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@solara144
digital love letter to beauty. astrology. research. loa.
Katılım Şubat 2026
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And no one has been able to articulate how saying anal sex is abusive and degrading and blowjobs are coercive helps women or feminism.
If your issue is that women are being pressured into painful sex, then isn’t the conversation supposed to be about coercion or sexual assault? Is vaginal intercourse particularly immune to coercion or pain or abuse?
You haven’t pushed for autonomy, self-advocacy, boundaries, informed consent, safety/protection, mutual comfort, reporting abuse, etc — things that’ll actually help women… just jumped straight to “anal sex is abusive” and “blowjobs are coercive.”
How exactly does it help women to collapse sexual coercion/violence with consensual sex by branding some forms of sex as abusive/degrading simply because you personally can’t relate to the pleasure people find from them or some people’s experiences are tainted by coercion?
We are in a precision crisis. Your concerns about harm in sexual contexts are valid but that doesn’t automatically make those acts inherently abusive. The only thing that overgeneralising anal sex as abusive achieves is weaken the meaning of abuse and obscure real sexual violence.
If we label consensual acts as inherently abusive, we blur the line between sex and coercion and make it harder for women to identify and report actual violations.
We want women to be able to identify and report when they have been sexually violated. We don’t want them to think that any form of sex is inherently abusive or coercive so when they have been coerced, then it’s just the sex since it’s the nature of it by definition.
Women used to describe sex as “painful pleasure” because they thought that was just the way it was and no one ever told them that the pain was not an inherent part of the pleasure. We’ve come a long way from dismantling this misconception only for you guys to drag us back again.
And you all need to unpack your homophobia chineke. Many of you were sounding dangerously close to agreeing with the criminalisation of “carnal knowledge of any person against the order of nature” in the criminal code act.
Do better. This conversation has been incredibly jarring and unbearable to be honest.
Fọlá@lafemmefola
This anal sex conversation is a very good example of “misandrying your way into misogyny”. Ngmi
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@SaltyLego @doubtpointv2 Im fucking often and its good af...that doesnt mean its immune to patriarchal influence LMFAO hello?
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@doubtpointv2 It’s because they aren’t having sex. They’re virgins.
And I don’t say that in a derogatory way, it’s ok to be a virgin, but people who aren’t virgins and are actively having good sex, don’t have these opinions.
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Tweets like these always reminds me that literacy rates go down every single year 💔 holy wow
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You will never convince me sex is evil. You all sound insane to me. One day you will make love to someone while they gaze adoringly into your eyes and you will realize that sex is life.
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@H70603850 @hoesluvvace @Yoofi882635 @doubtpointv2 We exist in a patriarchal world...thats how. Begging you both to touch a book omg wow 💔
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@TitoSbakery @jessealordiah @FreckleFaceFvck LMFAO @ one of yours my guy, I’ll have her flown out by summer
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@solara144 nope. Not everyone who has power has the desire to abuse it, and even the recognition of power comes from being deprived of that power.
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@solara144 I don't know where you got that. I'm not implying anything of that sort, and in fact, I go on to talk about hot people who have power
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