My husband decided to get a secret DNA test to see if our youngest daughter was actually his. He didn't ask me anything, never even hinted that he had doubts, and didn't give me a chance to explain anything. He just went ahead and did it on his own, then came to tell me about it later like everything could just be fixed with a quick conversation. We've been married for twelve years. We have two kids: our oldest is a ten-year-old boy and......
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@marriedmn@menscoach1 Women don't love men. They are only loyal to their feelings.
Any man who puts his all in a woman is setting himself up for betrayal.
I love my husband… but I’m not in love with him anymore.
He’s not abusive, he doesn’t cheat, he’s a good father and provides everything.
But there’s no spark, no excitement, no emotional connection, the sex is boring he doesn't even satisfy me.
I feel like I’m living with a roommate I share kids with.
There’s another man who makes me feel things I haven’t felt in years… and it scares me how easy it would be to cross that line.
Is it selfish to leave a ‘good man’ just because you’re no longer happy… or is staying worse?”
What should I do?"
-- From my Dm,, share your advice here.
@alfkkifine The problem with this men and women are not judged the same. You already know this. It has been like that since the beginning of time and always will be. We are not the same.
Men: "I wouldn't date a woman who's ever been a stripper”
In that case, I wouldn't date a man who's ever been to a strip club.
Men: “I wouldn't date a woman who's ever done porn”
In that case too, I wouldn't date a man who's ever watched porn.
You're the reason sex workers and porn exist. Porn exists because men are the demand to the supply.
If you disdain sex workers, you don’t get to consume their labour.
As they say in the industry, "Men jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
My daughter had been dealing with a man casually. No relationship, no titles, just friends with benefits. At some point she got pregnant. What bothered me wasn’t the pregnancy itself, it was how it happened. She admitted to me that she told him she was on birth control even though she had stopped taking it. When she told him she was pregnant, he was honest from the very beginning. He told her he did not want a child and even gave her money to end the pregnancy. She chose to keep the baby anyway. When I asked my daughter why she made that decision, her answer shocked me. She said she wanted a baby and felt like he would be a good father because he was successful. I told her plainly that what she did was wrong and manipulative. You don’t get to lie to someone, remove their choice, then expect them to be grateful for a life they never consented to create. She told me she was putting him on child support regardless. I recorded the conversation and sent it to him because I felt he deserved to know the truth. I also told him to protect himself legally. What my daughter didn’t realize is that his money isn’t on paper, so child support ended up being about $200 a month. Now she has no real income, no support system, and she’s living in a shelter because I put her out of my house. I made it clear I would not step in to rescue her or help raise this child. I love my daughter, but I refuse to normalize deceit. I refuse to pretend this is empowerment. I refuse to teach my grandchildren that trapping someone into parenthood is acceptable just because the law allows it. Because the uncomfortable truth is this: if a man lies to force a woman into motherhood, we call it abuse. But when a woman lies to force a man into fatherhood, we call it her choice. Equality can’t be selective. Accountability doesn’t change based on gender. And sometimes the hardest lesson a parent can teach is refusing to save their child from the consequences of their own deception.
Jada Pinkett Smith says she won’t divorce Will Smith because it feels like quitting, adding she doesn’t think anyone else could handle her or give her the space she needs in a relationship 😳👀
"No one would be willing to hold space for me the way Will does."
If you’re Black commenting under this post then you haven’t talked to your granddad or pop about my dad. They going to skool yo ass and you going to to shut the fuck up real quick❗️
I wonder if @realDonaldTrump was racist when he was the President-Elect & called my dad @JimBrownNFL32 to find out what was going on with the Black Community and how he could help❓
FOH
Being a Black billionaire that married white means your funds go to your mulatto kids, if they marry white your grandchildren won’t even be Black. Trash.
My wife cheated on me after 10 years of marriage. She had an affair with her gym trainer, and it lasted a year.
She cried and begged for forgiveness. I stayed for our two young kids.
That was 2 years ago, but the pain is still fresh. I am consumed by anger every day.
The images replay nonstop.
I hate my marriage. I hate my wife. I hate myself.
I feel like I’ve lost direction. I don’t know where to go... or where to stop.
Coach...how do I stop hating myself... for who I’ve become?
--From my Dm, he needs your advice.