Richard

@AdamLaneSmith Most women "can" do that, many women in today's confused trauma scarred relationship western society however do not do that.

Women give men something no war, no success, no victory can: a home worth protecting.

Bitterness, contempt and a bad attitude will cost you dearly across all aspects of your life. None of these characteristic traits will serve you well.

A little bit over a long time grows: Either by being wise OR By being foolish

A good number of women long for a strong man who will lead them... But in western society's dysfunctional-thinking: the moment he starts to lead, she panics and seizes the reins or the steering wheel of control, as she has to remain in control at all costs=always trouble.

If you are harboring grudges, sulking, being angry, and living a lifestyle that expresses cynisim, bitterness, and unforgiveness, you are not only imprisoning yourself, but you are also making everyone's life around you miserable, and making yourself unattractive.

Hostilities, break-ups or hurts in relationships seldom happen from one or two random big things that explode in an instant out of nowhere. Usually it stems from a string of micro mis-communications, permitted bad behaviours, and allowing contempt to grow for the other person.

You are not owed love. There are many people who believe wrongly, that if they give someone they love, loyalty, love, effort and investment, somehow the other person is bound to them, and OUGHT to love them back the same. You cannot "earn" someone to love you back. Get real.

@email_maverick Yes. Of course, that is true.

@richkinghere I would argue that if people had more vision, they'd have more resolve

People don’t lack motivation. They lack vision. Ray Charles and Helen Keller were blind as bats... but they had more vision than most people ever will. Try and think a little bigger, Chi-Chi.

Top tip for men in 2025: Learn to regulate your emotions. This is one skillset you have no option BUT to master. Your marriage will get better. A man's tempestuous spirit must be mastered by him, or be mastered by it.

@adrienne_lain Also Adrienne, the more you mull over the more content your brain has to process, will kills focus. But easier said then done, right?

Overthinking is like treading water. Exhausting. And you never really go very far.

@MaximilianJSW Whats happening on your side of the world today Maximillian?

I quit posting on X for the past 83 days. To get straight to the point. ⇨ I got overwhelmed. ⇨ Hated engaging for the sake of it. ⇨ Bored by viral threads. My first draft for this post was all about great, everything went, but the truth is I not only neglected you here but also neglected irl friends and family for the past 3 months. Sometimes that's what it takes... The good part? Even without posting: ✧ Revenue doubled ✧ Onboarded 3 new clients while working 12h shifts ✧ Passed my last exam in Uni The only reason for that? Well, the reason for my 12-hour shifts and the exam is that I still need to finish my degree this summer. But yeah, we will get to that in next week's post. The only reason for the interesting points? Micro Personal Brand. Initially, I thought I needed at least 10k+ followers to hit my first 6 figures. WRONG Now I realize it's not about the number of followers but their quality. Excited to be back. (yes 83 days is a new record) Thank you for still being here and supporting me. You rock! Let's crush Q2 2025.

@harryw3nham What have you done today, to make it great for you Harry?

Looking forward to today. Hope you all have a great day.

"My husband/boyfriend won't open up" "What can I do?" When he talks, are you listening to fire back, your "eager help" or share your "better opinions" than his? Or are you listening to hear him, in order to understand what he is saying? "No". Well, that's why he shut down.

Eye-rolling, sighing and displaying other signs of a bad attitude towards someone, is a clear sign of contempt. Stop underestimating how dangerous these negative traiirs are. If you practice these, don't dare blame others for your unhappiness. Your bad attitude is to blame.

Men either marry Does or Dragons A doe is a woman who listens to you. You feel you can confide in her, and you want to. A dragon, is a woman you do not confide in. She does not really 'hear' you, and her response will always be a negative one. They need different approaches.

If your relationship is unhappy... Check your respective masculine/feminine energies. A masculine-energy woman is a disaster in her relationship both for herself and her partner. A feminine-energy man is a nightmare in his relationship, both to himself and to his partner

If you are the kind of person, who regularly opposes other people's good advice, or always has an excuse or a reason as to why you can't take it. You are your problem. You have a preference for better things, but you have no will or desire to change anything.

Anybody can be a good, likable and nice person when things are going ok for them... But it is only when things are not going well, pressure mounts, unexpected pitfalls, injustices, the going gets really hard, money is scarce...that's when you see who a person really is.

Bitterness and contempt are evil poisons. They poison, spoil and devastate, your marriage, friendships, your children, homelife, and your community; one generation after the other. You are weak, immature and selfish, by allowing yourself to practice these behaviours.