Valentin @ NYC

@stefvstevens I’m not 😜

@mblasterx The vegans are balding too

Every guy I've been involved the past few years is balding what is the DEAL!! Or do I subconsciously pick them. Maybe cause I have a big forehead I pick men with bigger foreheads

@imavvitch @burgahmeister @thechosenberg It’s called having a roster

lol. it's not hard to remake a dating profile. once you're "Dating someone" let alone sexually active together it should be common courtesy to stop using whatever apps. Most apps have a way to temporarily/indefinitely pause/private the profile without deleting it entirely. With Hinge apparently if you pause, matches can still chat/see your profile.. sooo she could still be chatting with other matches (as could he) - seems really dumb for them to use it as a chat app and doesnt instill any optimism in any potential future.

Brother has the real thing but still wants digital

@Duderichy Can confirm that doing those things does give them the ick

how to meet your wife: (do all of those things)

@teddyyyr74 @JoshuaArieh @pokerorg @shaundeeb Nah the variance is too high.

@JoshuaArieh @pokerorg @shaundeeb But could he do it in a single year is the question.

Could Shaun Deeb break the WSOP Circuit ring record in one year? TheOrg newsletter: mailchi.mp/poker.org/shau…

@_nicolealonso why don’t you just build hunger games and get it over with

@MurrayHillGuy1 When there’s a delay in texting you have your answer 95% of times

Why do women say “would love to be friends” when they HR text break up with you?

@sibaburck @morallawwithin I disagree with the fact that most vegans are women. I personally know more vegan men than women. We’re not as loud or as activism-proned. You can check that on most online groups/reddit there’s significantly more vegan men than women.

@morallawwithin Most vegans are women. Men and women are equally intelligent but women tend to have higher empathy.

Over time I grow more worried that veganism is mainly just an intelligence thing. It really scares me.

@dialGG @kodjima33 they still see men as a wallet lol when’s the last time one of those women paid for a date in NYC lol

The worst thing about NYC women: they need your money more than you Comparing to SF where girls aren’t as hot but at least they don’t see you as a wallet SF girls just know how to make money themselves and therefore prioritize other things like connection NYC is so expensive and competitive that it’s just hard for a girl to survive You can definitely find a wife in NY but most likely she will be very expensive

@LadyoftheLakefr @kodjima33 They still see you as a wallet even if they’re successful lol

@kodjima33 bro there are so many successful single women in nyc u must be just in bars w gold diggers

@kodjima33 I’ve experienced this first hand.

@thatguybg @Sumansiva Dating in NYC just as cringe. There’s an illusion it’s better

@Sumansiva exactly. career growth in sf is better than nyc but is nyc dating equivalently better than sf's

the questions every ambitious single person in their 30s needs to answer: is career growth in nyc as bad as the dating scene in sf and is the dating scene in nyc as good as the career growth in sf

@mansizzzzle they probably couldn’t afford NYC?

Why are the hottest people on earth in Williamsburg Brooklyn

@nicolegelinas Subway on a weekend is atrocious 🫡🫡

Rush hour or midnight?

@Austen @Aella_Girl You getting ratioed dawg

@Aella_Girl No

We should prob stop racing to superintelligent ai

@signulll This is the same like bad CS grads complaining about leetcode

as soon as you internalize that hinge is way way closer to something like insta than it is to meetup the more you’ll understand why the outcomes are the way they are. i.e. profiles are actually posts. likes are engagement. the algorithm rewards what gets attention, not what produces an irl meetup.. those incentives only accidentally overlap which is why you get casino type odds. all of this roughly results in the same dynamics as insta where women optimize for follower brained validation loops, men optimize for volume cuz conversion rates are brutal, & the “relationship” framing is mostly just positioning (basically tinder = onlyfans, hinge = insta, bumble = linkedin). an actual meetup model would imply shared activity filtering, revealed preferences, & embodied social context. none of that exists on hinge. what exists is parasocial-ish asymmetry, some status theater, & engagement maximization dressed up as compatibility search. these entities no longer really function for what they were initially designed to do because the macro & micro environments changed drastically around them. sorta like if the water was no longer in the venice canals.

@cxgonzalez bro what? there’s gyms in Brooklyn?

williamsburg isn’t real life bro. everyone is 25-35 and unemployed. like tell me why the gym is packed at 11am on a tuesday

@signulll @priyaee How else she’s going to differentiate herself from every other maga bot?

@priyaee is it really necessary to post a picture of yourself on every tweet?

Every Friday is a great Friday to DEPORT illegals out of our country! 🇺🇸

@nicknactax @datingbyblaine Guys who pay 5-digits to get matchmaker services don’t care about the woman’s finances

@datingbyblaine Yeah, I would imagine some guys want her to be their financial equal which I would want. I would imagine lifestyle plans are big. Someone who wants to be in Manhattan is probably going to want someone else who wants that Do they care about their style?

Dating criteria I hear often from wealthy matchmaking clients: • Thin, pretty, natural look (e.g. no obvious facial fillers) • Fit, healthy relationship with food & gym • Has an actual career (specifics rarely important) • Warm, playful, feminine energy • No extreme political views

@datingbyblaine @rahulcreates95 If they have all of the above (what’s that like less than 1%?) and still somehow single - the sports, etc other stuff really doesn’t matter

@rahulcreates95 For many clients yes! This is just a short list of what I hear most often.

@DominikNitsche @raiseonce_ I didn’t realize you’re such a software engineering beast building hard things like that, we’re always looking for good engineers: metacareers.com I can give you a referral

@raiseonce_ @mblasterx Ofc i used ai. But yea gl if you think you can build what i have with a couple claude prompts🤣

really tempted to do this for free and open source it $25k for a 2-7 triple draw solver wild