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@euvitin0 Nossa, ser um adulto com responsabilidades maiores do que o próprio “eu”! Que horror! Ah mundo feito de açucar do caralho, milhares de anos todos tivemos essa responsabilidade e mantivemos a sociedade viva, é uma missão. Além disso, é um período EXTREMAMENTE CURTO da vida.

Casal mostra a rotina com bebê recém-nascido. O cansaço extremo que ninguém te conta. Eles chocam a todos com a realidade da madrugada.

@ignisanimae @leonardoalt A va se fuder. Pra quem é turista é uma bosta sim, tu não pode nem pegar jm ônibus que os cara querem cpf. Quando você é turista no mundo inteiro facilmente pode fazer essas coisas, mas no Brasil a gente da a vira, é exagero, é vigilância, e você é um cachorro do governo.

@leonardoalt It's been so annoying not being able to use services as a foreigner if you don't have the cpf. Wanted to get some stuff on Amazon BR and couldn't, same with bus tkts and airlines, etc really bad

Brazil is the worst at privacy: visited a relative today, and in order to enter their gated community had to give my social security number (the cursed CPF), DoB, full name. This is completely normalized and even restaurants and pharmacies will ask for CPF. Wtf is this timeline

@karenertl643 @usuallypregnant Ye, in these scenarios the solutions would be to bring nutrition to them, cause in the end formula is nutrient free compared to breast. And giving formula instead of making food accessible to these women is a shitty bandaid “solution” Tough tho, the word does not care to solve.

@mosotekimi @usuallypregnant Like I said, breast is best. That's why we have boobs. They're there to feed babies; not for men to play with. I'm thinking about moms who live in food deserts; places where nutritious food is inaccessible. Either she's too poor to afford it or it's inaccessible. 1)

The normalization of formula over breastfeeding is one of the greatest marketing tricks in history. Breast milk is free. It contains antibodies that protect your baby from illness. It reduces the mother's risk of breast cancer, ovarian cancer, and postpartum depression. It creates a bond between mother and child that nothing else can replicate. Formula costs thousands of dollars a year. It is manufactured in factories. It has been recalled dozens of times for contamination. Yet somehow, the woman who breastfeeds in public is the one who gets shamed, while the billion-dollar formula industry is never questioned. I am not judging mothers who genuinely cannot breastfeed. But I am questioning a culture that convinced millions of women that a corporation's product is equal to what their own body was designed to provide. Your body was made for this. Trust it.

@reinerg6 @usuallypregnant GENIUS OF INTERPRETATION. The only problem is this is clearly not about these RARE cases, but about a growing trend of normalization of formula and even censoring the ability of us to say breastfeeding is by all means better, because some adult women feelings might get hurt.

@usuallypregnant Some women can't produce breast milk due to trauma at birth so formula is the only option.

@TamQueen89 @usuallypregnant Dumb people fail to interpret a text, fail at recognizing generalization for optimization of speech, fail to see that exceptions are not the problem. That’s u, by the way. NO ONE is referring to RARE cases when despite ALL EFFORT is not possible to breastfeed, but CHOICE ones.

@usuallypregnant Not all women can produce enough or any breast milk at all. So formula is a requirement to feed those babies. Don’t judge what you don’t know

@karenertl643 @usuallypregnant Still healthier than the formula, if needed body prioritizes baby over mom (sacrificial love, no mother finds it bad). And poor women from poor countries already do the natural way and breastfeed and the rare cases where not possible, women help women. Formula still money coded

@usuallypregnant Breast is best-provided mom is healthy. Most moms in my SE group (lower/working class) are not healthy. Good health care and nutrition is not available. You can't grow food if you don't own the land. Most moms are renters.

@goescarlos Higiene em parênteses, porque existe um limite em que excesso de higiene se torna mania, do que a verdadeira higiene benéfica/ necessária. Tem muito brasileiro que está mais na zona da mania, mas adora tem esse triunfo contra gringo. E as vezes nem triunfo é mais, só mania.

@goescarlos Apesar do orgulho brasileiro, “higiene” não é somente uma qualidade. Higiene em excesso pode levar a dermatite, ressecamento da pele. Também é importante para o desenvolvimento infantil exposição aos ambientes. Complexo vira-lata é ruim, mas a soberba da “higiene” tbm é tosca.

Uma vez eu li um livrinho inglês sobre “a cabeça do brasileiro”, com frases que tentavam resumir nossa cultura. A primeira página era “brasileiros não tocam a comida com suas mãos”. Uma das grandes verdades sobre a gente que eu só percebi quando um gringo me chamou atenção.

@vivi_ananke @DrVariola @dghtsofcain 20 semanas é normal a barriga ainda estar num limbo, o problema são essas marmanja que vem falar que não sabia quase aprindo

@DrVariola @dghtsofcain Tenho 2 e sou crente de gravidez sem sintomas pq eu mesma só me dei conta da 2° pq achei que estava com um custo no ovário. Leve inchaço. Zero barriga, chapada mesmo. Qdo confirmei em 10 dias a barriga saltou

“ah pq médico fica pedindo bhcg a toa” pra nao descobrir que a paciente ta grávida com um jumpscare de partes fetais num exame de imagem adquirido com radiação

@__nofankyou @megha_lilly • If medically needed, you should not feel guilt. • If poorly informed and led to c-sections, no guilty needed. The goal is to have informed women out there, to encourage women to seriously ponder the seriousness of c-sections, in a culture where we shield, but pain is human.

