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ENTP - I will argue for the sake of arguing. ADHD blablabla Binsung. One and only admin of @vipbaepsaesales

Germany Katılım Haziran 2021
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@BIG_PARMENIDES personally I don't want to have any biological children but if I ever felt the need to have a child, I'd adopt. particularly older kids are unfortunately not as popular as babies and sure they adjust harder but isn't it beautiful that you could give such a child a loving family?
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Not A Commie
Not A Commie@BIG_PARMENIDES·
I regret not having kids. I’m finally ready to admit that to myself. I mean, I guess I still could but I’m not sure how fair that’d be to do to a child since I’m in my 40’s.
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@xxoona_ I had waited to see Stray Kids again for 6 years and I had saved up for when they did come last year. I went to 4 of their Europe shows in 3 countries to also make travelling my summer vacation and every show had a different vibe to it.
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oona ☆
oona ☆@xxoona_·
genuine question for people who got multiple tickets 1. why do you need to see the show more than once as the stage show is essentially the same 2. how do you have the money to afford the show and in some cases flights etc
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@enchantedflms Kids literally heat up faster than adults and also sweat less. Heat is literally more dangerous to them.
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eliza ˙⋆✮
eliza ˙⋆✮@enchantedflms·
“kids can’t sit in a classroom with no AC! it’s diabolical!!” when ur kids are 30 and working in hot places like a kitchen or construction or factory, are you gonna go pick ur kid up from work when it gets too hot???? be so for real right now 😭😭
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@_NYMPH666 @lcjones0710 @positionses @PopBase in the group phase everyone plays everyone in the group. Games like these can still have an impact if 2 teams have the same amount of points, then the amount of goals matters. plus they got the teams there already and don't wanna cancel and loose money lol.
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NYMPH@_NYMPH666·
@lcjones0710 @positionses @PopBase But then my question is if usa already had 2 wins and turkey had 2 losses why have em compete against each other if they knew USA was gonna move on but turkey wasn't?
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Pop Base@PopBase·
Despite their win against the USA tonight, Turkey is eliminated from the World Cup.
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@john_woody @LonelyGoomba when getting pumped out, the air will actually heat up (thermodynamic laws) and due to cities already being extreme heat traps (urban heat island), we in fact are warming up our cities by using AC. There's no winning 🤌
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John@john_woody·
@LonelyGoomba AC doesn’t use a lot of power, because it’s just energy transfer from indoors to outdoors. With the productivity boost of not losing 3 months to extreme heat, maybe your smart scientists can help find solutions to the climate issue.
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LonelyGoomba
LonelyGoomba@LonelyGoomba·
I like how the response to this unprecedented heat, is "get AC". Like, ok. But if everyone got AC isn't that just gonna have a massive environmental impact which will only accelerate these climate issues? I guess we're fucked either way.
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@icod No. I give mine wet food only once a day now at night and besides that they snack dry food occasionally and drink water. they're sluggish and sleep even more than usual
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iCod@icod·
Can I just check, no one's cat is eating much at the moment ?
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@blitzkriegbauer @_celia_bedelia_ I literally don't give a single fuck for everyone's semantics about immoral/unethical I just think being late is disrespectful and not doing anything about it (like treating the underlying disorder) but whining about the consequences is childish but that's as deep as I judge.
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@hello82BERLIN PLEASE let us know prices and limits so people don't queue if they cannot get what they want
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hello82 BERLIN
hello82 BERLIN@hello82BERLIN·
📢 WEATHER ADVISORY 📢 Due to high temperatures forecasted in BERLIN this weekend, we encourage all event attendees to take necessary precautions, including drinking water and bringing umbrellas, to mitigate the heat. We advise checking local weather/news outlets to prepare any necessary weather attire/protection. Thank you for your patience and understanding. Please prioritize your safety!
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@eleanoir Absolutely not! I'm always super early to everything bc I cannot imagine not sticking to my word of being there at a specific time. I got diagnosed with 9/9 on inattentiveness and know that time isn't linear but I wouldn't dare making that anyone else's problem
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barbara johnson stan account
barbara johnson stan account@eleanoir·
Sorry to gatekeep but real ADHDers are both late and early. I’ve embarrassed myself by showing up at a party two hours ahead of time. I’ve signing into zooms that were for 7pm at 7am. Like I’m sorry but you don’t have ADHD unless you do both
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Gzalzi
Gzalzi@Gzalzi·
Alright dude. Do you think I wanted to flunked out of college and get fired from basically every job I've had on purpose, because I didn't care? Have spent months having intense anxiety over minor things that would take only a little bit to fix. And you think this is a choice?
Nyx@voidpires

Maybe I’m not woke enough but I don’t understand “I take all the possible precautions an agonize over being punctual but I’m always mysteriously late to every single thing I go to” people. Like I don’t think I believe you man

