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Ehennnnnnnnnn
Perfect time for me to say something that has been on my mind for some time now
Your wife is Mrs Blaze though because she married you and she has taken your name most likely
Your wife is also that first class graduate and all the amazing thing you wrote about her
To be called Mrs Blaze does not invalidate her other achievements
This thing makes it seem like Mrs Blaze is a derogatory term or it’s less
She is everything all at once
Ok let me drop her and use myself
My name is still Deborah Ocheido because I am still my father’s daughter
That has not changed because I’m married
I will always be my father’s daughter
But I am Mrs Onafowokan too
I am an author
I am a marketing specialist with honours
I am a mother
If you call me Deborah Ocheido, you’re correct
If you call me mummy William you’re correct
If you call me Mrs Onafowokan you’re still correct
These are all dimensions of me and non makes me any less. It just depends on the angle you’re seeing me from per time
This thing we do where we try to put women in boxes is weird and I think unknowingly we make it seem like some parts of a woman are more important than the other
And I think it happens because women are the ones who have to shape shift and morph with marriage and family
Marriage does not make a woman less
Calling a woman her husband’s name is not derogatory
She is everything all at once
Phewwww, ok that was heavy. Felt good to let it out.
Blessings.
PS: I get his point though. I think he is addressing people that can’t see a woman beyond who she is as the man’s wife. I get that. And it’s annoying. Just saw this as a perfect example to share my thoughts.
LIMOBLAZE OMO JESU@Limoblaze
Facts! I'm irritated when people call my wife Mrs Blaze. You're talking about a first class degree holder and a university of cambridge Alumni, An authority that has worked at the apex banks of both Nigeria and the united Kingdom. Stop Playing!!!
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