arrangement where they give so much and get very little in return?. Why is any sane man still getting into marriage in this generation and why are the ones attempting it at all not setting better standards for themselves and choosing women who will limit as much of these excesses and liabilities as possible?. What exactly is the average man benefitting from marriage?. That is one question no woman on earth has been able to answer.

As a man if you’re the one always making the first move all the in time in your relationship just know something is wrong.