Tom Greene/Wit & Wisdom
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Tom Greene/Wit & Wisdom
@tomgreenewrites
Syndicated columnist exploring whether the life you’re building is actually the one you want to wake up in when time runs out.🐝



Valedictorians rarely become millionaires. Why? Because they’re rule followers, not rule breakers. They settle into the system instead of transforming it. Meanwhile, the C-students doodling in the back had time for music, writing, coding whatever actually lit them up. That free spirit spark often matters more than straight A’s. I would’ve been right there with them, probably drawing cartoons in the margin while the teacher talked about the periodic table. Every spring we watch kids (and parents) tie their entire future to one thin envelope from strangers. But here’s the quiet truth most success advice gets wrong: the “right” college, perfect grades, and following every rule rarely lead to the life that actually matters. Real success has more to do with grit, curiosity, and the courage to chase things other people call impossible. And even then… none of it really matters if you end up rich and lonely at the end of the day. A life well lived is measured in significance, not just success in relationships, kindness, and coming home to people (and maybe a good dog) who actually know you. So whether your kid got the fat envelope or the thin one this year, breathe. The valedictorian may get the plaque. The kid doodling in the back may just change the world. Both still have to learn how to love well and show up for the people who matter. What’s your story? Were you the straight-A kid or the one in the back of the classroom? I’d love to hear it 99% of thoughtful replies get answered. Talk to Tom. Sign up for free weekly Wit & Wisdom at www.tomgreene.comOr listen on Spotify. #WitAndWisdom #LifeLessons





6 harsh truths about "success" no one tells you in school: Valedictorians rarely become millionaires they're rule-followers, not rule-breakers. Grades barely matter. Average millionaire GPA? Just 2.9. College doesn't matter. Many billionaires dropped out (Jobs, Zuckerberg, Musk...). Performance is overrated ass-kissing predicts success better. Jerks often finish first. Assertiveness > being "nice." The school of hard knocks beats the Ivy League. Adversity fuels grit. Real winners have grit, not gold stars. 🔥 What shocked you most? 👇












