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@charise_lee A lot of men crying in the comments. These women are mimicking behaviours men show ALL the time. There will be women in meetings this week who are talked over, ignored, ridiculed… you’ve seen the Tates and the hench male influencers? It’s how we teach boys to talk to women.

@Onosetalee @TosinOlugbenga Thank you, Onose!

@TosinOlugbenga @tulz_o

From June 1st, I will be heading the engineering and technical team of a health startup based in Lagos Nigeria (presently worth $20 million in valuation) I will be recruiting 10 people into the engineering team for the following positions. QAs Product Owners AI Engineers DevOps Software Engineers (Full Stack) That’s a lot of work for me to handle the recruitment process because we don’t have HR yet. I can only handle the technical interviews. Is there any recruitment agency you can recommend?

Yup. The kidnapping happened before the Oyo kidnappings. And the age range of a majority of the kids kidnapped is between 2-5 years old. They kidnapped TODDLERS.

Single sex schools give many girls something surprisingly rare: the experience of seeing women occupy every level of authority without explanation or exception. Entire institutions run by women. So no one will ever convince me that women are incompetent.

consequences

1. “Men are more decisive” Men are generally more risk-taking and overconfident, due to testosterone which can look like decisiveness. That does not mean better decisions. 2.“Men are more emotionally stable” Men often externalize emotions through aggression, violence, or substance abuse. Suppressing emotions is not emotional stability. 3. “Men focus better” Research does not show men universally focus better. Women often outperform men in academic consistency and long-term task discipline. 4.“Men are more audacious” Men take more risks, but risk-taking is not automatically courage or competence. Many risky behaviors lead to worse outcomes 5.“Men are stronger willed” Women statistically show better health compliance, consistency, and lower impulsive criminal behavior all linked to self-control. 6.“Men communicate, women yap” Studies show men interrupt women more in conversations. Women simply tend to communicate more collaboratively and emotionally and that’s not weakness. 7. “Men take responsibility” Male crime, violence, reckless driving, and abandonment statistics do not support the idea that men are inherently more accountable. 8.“Accountability to women is kryptonite to men” If that were true, men would not statistically dominate violent crime, fraud, corruption, and institutional abuse cases globally. 9.“Men are more assertive” Men are generally socialized to be more dominant, not inherently more competent or correct. Women are often penalized socially for the same assertiveness. 10.“Men solve problems, women complain” Women solve problems daily in medicine, science, engineering, education, households, and leadership. Emotional discussion is also a valid problem-solving tool. 11. “Men are more resilient” Women live longer on average, survive illnesses more often, recover better socially after hardship, and historically endure major physical stresses like childbirth. 12.“We have penises, y’all don’t” That is anatomy, not evidence of superiority. By that logic, peacocks are superior to humans because they have larger tail feathers. Finally, you cannot be superior to the gender who creates you.

Lauretta’s life is on the line. Please help us save her 🥹. Donate what you can, and if you can’t, please retweet. Every bit and every share brings her closer to another chance at life. God bless you, thank you.🥹🙏🙏

Nigerian pastors are the highest enablers of irresponsible behavior in marriage with their toxic advice

“There are many fishes in the ocean” says men but most forgets the golden one is the better one. He messed up his marriage to a good woman and after years of moving around he finds out there’s no one like his wife, I’m so glad she took her dignity and left rather than keep trying to make things work and run herself to the ground.

Dedem Alzheimer olduktan sonra bizi bazen tanıyor, bazen yabancı gibi bakıyordu. Ama bir şey hiç değişmiyordu. Sürekli aynı kadını soruyordu. “Şermin geldi mi?” “Şermin yemek yedi mi?” “Şermin hâlâ bana kırgın mı?” Evde herkes birbirine bakıyordu çünkü ailemizde Şermin diye biri yoktu. İlk başta hastalık yüzünden kafası karışıyor sandık. Ama gün geçtikçe bu isim dedemin diline değil, sanki kalbine yerleşmiş gibi oldu. Sabah gözünü açar açmaz onu soruyordu. Hatta bir gün anneannemin elini tutup: “Şermin, gitme…” dedi. Anneannemin yüzündeki o kırgınlığı hâlâ unutamıyorum. Bir akşam dedem kayboldu. Evde yoktu. Hepimiz panik olduk. Saatlerce sokak sokak aradık. En sonunda eski mahallelerinin olduğu tarafta, kapalı bir apartmanın önünde bulduk onu.++

Seeing your home girl losing herself and crying herself to sleep builds resentment.

He’s angry that he tried to give his wife HIV but she refused to take it 🤣

Pattern Recognition is also the form of intelligence that causes the most stress. You will see things that others do not. You'll feel crazy. Things will be *so obvious* to you, and others will just deny it.

You cannot: ​Work full time, raise children, keep a spotless home, show up fully in your marriage, maintain friendships, stay fit, build wealth, read books, pursue hobbies, serve only home cooked meals, answer every email, and still make the 3:30 school pickup. ​That standard was created to keep you exhausted and blaming yourself. Let it go.

These women and children are yet to be released. Happy Saturday, Nigerians

Kids. Children are not allowed to have a childhood anymore. Children are having adult worries. Children are fleeing from terrorists.

@TosinOlugbenga Hello Tosin, @aphrconsult does Recruitment and Managed HR services for startups and scaleups alike (aphrconsult.com) They also specialise mostly in the technology space. I’m happy to do an introduction if you don’t mind. Followed you already!

@dammiedammie35 I love how she loves her husband and I pray their efforts lead to success. Money is very important but you just know when you’re with your person… nothing else really matters.

“My family abandoned me because of my husband but I’ll never leave him”🥹🧎🏻‍♂️‍➡️

@mistergeezy It’s betrayal… he tricked her into letting his mom pick up the dress knowing she planned to do this behind her back. Unacceptable. Marrying him now would be willfully signing up for more of this in their marriage. Nope.

@mistergeezy Convinced her to let his mom pick up the dress by calling her paranoid, knowing what his mom planned to do. His mom wasn’t the only one trying to be controlling. 😒