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Ψ psychology student try to get better (physically, mentally, & academically) (ゝω・´★)
Katılım Temmuz 2025
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in another life, aku gamau jadi seseorang anxious lagi, aku gamau jadi orang yang selalu ngerasa takut kehilangan, aku gamau jadi orang yang selalu overthinking kalau gaada penjelasan, aku selalu panik dan perasa banget kalau di respon beda sedikit, dan aku selalu di hantui rasa takut kalau rasa sayangku cuman bikin orang lain capek.
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It took me a while, but I finally realized what triggers my toxicity it's disrespect. I can be chill, fun, easy to get along with, I can vibe with anybody. But the second I feel disrespected, everything in me shifts. My peace goes out the window, my patience disappears, and that soft version of me turns sharp real quick. I'm self-aware enough to know I'm a good woman. I'm kind, I'm genuine, I'm understanding, and I always try to lead with love. But that's exactly why disrespect hits so deep because I know how much grace I give before I ever lose it. When I snap, it's never random, it's a reaction. What you put in is what you get out of me. Still, I'm learning. Learning not to let people pull me out of character. Learning that not everyone deserves a response. Learning that peace is better than proving a point. Because growth isn't about never being triggered. it's about recognizing what triggers you and protecting yourself before you get there. Know your triggers.
Guard your peace. Stay away from the people, places, and situations that force you to become someone you've worked too hard to outgrow.
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mau lu adhd, bipolar, fatherless, abandonment issue, atau trauma apapun, ga ada orang yang wajib handle itu kecuali lu sendiri. stop romantisasi trauma sampe jadi excuse buat ngerusak hidup orang lain.
semua orang punya trauma. tapi bukan berarti lu boleh trauma dumping ke orang lain trus ngarep mereka heal lu. sembuhin diri lu, jangan malah jadi villain pake shield ‘aku trauma’.
sorry to say kalau terkesan kasar, tapi literally ga semua orang punya kapasitas buat nerima energi toxic lu. heal in silence, jangan bikin korban baru cuma karena lu males healing, trauma lu bukan lisensi buat bikin orang lain trauma. tapi semoga apapun yang buat kita trauma tidak menciptakan korban-korban baru di dunia ini yaa! Periodt.
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