Rox dT
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Rox dT
@roxdtvc
Snark attack. Tech and sci-fi and code. Contemporary dancer, indoor gardener, madre. Might be Bene Gesserit
San Francisco Katılım Temmuz 2022
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Sf dating scene so rough men are starting "women's communities" to have a database of options...
adding this to the list of red flags in Known's system
Aris@aris_segueg
building the biggest women-only community in San Francisco 1) You get approved 2) You get in 3) You get to know women you should've known years ago if this sounds like you, comment👇
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SF is a place where men start women-only communities
Aris@aris_segueg
building the biggest women-only community in San Francisco 1) You get approved 2) You get in 3) You get to know women you should've known years ago if this sounds like you, comment👇
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how to find a gf in sf:
- dress nicely. no tech bro logos. style your hair, wear a nicely fitted tee, go to the gym
- go where she goes. farmer's markets, coffee shops, dinner parties. get a sexy hobby
- say hi. compliment her style, her bag, her hair. find out what she's doing there. dont bring up AI or agents
lastly, don't give up. you don't find her by waiting, you find her by trying. good luck 🫶
Don@donatelli2026
question for the tech bros: what's the best way to find a girlfriend in San Francisco?
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@alyssakrejmas respect
are girls like you on the dating apps? where does one find them? i just know a whole segment of humans is completely outside of reach because i'm not looking in the right direction
i'm new to sf too
this is a sincere, simple question that baffles me
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Random things that have transformed my life over the last 6 months:
- yoga/meditation
- 15k steps a day
- reading the physical newspaper
- buying an air purifier
- social media on desktop only
- hot tea before bed
- making time to play instruments
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overheard in SF: a founder has a 20 minute conversation in a conference room with one their employees because ... the employee had a gf. asked the dating history and everything.
ppl gotta have gfs man
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bro, the chatbots you match on dating apps are so good since claude 4.6
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The difference between New York men and San Francisco men:
In NYC: they’ll walk up, ask for your number, text you, and ask to take you on a date.
In SF: they’ll talk to you once, somehow find all your socials, silently lurk for weeks, then ask to “hang out” — and you’re not sure if it’s a date, a user interview, or a startup pitch.
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relationships in sf are shallow and transactional.
my first month in sf, every week i sent out 80 cold dms to people on this site. about 30 would reply, 15 would be serious and give me a time, and i'd meet 5-10 a week. it was so extreme that people joked that i was a spy sent to befriend founders. but i really just wanted to make friends to share food and go on hikes with.
after a month i'd met enough people that i finally started getting the super secret partiful invites rather than the public luma ones. then i started hosting my own things and would try to have at least 50 people i know show up every time.
unfortunately i still had a life in singapore to maintain, so i had to leave every 6 months for a few months at a time, and everytime i got back i had to reset my social circle because people whom i thought were my friends and came to eat my food and drink my drinks suddenly pretended to forget me bc i'd been away for 3 months.
now that i'm back in sf fulltime, i'm much more protective of my time and energy and who i choose to spend it on. in my first month back i was sad that a lot of the people i thought i knew had moved on to high school-esque gatekeepy group chats and house parties. people would invite me to lunches and not show up.
but i now have a beautiful small group of friends that i'd absolutely go to bat for, and my weekends have never been more packed with activities that fill my soul.
it only took me 2 long years to get here. keep going, you'll find your people eventually.
Siri Srinivas@pjux
This is a bit of a hot take but San Francisco is a terrible place to make friends or maintain genuine, authentic friendships. Thoughts?
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Then I mentioned it on Twitter randomly. And some guys quietly DM'd me asking for help. And I did. And it felt good. Because the world is in a lonely state and anything to bridge us is good. And no, I'm no love guru. But I'm a girl's girl and I know what women like and have girlfriends and pros who can help me.
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So a while back I helped some friends fix up their dating profiles by getting nice pcs of them taken, giving them some styling advice, sometimes doing mock dates, talking them through their dating woes, helping them craft messages on apps, and how to approach IRL nicely.
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Maybe instead of smoking supplies San Francisco can have the paraphernalia vans hand out shoes.
bettersoma@bettersoma
These don’t look like the feet of the 4th largest economy. The state boasts. The city with a 16 billion dollar budget and non profits out the wazoo. I’ve never seen anyone put socks or shoes on these people. Only bubbles, foil, and straws. Who is accountable?
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