@BuckeyeGirrl @benkeithphoto @alibrooke4ever Well u should be fired, that’s literally an identifiable question that ensures that child’s safety in a medical situation
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@benkeithphoto @ri2xem @alibrooke4ever Ten years as a child abuse investigator.
I don’t know everything, but I know more about how it works than you do 🤷🏻♀️
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your daughter is statistically more likely to be assaulted by her father than a random nurse but go off i guess
Julie@JulieLovesFluff
I took my 11 year old to her checkup this morning and the nurse asked me to step out of the room for a moment. I politely declined and she said, "It's just for a moment." And I told her, "No thank you, given all the stories about children being abused my husband and I decided to never leave our children alone with anyone, even medical providers. Anything you need to do or say you can do with me in the room." She looked all miffed and just left, no idea what her plan was but she didn't feel the need to continue it with me present and that makes me even more suspicious?? When she left my daughter thanked me for not leaving, she's already shy about the doctor, her eyes got so wide when the lady asked me to leave.
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@BuckeyeGirrl @80sDepphead @alibrooke4ever I think you underestimatimating the precautions that are in place if that was to be the case— if the child was being harmed they most likely won’t release them back to their parents until social services comes to investigate
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@ri2xem @80sDepphead @alibrooke4ever A thirty second meeting?
Do you think life is a TV show and kids are just looking for a 30 second opportunity to disclose abuse?
Wild.
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@80sDepphead @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever And to add to that, it’s a medical professional, not a random hobo off the street. Think rationally here
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@ri2xem @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever Telling me that I can't determine who I allow to be alone with my child is definitely "stepping in for me as a parent"....
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@80sDepphead @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever And you know what, that’s your right as a parent. Universe forbid anything/anyone close to you is harming your child, I still hope they trust you as a mother to tell you.
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That is my entire point: Not all families are the same. SO, if a doctor wants me to leave the room so they can talk to my child alone and I say "No"....that is my right as a parent.
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@80sDepphead @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever That sounds like something an abuser would say. It’s not a big issue u less you feel as though you’re neglecting your child in anyway which now I have reason to believe because you as a parent would want to take precautions to make sure your child isn’t in danger
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@80sDepphead @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever And I understand you respecting the boundaries of your child, I completely understand. HOWEVER this situation wouldn’t be cause for concern in which you need to support the spread of hateful rhetoric online and spew bullshit
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@ri2xem @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever Here's the thing: Not every family is dysfunctional. So in a healthy family where there are no concerns, I don't have to allow anyone to stay in a room alone with my child.....Especially if THAT is what would make my child uncomfortable.
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@80sDepphead @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever The try again is unnecessary cause it proves you’re an idiot who didn’t understand what I said. I’m glad to know your daughter thinks of you as a safe person to talk to, but that wasn’t my main point. Read my message again😋
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@ri2xem @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever She actually thanked me for not leaving the room when the doctor posed this question to her.
She knows I am her "safe space"......
Try again. 😉
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@80sDepphead @BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever Nobody is stepping in for you as a parent— and this is actually engagement bait cause there’s no way you’re raising a child with that kind of mentality without them resenting you. Good luck to your child.
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That's an interesting opinion since I also feel that it is my responsibility as a parent to make sure my children are safe. I don't need a doctor to do it for me.
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@BuckeyeGirrl @alibrooke4ever For fucks sake it’s literally their job to make sure the child is safe— they’re not taking your child away unless they’re being abused in the home, it’s a 30 sec convo at MOST, if they’re isn’t any abuse occurring— get a life and take your head out of your ass
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So are you advocating all children be taken from their patents?
Your logic is flawed.
How about I don’t want my child in a vulnerable position with a stranger. Full stop.
This is an ELEVEN year old child. ‘Abuse’ is not the only damaging thing that can happen to a child with a stranger and no one to advocate for them.
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@alibrooke4ever Save me from the actual idiotic people under that post— they’re just using it as fuel to be transphobic
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@CarlCantDance @ClownDetectiveX @JulieLovesFluff And for you to say they get paid to trans your kids, that’s fucking ridiculous and in general no medical professional is trying to groom your kid. If your kid is gay, they’re gay🤷🏾♀️nobody gaf or hates them, but you
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@ri2xem @ClownDetectiveX @JulieLovesFluff You seem to think, incorrectly, the the credentialing of medical professionals by these institutions immunizes them from any human frailties like cognitive bias. They may mean well, but they alone don’t get to decide what is universally “good”. You’d do well to trust less.
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I took my 11 year old to her checkup this morning and the nurse asked me to step out of the room for a moment. I politely declined and she said, "It's just for a moment." And I told her, "No thank you, given all the stories about children being abused my husband and I decided to never leave our children alone with anyone, even medical providers. Anything you need to do or say you can do with me in the room." She looked all miffed and just left, no idea what her plan was but she didn't feel the need to continue it with me present and that makes me even more suspicious?? When she left my daughter thanked me for not leaving, she's already shy about the doctor, her eyes got so wide when the lady asked me to leave.
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@CarlCantDance @ClownDetectiveX @JulieLovesFluff I also agree that they alone don’t get to decide what’s good however you’re not as qualified. As a parent it’s your duty to take care of a child and take them to the doctors. If your child got deathly ill, are you going to dangle herbs in front of their faces?No, go to the doctor
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@CarlCantDance @ClownDetectiveX @JulieLovesFluff I agree w your statement that just cause they’re professionals they can still be susceptible to bias, however making such a generalized statement that they’re out to “indoctrinate” your child is ridiculous and spreads misinformation
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@CarlCantDance @ClownDetectiveX @JulieLovesFluff of a child. You’d want your child to be healthy and safe, so you’d take them to the doctors. You don’t seem bright enough to do that though so if anything, I hope you don’t have kids, you’d be a horrible parent
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@ri2xem @ClownDetectiveX @JulieLovesFluff Trans ideology is driven exclusively from male fetishes and the feminist irrational aversion to being told “NO” by authorities. So they take great pleasure in doing it to your children.
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@CarlCantDance @ClownDetectiveX @JulieLovesFluff This is a retarded take considereding they’re completely u related and false. All it says about you is that you’re not fit to have children if you think doctors and nurses aren’t doing their jobs. Preventative measures such as these are taken to ensure the safety and well being
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Can't believe what I just Heard. You can't make this up
Dubs⛧@onlydubsX
Jada Pinkett Smith says she admitted to cheating on Will Smith to protect his ego, claiming she could’ve taken it to the grave but chose to come clean to protect her family and put her own happiness aside to support his 😳🤔
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@twenty6signs When the little white kid came by and kick them, he didn’t point that out— mind you they have a camera, the need to point out the kid’s skin color is so fucking weird cause they also end up acting like it’s such a shocking thing that the kid came up to them to play
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was there really a need to comment about the kids skin color
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