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i don’t have anything in common with my friends. i don’t have anything in common with myself. i don’t have anything

Oh great, you've thought of a sentence that uses every letter of the alphabet. Too bad it perpetuates harmful stereotypes about dogs and foxes. I hope it was worth it

the soft of heart suffer until they harden where necessary, the hard of heart suffer until they soften where necessary. people who refuse to entertain change suffer their entire lives

Never forget that you are the main data center. Drink water, and consume as much literature as possible.

Teenagers have started calling AI art "boomer art" and consider it cringe, and YouTubers have stopped using AI-generated thumbnails because teenagers find them cringe and won't click on them. I honestly couldn't be happier.

@inabaabelfaroqi Josera has given us a smooth few years now

cat owners please tell me which cat food y all genuinely prefer..I have been giving my cat Reflex and it has made her sick so many times regardless of the vet saying it’s the best cat food😭

I very strongly think that if I had been helped properly with OCD from childhood I might not have gone down path I did. It makes me feel sad at times just knowing how badly was let down, but I know we can't change past

@scorpiuslore real

i miss when my childhood friends weren’t raging homophobes and sexist

The only reason I didn’t kms in 2021 is because Huey kept head butting my hand while I was trying to write my note

It took me a long time to realise that consistent negative feedback, someone always telling you that you're doing it wrong, basically means they don't like you or respect you as a person. They see you as a stupid useless idiot that must have made a mistake.

it is!

the obsessive desire to know yourself is pathological. true healing isn’t when you wholly understand yourself but when you stop mattering to yourself and devote yourself to something bigger

relearning how to be a person and deconstructing all of the harmful and dysfunctional patterns you’ve been taught + learned so that you could survive kind of feels like peeling your skin off and rolling around in salt but it’s probably gonna be okay someday

@JanishtJoshi music i love u

if my baby ends up having a peanut allergy,,, I’ll return it

I used to stare with wistful longing at the beautiful women running in the city in the early morning, with their hair slicked back and the sun beaming down on them. They seemed so gorgeous in their regal and focused discipline, and I could only envy them as if I was looking at an impossible desire across a chasm I could not cross. They were beautiful. They were disciplined. I was not. That was all there was to it. It was a law as immutable as gravity. Until one day, I realized that was ridiculous. I could get up early and run. I could slick my hair back and wear a nice outfit. I could become someone who was proud of the way they moved through the world. I'd always been able to. The prison of my ugly being was self imposed.

“don’t be so sensitive” unfortunately i absorbed the entire atmosphere of the room the second i walked in

@Nieshalations it’s not overly self protective to not share what you’ve been through with others. human minds are evolved to note your weaknesses as a defence against future threat from you. if they don’t conduct themselves mindfully most of the time, they’re likely to cause harm eventually

I don’t want to become bitter or overly self protective but I’m at a point where I don’t wanna tell ppl what I’ve been through. Ppl will pretend to be supportive for a certain amount of time but deep down they’re using what you’ve been through to measure what they can do to you

When a rabbit's partner dies, the surviving rabbit can be dead within a day. Just from grief. The stress physically shuts its stomach down. Vets call it GI stasis, and it's a known killer of bonded partners. What you're watching might be the first hours of it. Rabbit vets actually encourage letting the survivor stay with the body. They tell owners to give the rabbit time with its partner, sniffing, nudging, lying next to her, sometimes for a few hours. Without that goodbye, the survivor can spend weeks searching the home for a partner who never comes back. With it, they're more likely to eat the next day. More likely to live. In 2008, researchers at the University of Edinburgh built an unusual cage to measure how much rabbits need each other. It had weighted doors at both ends. On one side, food. On the other, a few minutes of contact with another rabbit. The doors got heavier over time, so the rabbit had to really want it. The rabbits worked nearly as hard for the friend as they did for the food. Watch a bonded pair and you see why. They follow each other around all day. Sleep pressed together at night. Groom each other's face, head, and ears in long, careful sessions. When their partner is close they make a soft clicking sound with their teeth, called tooth purring. It sounds like a cat's purr. When one of them dies, the survivor's body reacts before its mind catches up. Rabbits are prey animals. Almost everything in the wild wants to eat them. Their bodies evolved one survival rule: when something scary happens, drop everything and run. So a rabbit's stress system is wired to switch hunger off in a crisis. Run first, eat later. That same wiring kicks in when a bonded mate suddenly disappears, except now there's nothing to run from. The rabbit hunches into itself, stops eating, and pulls away from everything around it. Some spend weeks searching the spot where their partner used to be. Rabbit welfare groups have documented cases of surviving partners who simply stopped eating after their mate died. They sometimes call it dying of heartbreak. The brown rabbit in the video is doing what a bonded rabbit does when his partner is suddenly gone. He stays close to her body. He keeps watch. He says goodbye the only way a rabbit can. If he survives the next two weeks, it will be because someone notices he has stopped eating and gets him to a vet who knows rabbits. If he doesn't, his stomach will give out before anything else does. A bonded rabbit's body is built around being with another rabbit. When that other rabbit is gone, the body itself starts to fall apart.

lahore landa im coming to u baby

Kristen Stewart wants to direct another movie by the end of the year "and put it on f---ing YouTube." "Whatever money we make from that will be what I spend on my next one and there will be a trickle-down effect. I just don’t want to talk to these bros anymore ... I love Hollywood, I love big movies, [but] I don’t think I’d be very good at making them. I want to make weird s---. And I’m fully OK doing that in a kind of insulated, bizarre way. But I don’t want to do the thing where I wait five years for someone to give me $1 million to make something. I’m going to make it f---ing tomorrow." wp.me/pc8uak-1lHhm4