Timileyin Ad Adefolarogba
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Timileyin Ad Adefolarogba
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B.A Ed, writer, poet, techie. Love football, lover, politics, teaching, travel. Connect!



We are the first generation of Uncles and Aunties not fighting for land cos we no get anything




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The random night you clock some BS from 3 years ago

My mother-in-law stayed with us for 4 days and noticed I hadn’t swept the house once. She called me and asked why. I told her we have a cleaner who comes weekly and he was due the next day. The way she looked at me… She asked what exactly I do that I can’t sweep as a young woman, and why I’m “wasting” my husband’s money on a cleaner for a small 2-bedroom. I was about to reply when my husband spoke. He said, “I didn’t marry her to do chores… and it’s just 20k.” she got angry, went inside, came back with a broom and started sweeping. My husband and I just raised our legs for her to pass 😭 She looked at us, dropped the broom, and walked away. She stayed in her room till evening. The next day, the cleaner came as usual… and she left shortly after without saying a word to me. It’s been months now. She hasn’t called. She doesn’t pick mine either. I’m even thinking of calling her with my husband’s phone to beg… but he says I should leave her. I don’t even know what to do anymore. Should I just let her be? Was I actually wrong?

My mother-in-law stayed with us for 4 days and noticed I hadn’t swept the house once. She called me and asked why. I told her we have a cleaner who comes weekly and he was due the next day. The way she looked at me… She asked what exactly I do that I can’t sweep as a young woman, and why I’m “wasting” my husband’s money on a cleaner for a small 2-bedroom. I was about to reply when my husband spoke. He said, “I didn’t marry her to do chores… and it’s just 20k.” she got angry, went inside, came back with a broom and started sweeping. My husband and I just raised our legs for her to pass 😭 She looked at us, dropped the broom, and walked away. She stayed in her room till evening. The next day, the cleaner came as usual… and she left shortly after without saying a word to me. It’s been months now. She hasn’t called. She doesn’t pick mine either. I’m even thinking of calling her with my husband’s phone to beg… but he says I should leave her. I don’t even know what to do anymore. Should I just let her be? Was I actually wrong?



























