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saw a wild dolphin up close today at the beach 0.0

@hilosfemi2 I’m sorry, what?

about this whole porn debate, if porn is just normal fantasies would you hire a babysiter for your toddler that you know whatches diapers porn?? would like to see answers

@demon_dolI I love waking up before my bf. I get 3+ hours of alone time and he gets to sleep in. I’d be upset if he didn’t literally require cuddles to fall asleep

no one talks about the difficulties in having a bedtime gap relationship

I’m an empath so it really hurts my heart when you guys are fucking losers

@VrilVixen Not even proper English

@VrilVixen Really big gotcha to say what I said first

When I was younger, no one had PCOS. Now, 1 in 10 women have it, and it is the leading cause of infertility. I do think this was purposeful, and I'm sure birth control plays a part.

@VrilVixen This is what I meant

@VrilVixen Why do you feel the need to repeat yourself then. My tweet is not irrelevant

@TEEPHTREND Inositol cures 80% of PCOS cases because it’s caused by insulin resistance. I think vitamin D cures the rest but I can’t prove it yet

Women are literally finding self healing methods for PCOS on their own. They're trying to treat themselves. No healing methods are offered other than birth control pills. In an era where technology has advanced this much, they can't find a cure for PCOS.

@VrilVixen Yes. And?

@theangelness It has a side affect of infertility

ppl with pmos have always been advocating that pmos is an endocrinological issue and not a gynaecological one. birth control pills were seen as the primary treatment instead of addressing the underlying issue - ppl with pcos were never given treatment, just a bandaid

@moriah_bridges @LorentLouise When it’s respectful and you can tell the guy is really just trying to make you smile it is endearing. You have to know the difference, though

@LorentLouise Totally correct. I’m sure I’m in the vast minority here, but I think that respectful banter/flirtation from older men is really endearing. They’re not trying to make a move. They know you aren’t interested. They’re just trying to compliment you and make casual conversation.

Flirting is also not always romantic. One thing I miss about France is being flirted with by courteous (look up the origin of courteous) men of all ages, not as a pick up line but just as a polite thing to do (responding appropriately to flirting is also a whole social skill!)

@nappygamerr @mayorofutopia_ @layxsnv You should know than from then if you’re going to call people dumb

@mayorofutopia_ @layxsnv This is better then public schools

Okay, where are the English scholars, which one?

@rawmilkhoney You’re right

My unpopular opinion is relationships really shouldn’t and don’t have to be that hard and two people can very easily live in harmony with each other if they both have self awareness and are considerate of one another. Relationships can and should be fairly easy and fighting is really just unnecessary

@Brumairian What kind of love is eternal then?

@theangelness I think this is also the ideal. Erotic love specifically is not eternal.

I hate being asked if I'm still hung up on my wife in some manner that would negatively impact a new relationship primarily because it reveals a deep misunderstanding about what love actually is and how relationships work and I get angry at this misapprehension and need to fix it

@Brumairian Thank you for explaining. It does make sense. Romantic love for you has to have possibility in the future. Can’t say it’s ideal, but it does make sense

When my wife died, in the immediate aftermath there was obviously turmoil, but at four years on now we've moved locations and built a new life (with its own problems, don't get me wrong) so that the memory of it all is very distant now. For me, my wife is not really a romantic object anymore. She is the mother of my children. I've lost many family members of all ages in recent years and frankly her memory has transitioned to beloved family who has passed on. There is love there, of course, but it is no longer 𝑒𝑟𝑜𝑠 because there is no shared future to imagine anymore with her. Instead, it is now a kind of 𝑠𝑡𝑜𝑟𝑔𝑒 embodied through our children. Not sure if this all makes sense, but really for me erotic love is very much about possibilities and anticipation and shared futures, and I think this is the healthiest form of it. When she was alive there was great passion because we still had a future together. Once that was taken away, it was gone.

I hate being around people who mistake my childlike wonder as naivety or weakness. I am simply a war general who loves to giggle.

They kinda bank on the silence of women, I’m afraid. Sometimes a crash out is necessary.