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@generaleasiamah @olaolusofowora Thank you, Sir

David also says, “Against You, You only, have I sinned.” This is after real damage was done. A man was killed. A woman was taken. People were affected. Yet his deepest realization was not centered on people or consequences, but on God. This shows something important. Their understanding of sin was relational before it was ever institutional. It was not primarily about breaking laws. It was about offending God. This is where our understanding often becomes weak. We tend to define sin as mistakes, poor decisions, or actions that hurt others. So our confession becomes light. We say we messed up. We explain. We justify. We adjust. But when sin is seen as against God, confession changes. It becomes brokenness. Repentance becomes turning, not managing. Holiness becomes devotion, not self improvement. And it does not stop at confession. It also shapes how sin is avoided. When sin is only seen as a mistake, avoidance becomes strategic. You try to manage behavior, reduce exposure, and stay within acceptable limits. You calculate. But when sin is seen as against God, avoidance becomes relational. You are not just trying to stay clean. You are guarding your fellowship with Him. You begin to resist not only the act, but even the direction that leads toward it. It moves you from asking how far you can go to asking how close you can stay. From managing outcomes to protecting relationship. From reacting after falling to becoming sensitive before falling. This is why a right understanding of sin does not only deepen confession. It strengthens restraint. Because what you see clearly, you avoid carefully.

“How then could I do such a wicked thing & sin against God?” Mind you, the law of Moses had not been given at the time.

@kingsuleiman27 Easy decision for me

I won’t lie, there are certain things my wife and I have actually sat down to discuss, and this is one of them. God forbid, but if we ever found ourselves in a situation where we learned that our unborn child had a life-threatening condition or a severe disability that would cause lifelong suffering, we would have to make the painful decision to let that child go. What good is it to bring a child into the world only for them to suffer for the rest of their life, while also draining the parents financially, psychologically, and emotionally? I understand this is a very sensitive and emotional topic, and people will naturally react with emotion. But sometimes, we need to think deeply about the reality of such situations.

@gamerwalt Thank you

I've seen another perspective out there and thought to address it. People cheat because they are chasing fantasy. Marriages get boring especially when routines set in. Instead of doing the hard work to fix the disconnect at home, they look outside for a quick boost. It is rarely about finding love again... it is mostly about escaping reality and seeking validation. They want to feel young, desired, and alive again, falsely believing a new person will permanently fix their internal emptiness. Cheating boils down to pure selfishness. They love the stability, financial security, and comfort of their marriage, but they also crave the excitement of a secret fling. They convince themselves they deserve this extra happiness, completely ignoring the devastation it will cause. It is a failure of character and a refusal to respect the boundaries they willingly agreed to when they got married.

IMO, less to do with social media & more to do with the fact that many people simply lack a moral compass. You think everyone is replaceable because you’re a user. People are only commodities to you, so of course you feel like you can go get another when you’ve used one up.

The cost of avoiding structure is that every day has to be renegotiated from scratch.

A surprising amount of adulthood is finally realizing that structure is not the opposite of freedom. It’s the thing that keeps freedom from turning into aimlessness.

@TOPBOI_GMI__ @ThePaulOla Anyone can

@ThePaulOla Is it anyone that can get it or only those living in the barracks?

This is one of the many privileges of being a barrack boy, if you don’t have a barracks residential card you can get a soldier’s club or Officers Mess Membership card for a token because there are several instances where your money will not save you from these rogue officers.

If you want to be paid for loving your family, don't have one. It is okay to be unmarried and childless. You people are becoming unlovingly dull.

@OIuwatosin This is true and also self reflective

In terms of behavioral consistency, the most reliable predictor of future performance, is past performance. You can’t get a friend or a partner with a bad track record and believe you’re special so it can’t happen to you. It will

as long as the option to remove myself from the equation lies solely in my hands, NOBODY will treat me badly in this lifetime.

Don’t care about the game Kane had. I don’t think he ever touched the ball in the box. That will always disgust me.

Unfortunately i can't change who you are. But I can Run for my life 😂

@InvertTheWing Exactly

Good attacking performance, shambolic defensive performance. Came down to Stanisic, and also I think just a poor defensive structure that allowed PSG to bypass press so easily with their forward line. Midfield was pushed too, too far up. Kompany wasn't allowed to communicate, so I assume in the 2nd leg it will be tweaked if similar happens.

Chelsea have ruled out Luis Enrique after he made several demands during talks. Chelsea withdraw from race to sign Crystal Palace winger Michael Olise. Chelsea held talks with Palace and Olise but felt finances involved beyond reach - instead plan to reward existing players & new recruits. Chelsea one of clubs interested in Kvaratskhelia. Liverpool could consider move + PSG interested.

@YouCanCallMeOma @wahalaMann @iamlordkaii God, barb me this style.

@wahalaMann @iamlordkaii Ever since we got married, i make sure my husband never leaves home without his breakfast and lunch. During the day, i’ll call him to find out what he’d like for dinner everyday. Na only mumu dey listen to frustr@ted daughters of eve for X.

Mummy Vee knew what she was doing, them done use food collect person husband for my office

"Stubborn” can become a trap if it blinds you. Purpose gives direction, while discipline keeps you moving. But adaptability keeps you from wasting years on the wrong path. That said; a man should be committed to his purpose, but flexible in his approach. That way, he will always survive the long days and still win in the long run.

I'm not married but my mom once told me that you can marry the right person and still feel stuck. You can have a stable, faithful partner and still feel unfulfilled if you built your whole identity around being someone’s wife instead of being your own person first. Marriage benefits from a strong individual, it doesn’t create one. If you don’t know who you are, what you want, and how to stand on your own, marriage can quietly turn into a place where you shrink instead of grow. So don’t chase marriage like it’s the goal. Chase a life that already feels full so if you choose to marry, it adds to you, not becomes you.

Purpose.