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Katılım Ocak 2010
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@Wale_forge @OurFavOnlineDoc I said rich men like Davido, Tony Elumelu etc
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This whole 50:50 conversation is a conversation for poor people.
Mentally poor people.
It takes a serious level of mental poverty to be fighting passionately for your right to watch your partner suffer while you hoard your own money.
Again, mental poverty in glorious display.
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@Miss__TC @linmeitalks Not hear to "ate". Just pointing out on a leech when I see one.
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@shloch @linmeitalks You think your ate with that and didn't.
A leech wouldn't fall into the category of "can, don't want"
GIF
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I honestly don’t understand women who are happy we have the right to work, the right to an education and the right to vote then EXPECT a man to pay for everything.
Are you a child ?
Are you women in the 1600s ?
A Women who places excessive economic pressure on a man doesn’t like that man or care for his wellbeing.
A woman who loves and cares about you would want to help, assist and contribute.
The only time a woman should want the man to do more financially is during pregnancy at the later stages and up till school age-4 / 5 years old of your child/children, but even then it may not be realistic and she may have to return to work. This is the reality, even if your man earns £100,000. It’s not a lot when you break down cost of living.
@𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆@OneJoblessBoy
“I don’t believe that it’s fair in this economic state for a man to have a 100% of financial responsibilities in the household...” - Madame Joyce
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@OurFavOnlineDoc Stop complaining . Yu are d head of the house
It’s your responsibility to bring money to d table
She only supports kindly
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“Marry a kind partner”
Until it is time for you to bring your money to the table and be the kind partner.
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@Wizarab10 Women dont hate the husband they haven't met. Rather, they dread becoming unpaid maids after the vows while men keep their lives and money separate.
This your narrative is why marriage is dying fast.
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You already hate the husband you've not met. It is well ooo
For those of you already married to your enemies, congratulations 🍷
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No let them use "real man" kill you. There is no award for who suffer pass. You'll just die a mumu.
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@GloriousGod01 This is the Right mentality. The question is what is her mentality ? 😁😁
Is it the same ? Or they plan on using you #think
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I will never support the 50/50 ideology in marriage.
The push for 50/50 bill splitting is one of the major reasons why divorce rates in the UK remain so high.
This 50/50 mentality was largely pioneered by Nigerian men who traveled abroad and adopted it in the diaspora.
In the UK, 50/50 arrangements account for less than 27 percent of marriages, and nearly all of them end in divorce, hostility, or deep resentment.
Do you know that the dominant model in marriages across the US and UK still has the man as the primary provider?
What if your wife is not working? You would still need to run the home.
Your wife's money should serve as support, something you can always rely on in times of need.
For example, if rent is due and you fall short, you can ask her for help. But insisting that she shares all bills equally is a complete no.
If you must split bills equally with your wife, then you must also split chores equally. Otherwise, you are not building a marriage; you are creating a roommate arrangement with benefits.
Marriage thrives on love, and complementary roles, not strict financial scorekeeping.
Above all, love God.
folowosele adeboye@boye4christ2006
If you’re in the UK or abroad, both husband and wife should share the bills. The wife shouldn’t be handling only water and electricity when she earns £1,800. Those bills can’t be more than £200 or at best £300 during winter. What happens to the rest of the money? It’s some men that enable this kind of nonsense. I know a family in the UK where the husband earns £2,800 and the wife earns £1,950. The wife didn’t work for two years because of childcare, as she gave birth almost immediately after arriving in the UK. She later got a job and started earning £1,950. I asked my friend how much his wife was contributing, and he said she was only paying the water and electricity bills. I advised him to speak with his wife so that they could be 50:50 to share bills, but he was doing Odogwu here and there. Recently, he told me he had spoken to her and they now share everything 50:50, including rent. Their total monthly bills are about £2,500. What changed his mind was that he overheard his wife telling her younger brother, “Why can’t you go to a private university? I’ll handle it.” The moment he heard that, he changed his mind and enforced equal bill sharing in the house, no cheating. If you travel abroad, drop your traditional Odogwu mentality. Marriage is partnership simple.
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@GeraldAdugbo @its_adeballer It means what it means. There's one life. No need to stay with anyone that intentionally wants to drain you (this is non-gender specific)
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@its_adeballer People don't intentionally marry rubbish though.
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ómó Iya maths MPH&HP🇳🇬🇬🇧@Omoiyaoluko
@AsidanyaMiracle My own question to any lady who doesn’t want to contribute to the family expenses will always be, “kindly tell me what you want to use your money for” if you can convincingly answer what you want to use your EARNINGS for, then I don’t mind shouldering all the bills, but if not 😂
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@SimisolaTomori You no like two husbands? Make I join Una, make we Dey divide am by 3. Please consider 😀😀
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@prophetswitch @Wizarab10 It's not mathematical. The message here is jointly support the house. U can still do 100% one income and invest 100% of the other income ......just do some kinda team work
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If you earn 2600 and your wife earns 2200, your total household income is 4800.
If your monthly expenses are 2000, that means the bills take up 42% of your combined income.
So each person contributes that same percentage:
42% of 2600 is 1092
42% of 2200 is 924
That means you pay 1092 and she pays 924 every month.
It’s a fair way to split responsibilities. You don’t have to carry everything alone, share the bills. This is another way of sharing the bills. If Una like to invest, that’s up to you guys to decide
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If you’re in the UK and you earn £2,600 monthly and your partner earns £2,200 monthly, the family income is £4,800. Drop
That Odogwu nonsense in your village.
Take £2k and sort your bills. You can support your families and friends with £500. You give each other £400 each and invest the balance of £1500 monthly.
You cannot have a working wife and all she is paying is water bill or WiFi. She is fundamentally useless. The whole point of 2 income household is that income from both parties sort family bills. We usually use UK for context so people can have sense, but this has nothing to do with location. It applies everywhere. If you earn N2m monthly and your partner earns N350k monthly, the family income is N2.350m, and the family bills would be sorted from there.
Anyone who says “do something, no matter how small” is an evil person. Nobody who says that has any intention of doing anything substantial or meaningful. It is psychology. They are simply saying that doing something small is better than doing nothing and they expect you to be grateful they did something. A family runs on “we are in this together.” You cannot exclude money in togetherness because you want to be a selfish prick with no regard for family wholeness!
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@joyemedo1 @Ghostprry @topten_____ @Wizarab10 Marry another nationality or the ones that do....you choose your husband
Except you are fighting tooth and nail to not factor your income 🥲
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