Roxie

@OrevaZSN Nothing hits like the songs that were playing when life actually meant something.

@lynx_growth @Solyricon It’s harder to accept it… leaving is a decision, accepting it means killing the hope that they might still care.

@Solyricon harsh but kinda true, long texts don’t fix anything boundaries do, is it harder to leave or just accept it?

WOMAN TO WOMAN: Please stop sending men long texts after they hurt you. They don't care, and nothing you say will make them feel guilty. Take your dignity back and leave.

@Solyricon Yes! Those long texts aren’t changing anything… you’re explaining yourself to someone who already decided they don’t care, and that’s the part you don’t want to accept.

@libriscent It’s about admitting they were wrong, and some people would rather lose you than sit in that discomfort for five minutes.

people would rather never speak to you again than have one uncomfortable conversation with you because it means facing the fact that they owe you an apology.

@CoachElizabethS It stops being about what matters to you and becomes about what controls you… once they see where you react, that’s where they keep going.

Narcissists will attack the things that matter most to you. It is intentional, as they know these are the things you will most passionately defend.

@BlehisBack Yep. People don’t treat you better because you’re different… they treat you better in the beginning, then go back to who they’ve always been.

I think more women should judge men based on how they treated their ex. You’re not different, I assure you 😭

@sneminaj Agree… “don’t get pregnant” isn’t education, it’s just a warning. People still end up confused about consent, their own bodies, and basic hygiene because no one actually taught them properly.

hot take: sexual education should include pleasure, consent, and hygiene for everyone, not just “don’t get pregnant.”

@_sorrengailll You didn’t tell a secret, you exposed half of us 🤷🏽‍♀️ some nights it’s survival, not a full routine.

Ladies can I tell yall a secret? Sometimes I get out the shower and don't put lotion or oil on, just deodorant, and get my ass right in the bed cause I'm too tired to do anything else😭😭😭

@MaoengKekeletso Marriage doesn’t stop someone from moving like that… it just shows you who they already were before the ring.

Men will forever amaze me😭this other guy got married in December but he wants me😔

@KeruboSk 7–3 sounds great because you get your life back after work… but a lot of people don’t actually have the discipline for that kind of start.

Hot take: 7am–3pm beats the traditional 9–5

@OrevaZSN Hm. Calling it “revenge” means they’re still in your head. Real power is when it’s not about them at all. You just lose interest and move on.

I think the classiest revenge in the world is never letting someone have access to you again.

@hell_line0 Framed to sound one-sided… risk comes from both sides, and many birth defects don’t even have a clear cause. Presenting it like it’s mainly on men isn’t accurate, and ending it with “take the tylenol” makes it feel more like a jab than actual health info.

Fathers sperm is responsible for a host of birth defects: -men over 40 are at risk of contributing sperm that causes cardiovascular disease, urogenital and facial abnormalities, seizures, genetic disorders, and intellectual disabilities -men who drink alcohol are destroying the viability of their sperm causing birth defects -low sperm count can cause miscarriages Take the tylenol.

@heavensbvnny It’s easy to say this when you’re done… harder when they reach out and you still feel something.

I don’t care what anyone says—I REQUIRE an apology and a deep conversation before reconnecting with anyone. I need understanding, accountability, and reassurance that what happened won’t happen again. If we can’t hash out our misunderstandings, there’s no reconciliation. You go your way, I’ll go mine. Time passing doesn’t erase disrespect. Respect is non-negotiable, and I demand all of mine.

@AlexHormozi Yep. They’re not mad at your goal, they’re mad you actually had the nerve to try while they kept talking about it and did nothing.

It’s easier to shit on someone’s goal than it is to know you want it too and realize you were too big of a coward to try for fear of not getting it.

At some point you get so used to handling everything on your own that when someone actually tries to help, it doesn’t feel good… it just feels wrong.

@ABmrJutt You didn’t compare the issues, you picked the weakest ones on one side to make your point look stronger, because if you included things like male suicide, custody loss, false accusations, and mental health, your argument wouldn’t hit the same.

@Iamkrebkira Nope, that’s not healing, that’s keeping a backup while you look for a replacement. Calling it “constructive elimination by substitution” just dresses up avoidance. Just leave.

@OrevaZSN Creating stories in your head isn’t a disorder. Losing control of it is.

@nickimoraa He didn’t forget, he just needed you to say it out loud so he could flip it on you and make you the problem instead.

@hell_line0 They don’t mind a smart woman, they mind a woman they can’t control or confuse.

@HangyRams83 @its_khumo I just wondered... I’ve experienced this. I have a friend I don’t share my goals with, nothing obvious, just a feeling I’ve learned to trust. I tell her after everything’s already happened.

@roxie_notes @its_khumo Or it could have been that her besti that she shares everything with ((including plans of what to buy and where) bought a car without her knowing and only called her for collection.

She bought a car a few years before me, I was always her passenger princess and we would dream together about the day I buy my own. Maybe she thought I never would 🤷🏽‍♀️ I texted her 2 days before fetching it asking her to accompany me to go fetch it, she ghosted me til today. This was in 2020…