@megha_lilly 4x c-sections because after my first (when I was quite young) I got put on a medical trajectory I wasn't informed enough to know I could get off & I hate that for me and am def less of a woman because of it

One sad thing I’ve noticed about c sections is how many women *want* to have them in order to completely avoid the pain of childbirth. They’re totally okay with them and don’t even try not to have one despite all the damage they cause to both the baby and the mother. But embracing suffering and pain as noble and worth it for the well being of your child is the hallmark initiation into the whole underlying psychology of motherhood, which is the vocation of a servant’s heart, selfless love. I know (trust me) that getting a c section is not easy but psychologically you do in fact skip the pain of childbirth. You don’t have to bear anything. Recovering from surgery with the dull pain of stitches and zonked out with drugs is nowhere near the same as consciously enduring the agony and intensity of the moment that no one can do for you. Natural birth prepares women to take agency not only over motherhood but womanhood. And a society in which women willingly offload all pain and responsibility to others in such a formative moment, explains so much about the spiritual state of the world.

@VerdantCode42 @megha_lilly In medicine, every intervention has benefits and drawbacks. MEDICALY NECESSARY c-section: Benefit >>>>>>> Drawbacks Elective by CHOICE: Drawbacks >>>>> Benefit (cope is “women well-being”, without pondering long/ short term consequences for mom & baby) Very. Simple.

I was an emergency C-section because my mother had been in labor for 36 hours and I was stuck. We both almost died. My heart rate was dangerously high and my mother’s blood pressure shot up even though she was mostly healthy through the pregnancy. Not overweight, no substances, just brutal morning sickness the whole 9 months. My little sister was a planned C-section because her OBGYN said she would probably have the same thing happen again. She had the same blood pressure spike at the end and the 9 months of morning sickness. When she went into labor they didn’t even wait and just did the C-section. My sister and I are fine. I’m a software engineer and she is a biochemist working in cancer research. My mom’s sister also had two emergency C-sections for similar reasons, though she came much closer to dying with her first and was in the hospital for like 3 weeks. I have never been pregnant (infertility, sadly), but if I do there’s a chance my doctor could recommend one based on my family history. I don’t get what’s so bad about it.

@VerdantCode42 @megha_lilly This is not about medically necessary c-sections. Simply. You’re one more of the people who grasp on the wrong side of this discussion (no offense, just honestly). The focus here is the growing TREND of elective c-section BY CHOICE, a few countries worse than others.

@red0niblue0ni @NononsenseJoe @waif0000 Again, too many feelings. “Judged”, you mean transparently informed and still having autonomy to chose whatever they want, even if medically unecessary and possibly not recommended. And when it comes to doctor recommendations, obviously it should be followed, it’s their job.

@mosotekimi @NononsenseJoe @waif0000 Its simple why im on fight mode, no woman should feel judged after she just spent 9 months carrying a child to term. Let her deliver it how she/ her doctor deem fit. Anime avatar men on X need say naught

Babe wake up, the 22-year C-section follow up data just dropped, and it’s *much* worse than the public was led to believe. 1 in 3 American babies are born this way.

@red0niblue0ni @NononsenseJoe @waif0000 Ultimately, it is their choice, and definitely not up to me or anyone. They must however do it consciously, knowing and pondering the consequences for the baby or themselves. This is no hating or shaming, is honesty. Medical honesty.

@mosotekimi @NononsenseJoe @waif0000 Its simply none of your business how a woman who carried a baby for 9 months may, or may not, choose to deliver it. Its between her and her doctor. To me, the vast majority of c sections where it is healthiest for mom and baby outweighs the 2.5% of women who just want a c section

@red0niblue0ni @NononsenseJoe @waif0000 You are only on fight mode cause you’re own feeling and low interpretation skills are on the way.

@red0niblue0ni @NononsenseJoe @waif0000 Medical choice is a balance: benefit VS drawbacks. C-section is a surgery, already has drawbacks on its own if not medically indicated, and the focus of the post is news studies on even long-term effects. A necessary C-section SURELY has MORE BENEFITS. No one disagrees.

@red0niblue0ni @NononsenseJoe @waif0000 Also, “hating on mothers”, you’re bringing an unfitting and inaccurate emotional load to an objective conversation. We get nowhere nowaday, everything is feelings, so much focus on the ADULT WOMEN, that we oversee what’s best for the baby. YES, ITS TOUGH, that’s why ADULTS DO IT

@mosotekimi @NononsenseJoe @waif0000 2.5% of births are maternal request c sections. Just hating on mother's from an incredibly inaccurate premise

@pinispoggers @miritizim Na época mais fudida da A.I. design gráfico se torna uma escolha bastante inocente. Med vet irá prevalecer por mais longo tempo (área da saúde ) ainda mais com a glr na febre de ser “pais de pet”. E você pode eventualmente se dedicar área silvestre um dia, diploma é “só”degrau.

@miritizim me respondam q eu tô com medo agora eu largo med vet pra fazer designt gráfico?????????????? gosto mais de mexer com criatividade e arte e em medicina veterinária eu fico assim todo dia pq acho q n gostei da área da saúde

desabafo: bizarro pensar como a gnt é BURRO cm 18 anos . eu escolhi a profissão mais merda do mundo por livre espontânea vontade e hj em dia vivo adoecida por essa escolha. minha saude mental/fisica/financeira é TODA fudida e pq? pq escolhi um curso por AMOR

@NononsenseJoe @waif0000 Hell, even breastfeeding is the horror of modern women nowadays.

@NononsenseJoe @waif0000 It’s not about you, no offense but people really struggle to read statistics and not make it about themselves. It’s about the growing culture of elective c-section, for multiple reasons, but I’d say women alienation and economic reasons might apply (needs better thought).