David

Hmm @bol_com ?

Emotionally intelligent men often see straight through your performative bullshit and still choose whatever will preserve equilibrium in the relationship. He will compel you to outgrow your habitual narrowness, and you will think your EQ is high until you encounter a man like that. Even at first glance or first meeting, you cannot discern who has high EQ, because they conceal it and reveal it incrementally over time. Looking at how kind they are might make you feel like a bad person at times, but later you realise you are not actually a bad person, and they show you that you are simply human, then guide you toward greater kindness. High EQ men are, strangely, extremely violent when necessary as well. They have refined control over their strength and exercise it only when it is warranted. Incredibly self-aware, they become your mirror. They cannot tolerate disrespect and bullshit at all, they have extremely high principles and morals that they stick by. He will not engage in your little tactics of destabilising the whole relationship just so you can feel something, your manipulative tendencies, your gaslighting, all of it will be laid bare because he simply will not participate in it. Then it will be only you and yourself, sitting inside an emotional transformation while he is there, but he will not make it easier by interrupting your growth. He will also care for you, ensure there is always peace, and quietly protect you without putting anything on display. Having a man like this is a blessing, and social media will not advertise such men because these men do not parade their relationships online and are usually profoundly private.

Sorry, but happy relationships involve communicating about your wants and needs Wanting someone to just magically read your mind probably means you aren’t mature enough for a relationship

@FoodPleaser one of my favourite foods

Does anyone actually like Sauerkraut?

If you’re going to provide for women make sure it’s the “thank you so much” women, not the “as you should” women

Ghosting your gf/bf after a conflict when they’re trying to talk things out is emotional abuse. Silence leaves people stuck in uncertainty, and uncertainty creates abandonment anxiety. It’s signs of immaturity. It shows a lack of respect, poor communication, and a disregard for the other person’s feelings. When someone disappears instead of being honest, they’re not protecting their peace, they’re avoiding accountability. Don’t date these people.. 

Until they start blaming you for them not understanding you every time.

This is gamekeeper RUSSELL MASON of Bridge of Cally, Perthshire. He trapped a rare bird of prey in a cage before beating it to death and was caught out by a covert surveillance operation. Mason, 49, lured the protected Goshawk into a baited trap before battering it several times with a cosh to cause its agonising death. He was also found to have left nearly 200 rounds of live ammunition lying around in his bedroom and unsecured within his Polaris Ranger vehicle. Mason admitted intentionally or recklessly killing a Goshawk on 12 February 2024 by seizing it with a net before repeatedly striking it with a cosh on Cochrage Moor, Bridge of Cally, Perthshire. He is also a registered SEX OFFENDER!! He will be sentenced at a later date. Full story: dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-… Via @Daily_Record.

There is a whole generation of men out here who are absolutely exhausted from being the "transitional guy." They come into your life, absorb all the trauma your toxic ex left behind, provide stability, and love you gently. But because your brain is still addicted to chaos, you mistake his consistency for a lack of passion. You drain his peace to heal yourself, and then abandon him because there isn't enough "drama" to keep you entertained. Men are constantly being used as emotional handymen to fix damage they didn't cause, only to be discarded the second the foundation is stable. It is pure emotional vampirism.

Someone said the relationships that last the longest are those ones where the couples argue to find a solution not argue to win and honestly, I can’t agree more If all you’re doing during an argument with your partner is looking for cues or weak spots in the statements to pick up on and continue the argument, to prove you’re right, you’re not in love with that person, you’re in love with yourself. Arguments should bring y’all closer, cos it exposes parts y’all are different in, and by talking about it, you understand each other more but once it starts to push y’all apart, it only goes down hill from there

Once he detaches, that’s it. You’ll never get the same version of him again. He’s stopped chasing, stopped caring about approval, stopped bending for validation. Every ounce of energy he used to pour into the relationship? Redirected. His patience? Gone. His softness? Replaced with calm indifference. You see, men don’t forget, they adapt. Once a line is crossed, once respect is broken, he learns. He watches, he calculates, & he no longer invests in what doesn’t serve him. The version of him that loved blindly, sacrificed endlessly, & tolerated drama? Dead. If you want him back, it’s not about apologies, it’s about proving he’s worth the risk again but most women can’t. Comment “DETACH” I’ll send some of you a proven guide on how to detach yourself from her.

BREAKING: Mother says her 12-year-old daughter who was shot in the head and neck by a transgender school shooter in Canada will not survive the night Maya Gebala was among at least two dozen students and teachers wounded in the shooting at Tumbler Ridge Secondary School Police said Jesse Strang, 18, opened fire, k*lling eight people before taking his own life Strang was born male and began identifying as a girl at age 12 Maya’s mother, Cia Edmonds, said doctors warned her that the brain damage was severe and her daughter might not survive the night 'We were warned that the damage to her brain was too much for her to endure, and she wouldn't make the night,' she said on Wednesday afternoon.' 'I can feel her in my heart. I can feel her saying it’s going to be OK... she's here... for how long we don't know.' 'Our baby needs a miracle.'

Mann we hurt our own feelings by thinking we mean more to people than we really do.

be careful who you push away, real ones don’t come back.

i love when people apologize for responding late or when they keep you in the loop so you wont start overthinking. the skill of communication is attractive

When I like someone, I instantly start going too hard. I’m too available, too giving, too loyal, too thoughtful, too reliable. I need to calm down and only be what someone is to me. That’s my problem. I always love how I want to be loved, hoping it gets reciprocated.

@KillaKreww sooooo would you still get salmonella from eating this chicken meat raw?

MrBeast showed a $200M Lab where NO Chickens are harmed to make genetically grown chicken meat, a project that could potentially save billions of animals 😳🔥 Mr. Beast even ate real chicken vs the lab grown chicken and noticed NO DIFFERENCE 🐓👀

@airkatakana why the fuck are they washing themselves in a hot tub

north korean state media just dropped the craziest pic

Dude i seriously notice EVERYTHING and i hate that shit. Subliminal disses, changed energy, different tone, body language, shit i can even tell tone through texts and i HATE IT