Over the weekend, I asked one of my mentors why he married a second wife when his first wife appeared loving, beautiful, and seemed like the ideal woman.
He shared how, some years ago, he was working in a bank and doing well until he lost his job. For three months, he told no one, not even his wife.
Every morning he woke up at 6:00 a.m., ironed his shirts, sprayed perfume, carried his bag, and left the house pretending to go to work. He sat in a restaurant from morning till evening applying for jobs.
He said he couldn’t let his wife know because, during their seven years of marriage, he had understood the kind of woman he married. She believes provision equals respect, and if a man cannot provide, even briefly, he is unfit to lead the home.
Although he saw the signs while they were dating, he loved her deeply and never imagined a day would come that he would be unable to provide sufficiently for his family.
One day, his wife asked for extra money beyond the routine household provision, but he couldn’t give her. His savings could support the family for only two more months, so he told her the situation.
He said that was his biggest mistake. His wife was unkind and showed him maximum disrespect for the next two months until he found a job.
After getting a better-paying job, his wife started acting normally again. But something in him had changed. He fell out of love with her and started seeing another woman.
He got her pregnant and decided to marry her. He told his first wife to leave if she wasn’t okay with it, but she decided to stay instead.
He still provides for both women but said he would never commit to one woman again as long as he has the finances to acquire as many women as possible.
@ojfancyTv@Ayoelesho See how you keep shooting yourself on the foot. Her husband is rewarding her due to how she treated him, when he lost his job. Even the woman accepted her fate cos she felt that she deserves it but here you're, crying on her behalf. So tell me, who's avoiding accountability now?
So is he blaming his first wife for his commitment issues now?? If he wants to be women centered he should do it with his full chest, I don’t see how a person’s character makes you change yours. If disrespect wasn’t already a part of you you wouldn’t need to disrespect your first wife back by marrying a second wife and asking her to leave
So women recognise financial abuse when the man withdraws his money for disobeying him.
But they don't understand sexual abuse when they withdraw sex from the man with the excuses of I'm tired.
Marry a feminist at your own risk.
@Joythemarketer@peculiarchichii Well unfortunately for you
You just showed me how dumb your brain is
So dumbness exists in your family not mine
And don't ever call me your brother again I'm not your brother
🚨🎙️ | Ruben Amorim on how he deals with social media abuse:
“It’s normal in any profession when you are exposed to it. I don’t read it, I protect myself.
“I don’t watch TV when they are talking about Manchester United. Not because I don’t agree, a lot of time I do, but it’s a way of me being healthy. It’s the only way to survive.”
@ZawiyaAbdool@MartienBall You want him to win every matches and win league with these current players?? Some of you fans are so dumb!! Players to players, manu is not even in top 5 in the premier league yet. You need to wake up from your dream before it rots your brain 🤡🤡
@MartienBall No one wants United to lose, just that the coach is not good enough, if he’s going to win every game and lead us to trophies who will complain
@asherkkine Please help me Askerkkine 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I use the money to buy the remaining hospital list for my pregnant wife, buy enough food stuff ls for house and get something doing with the remaining that can bring money to the family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 #eBookbyLeadwayPensure
@asherkkine I will use it to buy the remain hospital list for my pregnant wife 🙏🙏🙏🙏please Ashkerkine look my way... I have been writing on your post for a long time now 🙏🙏🙏
@asherkkine I will became a father soon and the hospital list for my wife still remain some important things and it keeps giving me sleepless night please any amount to support will be greatly appreciated 🙏🙏 #NigeriaForAllFaiths
@UTDTrey He will flop in United, it’s serious players. Watch the players intensity, compared to United players the Crystal palace players intensity and consistency are like night and day.
@Classicfather21@Ekitipikin APC led government dey run Nigeria down but you wan turn am to tribe thing abi. MUMU 🤡🤡 Na only you fools go vote TUNUMBU cos me and my family no mumu.
@Ekitipikin They target Arojinle, Jack, now Lerry e remain Motara and Alabi, you see this bigotry e must touch all of us we go get sense by force by 2027 Peter Obi will not have 1 Yoruba influencer
Because i said some medical procedure are cheaper in Nigeria 🇳🇬 una no wan make i rest 😂 i don’t tweet without evidence but that’s not the case … the case is what are these comments ?
Bro inside this economy, i still manage to pay over 100 staff salaries, i help people to pay hospital bills, school fees, set up businesses, and other things .. those are my services to humanity.. but you guys are just keyboard warriors chasing clout here and there … I don’t like talking about politics but anytime I say something it’s always a problem… you guys should better get a life and stop hating. “ 75% of Yoruba are not good people “ see people that wanna change the country 😭