Oluwatobi Oladejo

@tobyasky I take her into a stall in the male toilet. I go in ahead to be sure everyone is decent, but everyone always is anyway.

Girl dads, when you take your daughters out, let's say they're between ages 4-8 and they want to use the bathroom, what do you do? Remember you cannot take the child to the male toilet, neither can you go into the female toilet, and she needs your assistance. Share your experience?

A couple of years ago my life was saved by a very special man. His name is Hanny Anwar. He’s a surgeon at the Royal National Orthopaedic Hospital. He removed the cancer from the base of my spine. Along with a lot of bone. But he did so much more than that. Surgeons have a reputation for being cocky, arrogant and cursed with poor people skills. Hanny isn't like that. As well as being exceptionally gifted, he's also a very thoughtful and spiritual man. Once he'd diagnosed my cancer as chordoma, he explained to me that it has a very high recurrence rate. On average, there's a 60% chance that chordomas return. I was trying to get my head around this. That I was going to put myself through brutal surgery with a long recovery, losing bladder bowel and sexual function... to emerge with the odds against me. Hanny said something to me that I'll never forget. He reassured me that if the cancer did return that it could be treated with radiotherapy or further surgery. He told me that the hospital treats patients with recurrent cancer that live for decades. 'So if it comes back, it's not necessarily a death sentence?', I asked. 'No more than life is', he replied. Wow. It was such a great answer, I burst out laughing. In that moment I knew that I completely trusted him. I felt immensely privileged to be his patient. Along with his colleague who also operated on me, John Afolayan, he is currently trekking ONE HUNDRED KILOMETRES across THE SAHARA DESERT. It will take them five days. Yes, they're insane. But they’re doing it to raise money for the @thernohcharity.    All the money raised goes back into NHS services at the hospital to help more patients in the future. The Royal National Orthopaedic Hospital is our only national orthopaedic hospital. It treats patients from all over the country, including injured service personnel and people like me who suffer from rare bone cancer. Anything you can give will make a massive difference. Surely they deserve it. Thank you. justgiving.com/campaign/rnohs…

If you have a good wife and she’s better at managing money than you, build a budget together and let her manage it while you stay involved. Tell your ego to go stand in the corner. A good wife is an advantage.

Please the deadline to use preordered Onobiren tickets is This Friday. Please retweet! #OnobirenTheMovie

So if 30 people buy 100 tickets each now, we will cross 100m this week be that. Tickets cost an average of 10k. Please retweet for Destiny helpers to see. I want more young girls to see #OnobirenTheMovie

Usually when I read things written about me,I would wonder who this person is. But in recent times, I am learning to pat myself on the back and agree that I deserve all the accolades. Up femco!!!

I still can’t forget that experience till today. I was at the office when I got a call from Mummy Dabz. Her voice was shaking… she sounded worried, almost crying. She said, “Your beautiful girl woke up but she can’t move. Both her legs are stiff.” All I said was, “I’m coming.” I immediately closed my laptop, picked up my bag, and rushed out of the office. But as I got close to the gate, I heard a quiet nudge in my spirit: “Where are you rushing to? To do what exactly? Have you prayed about it?” I stopped. I turned back, went into the office restroom, knelt down, and prayed. All I said was: “God, I trust her completely in Your hands. Not because I’m the best father in the world, but because from the very day she was born, I entrusted her to You. Even her name reflects that.” I wiped my tears, called my wife, and told her: “Please get olive oil, massage her legs, and keep praying. Once I get home, we’ll take her to the clinic if needed.” In less than 45 minutes, I got home. Guess who ran to welcome me at the door? Daberechi. I looked at my wife and asked, “Is this a prank?” From the look on her face, I knew she was just as shocked as I was. She said, “After you told me to massage her legs with the olive oil… I did. Next thing, she stood up, walked to the parlour, sat on her chair, and started watching Superbook.” I just smiled, looked up, and quietly said: “Chukwu Olisa… thank You for Your name.”🙏🙏

@MisolaofJesus @Dayveed_Ade My dad has always held this opinion, and I'm better for it. Definitely doing the same.

I understand the desire to give our children a better life than the one we had. Many of us worked hard, did difficult jobs, and hustled in ways we hope our children will never have to. But while we try to remove the hardship, we must not remove the values that shaped us. Things like discipline, the sense of responsibility, the willingness to work hard, the humility to start small and many more. If we protect them from every struggle without teaching them these things, we may unintentionally raise children who are comfortable but unprepared. Give them better opportunities, yes. But also give them the character that helped you get where you are. Comfort without values can easily turn into laziness and that is not the legacy any parent hopes to leave.

