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Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin among the great number who are not good

When our emotions are engaged, we often have trouble seeing things as they are.

Men, Before you commit, Check her close friends. If they have been in several failed relationships and aborted marriages, Don't commit. Respect yourself. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, Your grandfather did not fight colonialists for you to fight another man because of a woman. Your grandfather fought colonialism so that you may have the freedom to appreciate your self-worth as a man. DO NOT BE A SIMP #MasculinitySaturday

Men, GREAT SEX begins in your mind. A man without mental frame is weak. • Anxiety kills erections. • Neediness kills attraction. Master your mind and your body will follow. Sex is an expression of a man fully commanding himself. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, If you want to be a writer, read books. If you want to be a good writer, read fictional books. If you want to be an excellent writer, read ancient books. If you want to be a mediocre writer, read newspapers. #MasculinitySaturday

I’ve never met anyone who reads books and isn’t smart

Masculine boredom is a sign of growth. It is the state where you no longer find pleasure in shallow conversations, cheap thrills, or empty nights. This kind of boredom is not depression, it is TRANSITION. It means you are growing from: • Consumer to CREATOR. • Noise to ORDER. • Distraction to DESTINY. Embrace and value this boredom because this is where your seeds will germinate and flourish.

We admire the bold, and prefer to be around them, because their self-confidence infects us and draws us outside our own realm of inwardness and reflection.

Displaying anger and emotion are signs of weakness; you cannot control yourself, so how can you control anything?

Watu mko aje jameni Gaucho amepata kazi at least he has something to do hatawavuruga maandamano. Ama namba Gani?

Mimi naona tu Gaucho Kwa hio position ako tu sawa juh akona expertise kando yake watamguide. Why are you people limiting him with education na incompetent people got senior slots in government institutions? Achaneni na Gaucho we will judge him by what he will deliver.

There is nothing worse than feeling dependent on other people. Dependency makes you vulnerable to all kinds of emotions—betrayal, disappointment, frustration—that play havoc with your mental balance.

Understand: people will constantly attack you in life. One of their main weapons will be to instill in you doubts about yourself. They will often disguise this as their objective opinion, but invariably it has a political purpose, they want to keep you down.

Always stick to what makes you weird, odd, strange, different. That’s your source of power.

@Kenyans Why the need to train them when there are learned and competent people in those field? Get the suitable people for those slots.

Governor Wavinya Ndeti emphasizes staff training to boost public service delivery

Men, The tears of a betrayed man are powerful. A man who has worked hard to build a family structure only to be betrayed by his wife has painful tears. You may not see them, Because they drip and drop into his stomach. But the severe consequences of these tears are eternal. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, A man who hopes his disobedient wife will change is like a fisherman sitting at the bank of a river waiting for the crocodile to transform into a lizard. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, Disrespect begins with simple signals, Like, Calling you the name on your ID card during a disagreement. Or, Reminding you that she met you when you were poor, haggard and unpleasant, "But I chose you instead." The pattern is always glaring. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, You have the right to be bitter when she cheats. Let nobody gaslight you. You were convinced that if you are a nice man, she will be loyal. So, when she is disloyal, it is fine to be upset. Use that bitterness to become a beast of results. #MasculinitySaturday