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Why are Muslims still making marriage and prayer time apps in 2026? Unbelievable man

He knows the rulings





My golden hour with my first baby was a mess. My midwife put him on my chest but never explained what was supposed to happen. I just laid there, clueless. I kept trying to latch him myself but was struggling. Then I got interrupted multiple times for weighing and measuring. My entire breastfeeding journey with my first was a disaster because I went in blind and learned everything the hard way. By my second, I had a swiss army knife of knowledge from all the research and mistakes. When my midwife placed that baby on my chest, I watched something I'll never forget. She started kicking her tiny legs against my stomach, rooting her head side to side, pushing herself up toward my breast. Within 10 minutes she latched on her own. She did not need my help or guidance. It was pure instinct. This is called the breast crawl. A newborn placed skin to skin on the mother's chest will use her legs and arms to push herself toward the breast. She can't even see properly yet. Her vision is blurry and she can a max distance of 12 inches. But she doesn't need to see... She smells the amniotic fluid on the nipple, which smells like the world she just came from. The areola also darkens during pregnancy so the baby can see the contrast even with blurry vision. Between scent, rooting reflex, and the stepping reflex in her legs, she crawls her way there. God designed this so perfectly it's hard to believe. Too many hospitals still interrupt this by weighing, measuring, and bathing the baby within minutes. Every one of those interruptions breaks the sequence. If you're pregnant, tell your birth team this: nothing happens in the first hour. Baby stays on my chest. Everything else can wait.











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