The loss is so immense, I understand why you couldn’t fathom it until it’s your own. You feel it everywhere and nowhere. You’re numb for awhile and then you find joy in the memories he left with you. Then you realize you’ll never be able to call and make a new one. Then it hits.
My very first love and favorite man left this world far too soon. Now he gets to be in peace with his mama. 🖤
Let your people know how much you LOVE them. It’s the ONLY thing that matters in life. 🖤
Train yourself to default to thankfulness for the smallest things. Say a friend texts you a meme, rec, etc. Happens often, but you just have to mentally recognize that they thought of you. Makes you very aware of how good you have it despite all that’s subjectively wrong in life.
If something doesn’t work out the way you thought it would,
Instead of getting upset...
Give thanks that the path was cleared for something else
And give thanks for the wisdom gained
Life is always happening for you, not to you
Everything then, works out in your favor