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Blessdan
@TheRealBlessdan
Artist/Songwriter/Graphic designer/Digital Artist. I HEAR SONGS IN MY DREAMS AND I TURN THEM INTO REALITY ° Listen to The Unrecorded EP. Link in bio
Ogun, Nigeria Entrou em Ocak 2011
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So, this is what I would say.
I'll ignore the hypocrisy of men but still advice them.
Even if you meet a lady as a virgin, & then you deflower her.
Please do not say that because you deflowered her, then you must marry her if she's not the type of wife that you need.
If you deflower her and it turns out that she's a good choice for you, please do all you can to marry her.
That's exactly what I did.
Do not let taking a woman's virginity to guilt trip you, as long as you did not promise her marriage before you deflowered her.
You approached her like every other young man would approach a young lady.
You later discovered that she was a virgin. You were in a relationship with her after you have deflowered her, and she cheated on you.
Please move on from that relationship.
You discovered that she's very disrespectful and has a terrible upbringing & a mother whose character you are not pleased with.
Please move on from that relationship.
She cannot cook, clean or she's lazy. And you have tried to caution her but she feels because she gave you her virginity, then she has done all that is needed.
Please move on from that relationship.
And many other things that you consider to be a red flag for you.
Let me tell you.
When it comes to choosing a wife or a husband, it goes far beyond sentiments, pity, or self-guilt..
On the flip side, some of you ladies are in a toxic relationship because you don't want to increase your body counts.
He deflowered you and so what?
If he's not behaving like a man that you'd wish to be your husband and father of your children, do not remain in that relationship simply because he deflowered you.
And do not let him have that power over you. If he's not treating you right, please do not waste your time in that relationship.
What is important is that you're feminine, you have shame and you know what it means to have a family that is led by a kind and focused man.
Not a liar and a narcissist.
I hope you understand me.
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@Queen_kunmi @jon_d_doe If she isn't ready. The man should go look for another younger woman. I don't have time to wait for you.
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@jon_d_doe I have someone dating a 22years old in his mid 30’s. I find it 😏especially in this our generation.
Not that the lady is whore o. She’s a decent girl but marriage and family is not in her basket atm. So she said she will be ready in 3-4years that means the guy will wait till 39🤔
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Not all 21 year olds are the same.
Some are still finding themselves totally valid. But some started life early.
They’ve seen enough, felt enough, and decided early that they’re not interested in wasting time.
A 21 year old who knows what a good man looks like and is willing to build with him? That’s not immaturity. That’s clarity.
Age is a number. Character and readiness are the real conversation.
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@sir_uno @Teechtwin @jon_d_doe No man should be with a lady who has made mistakes. U don’t work so hard to build urself up just to end up with one whose mistakes you had no part in..
Go for the under 25 ladies & mould them to ur taste. If she decides to misbehave in marriage u fling her
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@only1_jeffery @tc0iuf @jon_d_doe Them no dey tell person , praying for the best but be open to accept the worst, that’s life anything can happen in marriage no matter the age , marry a woman that will follow you while you lead her, a woman that is contented.. yet still expect the worst while the good phase last
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@tc0iuf @jon_d_doe It took me long to develop her mentally and emotionally. Cos i married her when she was 21 actually. I was patient and it all worked out fine. God did
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@IamEriOluwa @jon_d_doe Yeah. They will go astray if you don't lead them.
If you are weak and can't lead don't date younger women 💯
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During all the time I was dating, I find it hard to date anyone that young generally.
Besides the fact that she might be preparing for higher education while I was preparing for higher commitments like mortgage and other things.
I don't just feel we would have good times relating to one another because genital gymnastics isn't really in the equation.
So, I think when a man date purposefully, it becomes easier to find your match and know you really just can't date small girls because of your intentions.
Besides, I have always been of the opinion that such small girls need directions from you on how to navigate life as a big brother not giving them practical genital gymnastics tutorials.
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@jon_d_doe Sir, I feel real good. Peace of mind and respect wan finish me for here 💯
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@TheRealBlessdan @drealbigvirg @Jaynorchy @lefthanded_rose I don't know if he dey rage bait nhi or nah true he dey talk.
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Let us calm down with the lies. There was never a time egg roll was sold for 50 naira
You must think this is facebook
TG OMORI@boy_director
Told this kid I used to buy egg roll with full egg in it for 50 naira in senior school and they looking at me like I went to school with Alvan ikoku
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@drealbigvirg @Jaynorchy @lefthanded_rose @drealbigvirg if you really meet pure water for #5, per bag at #60, then you meet egg roll at less than #50.
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@drealbigvirg You will even tell us we didn't buy puff-puff for ₦5.....
We bought ₦25 noodles
We bought 2 eggs for ₦30
We drank garri with ₦50 (garri one cup ₦10, sugar ₦5, groundnut ₦5 , jago / cowbell milk ₦10 , pure water 2 ₦5 each)
Do you know we once bought coke for ₦50
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@Dr_Pharouk I fast everyday so 3 days fastinh has got nothing on me.
30 million naira? Gbewa
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Dear young people that are already doing 9-5 in your 20s.
Please strive to attain some high level of financial freedom & independence before you get into your 40s.
As long as you're not greedy or too money conscious, you investment would keep you afloat.
I do not think that someone in his or her 50s, should be doing a 9-5.
But we have them.
I may also be one, too.
Knowing what I know now, this is what I can advice you.
9-5 is glorified slavery.
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