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girls being afraid of pap smears bc they have vaginismus or feel uncomfortable abt a violating medical procedure are both sluts that take 12inch cock daily and sex negative puritans afraid of losing their virginity, but men who are told not to watch porn are abuse victims okay

you are getting left behind

@IHYSLVT All up in my pussy’s business 🙄

i just can’t understand feeling genuine anger cause some girls don’t wanna use tampons or get a pap smear?!?!!

@Lossasten They will contribute to the 50% divorce rate

ma cousine (20 ans) va se marier dans 2 mois avec un gars qui pleure quand elle répond pas au tel (28 ans)

@bgpuente It’s truly not that hard to find a partner who will allow you to watch porn. Hell, there’s a lot of women out there who will watch porn WITH YOU. Go date them instead of pressuring other women to lower their standards for u.

@bgpuente U know hetero and homosexual relationship dynamics are often different, due to the social differences between men&women. Women are allowed to have boundaries and standards!! We are pressured to lower our standards all the time for men & you’re mad that we’re fighting against that

By policing your partner’s masturbation habits you’re keeping them from having a sexual relationship with themselves which is an important part of a healthy sex life. You don’t own your partner sexually because you’re in a relationship

@bgpuente What do you think we’re talking about lmao. This convo isn’t about being anti-masturbation, it’s specifically about not wanting your partner to masturbate to other women’s faces and bodies. Stay out of women’s business, u fucking weirdo

@sphynx50 Or maybe you're just a stupid person? Masturbation is very healthy & normal. The use of imagery outside one's own mind (tv, movies, magazines, videos, etc) to enhance your sensory experience is also VERY normal. You fucking losers just try pathologizing everything to feel smart.

@sengrahamresign Do they think lesbians are invincible to misogyny or something? We’re all pressured from a young age to conform and that doesn’t magically go away once you realize you’re attracted to women

on some level it is about conforming to patriarchal expectations for women yes

@afroxbabyyy Who’s Poly

anti poly😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@s4intfelina I’m addicted to a screen 😒

@s4intfelina Pretty much anything can become addicting

ik porn addiction isnt real bc nobody ever talks abt female porn addicts somehow its a gender specific addiction hmmmmm

@mama_moons Girlboss

what about the women who watch porn more than their boyfriends

@forcebutchfemme Women seeing other women as objects is so sad to me. Women are complex beings just like men are, which means they can be evil as well

@Nunya476247 @bobo_circus @babygottatype Do you think I’m against masturbation and fantasies? Can you people learn how to read PLEASE

@sphynx50 @bobo_circus @babygottatype People are always going to find ways to fulfill their fantasies, yes. If you as their partner don’t want to indulge those fantasies, it’s not hard to believe that they’ll instead fantasize mentally when they jerk off alone. This implies nothing about how their partner should act.

RE: the porn debate, I have bad news for people as to what happens when you attempt to bottle your partner's fantasy life for an extended period of time.

@wubfurr @bobo_circus @babygottatype Masturbation doesn’t have to involve jerking off to images of other people 🫩

@wubfurr @bobo_circus @babygottatype Who said that? 🫩

@Correctionaire @upmyallie In other words “lower your standards and be miserable”

@upmyallie Sure, you can, but it’s kinda stupid. You can also choose to get over yourself in a relationship

call me insane but I think you can actually have any boundary you like within a relationship. you’re allowed to not date people who watch porn, drink alcohol, gamble, do drugs if a partner doing those things would raise your cortisol and make you miserable

@upmyallie Yea and it’s not “controlling” or “manipulative” to have boundaries or standards

@bgpuente That’s such a stupid question omg

@evilsockz Not to mention like... do cishet women NOT want consent to apply in committed, monogamous relationships, or...? Your partner is (or hell, even YOU are) horny af at a time when their monogamous partner is: at work, asleep, out w/friends, not in the mood, etc...? What then?

@evilsockz I like porn too but it’s very sad if you can’t put it down once you get into a monogamous relationship. But if it’s really that important to you and your “sexual relationship with yourself,” you can easily find a partner who will be okay with it.

@evilsockz This is the same excuse cheaters make lolll. Let me fuck other people without consequence, it’s my body and my life!!