Let’s pretend that this the only weekend we have for this film. Let’s acts like these are the only showtimes we would ever get. Pre-ordered tickets? New tickets? Show up en masse please! Find out where and when. Onobiren.com/showtimes

When you see this, please retweet and say ONOBIREN! See cinematography nau! We need 2k retweets on this please! First official trailer for sweet film, out in cinemas on March 6th! Thank you!

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I’m offering a free investment guide for anyone in the UK who wants to start investing in global stocks… properly. I’ll show you: • How to open the right brokerage account in the UK • How to access US & global stocks • What to actually buy as a beginner • How to avoid rookie mistakes that cost money • How to think long term, not emotional I’m keeping it small on purpose. Only 5 people. Offer ends tomorrow. If you’re serious, comment GLOBAL or send me a DM.

@Yinkaoke 😂😂😂

For extra 5m, I will buy plenty ice for the fire please

Please could you repost when you see this? We need lots of eyeballs! Onobiren from @lajuirenfilms is coming to cinemas March 6 to herald the women’s month! But you can preorder tickets from January 30th at Onobiren.com

@DrETKandi @DHKRULLAH collect your sub o, defender of manual cars😜

Leaving extra commuting time to factor in being behind manual car drivers that don’t know how to switch gears smoothly and take forever to build speed from a stationary position😩

@DrETKandi Great to hear this. I appreciate when people take lessons from experiences, even the unpleasant ones, and become better people.

At the East Midlands leadership program face to face session and some reflections are taking me back to HJ - as terrible as some experienced were, they’ve really influenced my active decision to become a compassionate leader.

@DHKRULLAH Oga mi abeg check DM

Any money I made from gigs this year will be used to buy NGX

I was talking recently with someone who is at the apex of his field globally, and he told me Psalm 37:4 carried him through a season of chaos and disappointment. I went back and studied not just the verse but the two that follow, and I haven’t been the same since. “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” It says DELIGHT. Not obey, not tolerate, not fear. Basically enjoy. That word changes everything. God isn’t after robotic compliance. He wants to be the center of gravity in your inner world. Not a side interest. Not a Sunday ritual. The thing your mind returns to when everything goes quiet. But here’s the tension: how do you actually enjoy God? We enjoy the things we enjoy cos we understand them. You can’t enjoy football if you don’t understand the point of the game. You can’t love someone deeply if you don’t know who they actually are or what moves them. The same applies to God. You start by understanding who He is and why He exists. God didn’t create us out of loneliness or need. He existed in perfect, self-sufficient love before time began. Creation was overflow, not deficit. Which means His desire for you is based on communion. His purpose is to unite the world to Himself because in Him is the only source of actual life. When God becomes what delights you, something both subtle and seismic happens: your desires change. Whatever delights you shapes what you love and what you chase. Anyone who’s ever been in love knows this instinctively. So when the Psalm says He will give you the desires of your heart, it’s not promising to grant your current cravings. It’s saying He rewrites your appetite entirely. He plants His own longings inside you, for truth, depth, holiness, courage, love and then fulfills what He Himself planted. God never fails to accomplish His own desires. That’s why verse 5 feels so dangerous: “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will bring it to pass.” We recoil from that line cos we think surrender means erasure, as if God wants to override who we are. But why would a God who was already complete need to dominate us? Everything about His nature points the opposite direction; toward overwhelming, self-giving love. He is more sufficient in Himself than a father without children, yet He sustains us more faithfully than any earthly father ever could. Our desires are often small and short-sighted, like a child demanding candy instead of dreaming of a future. We insist we know what we want. We’re adults with full agency. But God is infinitely greater, infinitely wiser, not just as a father compared to a child, but as the eternal architect of reality compared to one of His creations. He knows what will actually make us whole. Now look how the passage ends: “He will bring forth your righteousness like the dawn, and your justice like the noonday sun.” It doesn’t say His righteousness. It says yours. He will vindicate you, reveal the truth about who you are, and set things right. The sequence is crisp and beautiful. God captures your heart, redirects your path, then restores your name. And He does it emphatically; like the noonday sun. You can’t miss it. You can’t ignore it. You can’t pretend it’s not there.

I woke up this morning with a single line playing in my head: I fought my father’s fears and won. ​ Saying this now still sounds unreal, because that’s not the kind of child I was meant to be.

The name on the passport/file is Aderinboye Kolade, Aderinboye Lolade and more. It’s mostly South Africa passport and some other documents. Please help me retweet this.