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@D6031Debbie @KE_MrBlack Rage bait ? When you no even get blue tick
You funny oo😂
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@topboy_focus @KE_MrBlack Ode
It's just a rage bait
Make una go sit down.
A lot y'all yapping will go and beg behind closed doors
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@NwadibiePatrick @DetectiveC33345 @friendly_tag @dandeegamer @ItsAmahAdoma Them no dey ever get reply. Their thinking dey very shallow and limited.
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@topboyjay001 @DetectiveC33345 @friendly_tag @dandeegamer @ItsAmahAdoma Make I comment so that I go see her reply
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@affluent_seyi @StanleyAgu15 @esther_stan The fact that you felt this post is cruise shows how stupid you are. You can't even discern the difference between a cruise post and one that's not. You just wanna chip in your silly bit with your shallow sense of reasoning. Dummy with blue tick.
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@topboyjay001 @StanleyAgu15 @esther_stan If you are not the most foolish and easy to be misled being, then you won't assume I'm supporting rubbish when I only stated "we should take things seriously and not cruise with what's harmful to our health".
Ode gbogbo
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@affluent_seyi @StanleyAgu15 @esther_stan If you ain't slow you're definitely stupid. There's always one fool in every comment trying to support rubbish.
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@StanleyAgu15 @esther_stan See you wey no slow, dey call yourself future governor after your future don pass. Dey play!
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@DetectiveC33345 @friendly_tag @dandeegamer @ItsAmahAdoma But you wanna be spent on and spoiled. You want him solving all your financial problems but have nothing to bring to the table??
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@friendly_tag @dandeegamer @ItsAmahAdoma I am talking about the ones who just expect women to just cook and clean bro
Like imagine she's working free labour and don't wanna spend money on her ??
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@DetectiveC33345 @dandeegamer @ItsAmahAdoma 😂 he's talking nonsense when it's the other way around??
Y'all are never real.
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@dandeegamer @ItsAmahAdoma You are talking nonsense buddy
If you want a servant/maid you pay them right?
Why is the woman cleaning and cooking supposed to be free labour?
It's only fair if she gets money for baring with your stupidity
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@rabidreaperX @JonDoeil4k @Layyenne @ItsAmahAdoma This logic has nothing to do with feminism. Women have been using men for finacial gain since the dawn of time.
Men like you must never get laid and blame everything on feminism. When the feal issue is that no one likes you
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@Mitch_mezie @Wizarab10 I know your type.😂 so cheating back means I don’t hold my body in high esteem? In what way please😂
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@Jaynne_pearl @Adun_____ @oluwatxsinn Noo, absolutely nothing wrong with it. She has zero sense of humour and too uptight. Make she go relax first.
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@Adun_____ @oluwatxsinn Lmaoo 😅
You just dull. Ain't nothing wrong with his line.
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@oluwatxsinn Should incase fortunate people that stays around Lekki,Ajah and it’s environs come across this tweet,My name is Adunola and I make nice cakes,small chops,I curate gifts and surprises for all kinds of events. Check out my page @jeadun on IG and TikTok.
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@Bhadboy_PRESTON @NeroMontero1 @Teeniiola Look at this simping idiot 🤦🏽
Your types are everywhere. Low self-esteem fool.
This is the game yall talk about??
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@NeroMontero1 @Teeniiola This not about being shameless lol .
You will use money to get babe attention. E Dey sup well well . lol
No come here Dey form saint guy .
E get some kind babe wey you go like you go need use money draw attention. The disadvantage is it’s does pay .
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@Charmer4real @yaygha @ukandi_one You're dull. That's why you feel it's an epistle and not necessary.
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@yaygha @ukandi_one All these epistle no necessary. Just tell him to walk away. Whether she invest or not - which in his case is not stated. She doesn't rate the guy, he must therefore walk away.
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The quality of the lies she tells you, is a reflection of
1. her estimation of your intelligence
2. Her level of investment in the relationship.
If she thinks you're smart (or smarter than her), she will put more effort into making her lies believeable
Similarly, if she has made considerable emotional and material investment in the relationship and so, exposure and a break up would come at great cost to her, she will be more deliberate and convincing with her lies.
The inverse then, is equally true.
If she thinks you're slow (or slower than her), you will get low effort lies; the kind Wike and Tinubu give us, delivered with either the expectation that you will believe them or indifference as to whether or not you do.
Same logic applies where there is a substantial asymmetry in investment.
If you've been the one doing a disproportionate amount of the heavy lifting in the relationship (initiating a vast majority of the calls, texting first, replying instantly while she doesn't, always viewing her statuses, pushing for visits, apologising, self diminishing to accomodate her etc), you signal/evince that you need the relationship more than she does because you have invested much more than she has.
And because of that substantial imbalance, she will be less motivated to make her lies convincing. Whether or not you believe them becomes an irrelevant consideration, because the consequence of your disbelief (possible break up) carries a higher cost for you than it does for her.
Under that dynamic, low effort lies like this one, become commonplace.
You cannot stop anybody from cheating, lying or betraying. But you can make the cost of doing so so high, the risks demonstrably outweigh the reward.
The higher the risks, the stronger the deterrence and the less likely they are to betray. The lower the risks the weaker the deterrence and the more likely they are to betray.
Stated in another way, you cannot control what anyone chooses to do, but you can control what it costs them to do it, and force them to calculate if that cost is worth paying.
So what it comes down to really, are
- perception
- investment
- and leverage
With those keywords in mind, analyse your relationship or marriage (past and present) and you will see why things are/were the way they are.
Goodluck
Renny@R_nnyu
See time wey this girl dey talk Goodnight💔
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