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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@percivoreart If we talking like 5 min or delays out of our control, then it's not disrespectful (but do write them what's going on) but there are so many people who are just nonchalant about already being 30 min late, you message them and they be like "leaving now" and they get there 2h later
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🍌PERCIVORE🍖 🔜AVCON !!!!
🍌PERCIVORE🍖 🔜AVCON !!!!@percivoreart·
I agree that people should give a little grace if someone struggles to manage their time well (me I’m talking about me) but the perception that it’s disrespectful is because if the person you are meeting is on time often or always it’s perceived that you don’t value their time.
matargashti-pilled 🇵🇸@dilrhubarb

I'm so tired of lateness being viewed as a moral failing. I've been shamed for it my whole life because it's framed as "disrespect" (and no, it hasn't helped me be more punctual) and if I lost out on a major life opportunity because of it I don't think I could have ever recovered

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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@bl00dandsugar @Gzalzi yah, do not set the alarm early. you literally just give yourself 1-2 min to pee before leaving, put on some shoes and GO. Get ready earlier in the day, have a prepacked bag if you need one, and just up and go as soon as the alarm rings.
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Soph ❤️🩸
Soph ❤️🩸@bl00dandsugar·
@vipbaepsae @Gzalzi I set my clock on my phone 15 minutes early so that everything would go off early even and I would always think I was early but since I knew I had set my phone 15 minutes early my brain always thought I had more time. ALWAYS.
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@frahnetic @Gzalzi I mean you can also just roll over and do absolutely nothing and cry about how mean everyone is or you treat the underlying condition if you're so dysfunctional that coping mechanisms don't work on you. you get the nice tone back bc you've been a peach ❤️
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/@frahnetic·
@vipbaepsae @Gzalzi It's a shit example and all of your suggested tips will be useless for people who are chronically late and actually struggle with this, not out of choice.
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@arakkosuperstar from what I've read in the whole discourse they rather just roll over and blame the world for being mean rather than doing anything about their underlying condition or just accept that they're asses who could do better but just don't wanna (if they don't have an actual disorder)
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leo of arakko says 🔺RESIST🔺
leo of arakko says 🔺RESIST🔺@arakkosuperstar·
chronically late people would rather abstract their friends frustration with them into a form of oppression than simply make an effort to show up on time
bri love🇵🇸@mclovenxoxo

sorry you’ll never convince me that the “lateness is a moral failing” isn’t rooted in colonization and capitalism, it’s CONTROL!!! and I get we live in a society blah blah blah but if it’s ur friends you know is always late tell them an earlier time or whatever but acting like it’s a moral failing is so puritanical and silly sometimes you just got to accept people as they are

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/@frahnetic·
@vipbaepsae @Gzalzi Wow I'm sure no one is who is late has ever thought of this?
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@omglolbah @Gzalzi I mean you can twist what I said to make you feel better if that's what you need. I have empathy, trust me, I have severe ADHD which makes life harder than it should be but that doesn't change that *I* need to find the solutions for my life, nobody just gon hand them to me.
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Hjönk Hjönk
Hjönk Hjönk@omglolbah·
@vipbaepsae @Gzalzi Yeah, and it can take literal decades to find something that works for some people, no matter the effort put in. Being flippant about it and not showing any kind of empathy about the struggles is incredibly counter-productive and just pushes people into shame.
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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@NxtDeterio I have severe ADHD and I agree that there need to be more accommodations BUT the individual living with it also needs to do their part in living with it and find solutions, SEEK the available options. Like your glasses can't help you if you don't put them on kinda situation.
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Deterio 🦍🇵🇸🔻
Deterio 🦍🇵🇸🔻@NxtDeterio·
I'm disheartened by the response to this when applied to the context of ADHD so i essentially wrote an article on ADHD/disability accommodation I'm dumping here in a long 2020 ass thread. My argument is not "being late is okay", it's that we should have more compassion for people
matargashti-pilled 🇵🇸@dilrhubarb

I'm so tired of lateness being viewed as a moral failing. I've been shamed for it my whole life because it's framed as "disrespect" (and no, it hasn't helped me be more punctual) and if I lost out on a major life opportunity because of it I don't think I could have ever recovered

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VIPBAEPSAE@vipbaepsae·
@BlkNaCl I mean in rare cases it's just straight up intended disrespect and if it's rare or just a couple min it's whatever but when people be like "oh yeah I'm leaving now" 20 min into the meet-up time and particularly not reaching out first to inform, then it is a disrespect problem
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HayleyLDN
HayleyLDN@BlkNaCl·
ppl determined to feel disrespected by others lateness are strange to me cause why would you make that choice. it can be about disrespect but those types will be selfish in other ways so it will be evident. why make other ppls childcare issues/health whatever about you? weird imo
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