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so this turned into a fight and i exploded and said i just feel like a wallet and a personal chauffeur to her and started sobbing
fox@soleitsorrow
why is my gf so bad at planning and getting details for me. i'm trying to bring her to the event with me tonight but she has work stuff before with her mom and she has literally no idea what, where, when anything is happening. she called her mom to ask if she needed-
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me: "i used to go to church with my parents every week and i got bullied really badly there "
them: "....."
me: "but yeah like you've seen the bibles in my living room so-"
gf's sibling: *turns to my gf* "do you remember the church we went to that one funeral at blah blah...."
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.... literally was talking about something from my childhood to my gf and her sibling and got ignored by both of them so bad and now theyre talking about something in their childhood related to what i said but they both just straight up ignored me and said nothing.... ok
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@SlvttyV0id @AlexAether1 @barkhearts yes it is, its called "communication" and if you care about your friends you would do it too. its always good to ask before talking about something you know will trigger someone
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@AlexAether1 @barkhearts @soleitsorrow It isnt a good friendship if you have to ASK before talking about something. Unless the other person sets clear boundaries, everything should be on the table.
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@SlvttyV0id @AlexAether1 @barkhearts no. i have made it clear that these conversations trigger me. i just dont want to talk about it with some friends. i am allowed to have boundaries and its very weird to think that friends arent allowed to have this
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@AlexAether1 @barkhearts @soleitsorrow Absolutely. My friends and I talk about literally everything, thats how healthy friendships work.
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