@Be_like_yankee@fw_naetoblaq There are definitely those that you distance yourself from for the reasons you've listed though so I'm not disagreeing, just offering another perspective.
@Be_like_yankee@fw_naetoblaq Meh. Not always.
There's also leaving once the the relationship/friendship has run it's course. Sounds more harsh than I mean it – you still love them and pray for nothing but good things to come for them. Not all connections are meant to be lifelong 🤷🏻♀️
Shara has never climbed a mountain with me. She's never jumped out of a helicopter. But she's held everything together while I was gone. That takes a different kind of strength.
Republicans: No new wars, release the Epstein list, DOGE cuts, less spending, SAVE Act
Libertarians: Right on
Republicans: This isn't war--it's different, Epstein was a hoax, DOGE cuts won't be codified, we're continuing Biden's spending levels, and yeah no on that SAVE Act thing...
Libertarians: wait, what?
@livewithnoregrt Nothing feels good about revenge. Just because someone hurt me doesn't mean I want to hurt them. They may not have a place in my life anymore, but I would take no pleasure in hurting another person just because I was hurt by them.
@livewithnoregrt Acceptance. Sometimes there is no real way to brightside what you're going through, but you can still be positive about what's to come on the other side of it.
@BergakkerLee@AdamLaneSmith "If you believe you’re unloveable being loved by someone won’t fix it."
Exactly this. I don't agree with Adam's take on this – although I do think that someone truly loving you can help show you that you're worthy of love. You still have to own/accept/embody it yourself though.
“You have to love yourself first” is crap. If you believe you’re unlovable, you can’t magically love yourself. People need to experience love before they believe they’re worth anything.
@ADHDForReal Or when you're passionate about something. Or when you're trying to get/give clarity about something. Or when you're sitting by yourself, drinking tea and thinking about life.
Basically anything you do, people think you're pissed 🙃
@ap_patriot@LeadingReport Maybe take a second to use your brain before making such a dumb comment/question. Many of you have lost use of your prefrontal cortex.
@Cernovich I understand that young ppl are often misguided/still finding their way but I find it odd that so many of them take him seriously/pay attn to him. I feel like I would have recognized his glaring insecurities & have been repulsed by his vanity/superficiality, even in my early 20s.
Clavicular is the net result of fatherless culture. He adapts famine coded grooming. Make-up. Platform shoes (high heels for men). No impulse control due to a lack of accountability. Shooting at alligators. Surrounding himself with drunk women, leading to predicable outcomes.
@livewithnoregrt i can forgive because my peace matters more than my pain.
but forget? no.
not because i'm bitter. but because my memory is the reason i know better now
@ThatisBrand@livewithnoregrt I feel the exact opposite 😂
Impossible to forget; not so hard to forgive. Just because they're forgiven doesn’t mean they still have a place in my life though 🤷♀️
@livewithnoregrt Forgive? Absolutely. You have no peace in your life if you don't *actually* forgive. But forget? Fuck no 😂
Forgiving isn't the same as pretending like it didn't happen and not forgetting isn't the same as holding on to anger/resentment.
Forgive, set boundaries, move on 🤷♀️