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With the mindset of many Gen Z men, I hope some of you will not divorce your future wives if they lose their jobs.
I have said it many times: before you get married, have the 'I can do it alone' mindset. Do not decide to marry a woman mainly because she earns her own money.
Remove your eyes from her money and plan your future with her with your own money.
A woman's money is not sweet to taste.
A woman doesn't have to work to make money, before she qualifies to be a wife and mother.
If you're not ready to start thinking this way, please avoid marriage.
The fact that women get up to 4 months maternity leave (in some countries, more), should tell you that a woman's place of recognition and strength is mostly from being a mother, a home maker, a nurturer and a wife.
See her money as a bonus, or rather, an additional privilege to you.
Not your right.
Not your entitlement.
Not your inheritance.
Not your dependable source, but your reliable source.
A wife that is playing her roles effectively and efficiently, is not a liability.
I don't care what any of you wokist or "in saner" climes pundits want to say about this.
This is Africa. And Africa remains the true foundation of family values.
We educate women so that our society can be educated.
We raise women so that we can have families, responsible children and a home.
You cannot call your wife and mother of your children a liability, when you are hardly home, and she's there holding things down in your absence. That's an asset.
You young men must start to recalibrate your mindsets and avoid severe depression or consequences in the future in your marriage.
A woman will aways remain a woman.
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