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Hit me with the harshest reality truth.

forcing 12 year old girls to learn cleaning and cooking while their brothers game or watch television is gaslighting and grooming them to be submissive

🚨Una pobre mujer afgana fue violada por el salvaje que ves en el video. Debido a que su agresor estaba casado, fue encarcelada por "adultera" 🤨 Dio a luz en prisión a una niña. Entonces accedió a casarse con él para el bienestar de su hija. Mundos horribles 🤢🤮

Nope, It's advised to marry young women so you can enjoy life. What do you want men to be? monks?

The Slow Poison: How Pakistan’s Drama Industry is Quietly Eroding Our Islamic Identity For decades, the Pakistani television screen was a mirror of our social fabric. It was a medium that, while entertaining, respected the red lines of our faith and culture. But look at the screen today and you’ll see a different story. What used to be a mirror has become a hammer, systematically breaking down the Islamic ideological foundations upon which this country was built. We are witnessing a "slow poison" effect. It doesn’t happen overnight with a loud explosion; it happens scene by scene and script by script until the unthinkable becomes the unremarkable. The most dangerous aspect of modern Pakistani dramas is the normalization of Ma’siat (sin). Themes that were once considered social taboos or religious transgressions are now being served as "daring" storytelling. We see the casual portrayal of alcohol consumption, presented not as a vice to be shunned but as a lifestyle accessory for the elite or a coping mechanism for the broken-hearted. By giving these habits airtime without condemnation, the industry is effectively desensitizing a generation to what our Deen clearly labels as the mother of all evils. Then there is the systematic subversion of the family unit. The Islamic concept of Haya (modesty) is being traded for "bold" aesthetics. It’s no longer just about the clothes; it’s about the interactions. We see the glamorization of extramarital affairs and the "halal-ifying" of forbidden relationships. When a drama centers on a sister-in-law eyeing her sister's husband, or a married woman finding "true love" outside her home, it isn't just a plot point. It is a direct assault on the sanctity of the Nikah. Furthermore, the industry is increasingly guilty of a "Cultural Invasion" from within. We are seeing a shift toward Western individualism where the "self" is placed above the Creator. Characters are often shown seeking solace in everything except Allah. Prayer is reserved for the most desperate moments of a protagonist’s life, used more as a theatrical prop than a sincere depiction of a believer’s daily connection with the Divine. The tragedy is that this is happening under the watch of regulatory bodies that seem more concerned with political optics than moral preservation. When PEMRA issues a notice, it is often dismissed by the elite media circles as "regression." But there is nothing progressive about losing your soul for the sake of TRPs. If we continue to let the drama industry dictate our moral compass, we will soon find ourselves in a society that is Pakistani only in name, but entirely detached from the Islamic ideology that gives us our purpose. It is time to stop calling this "entertainment" and start calling it what it really is: a silent, televised subversion of our faith.

my father keeps saying "nobody will marry you" as an insult every 2 days like oh noooo I'm sitting in my room breaking my plastic bangles because someone's useless son won't marry me oh noooo 😭😭😭😭😭 what will I doooooo 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 a bad daughter is just the average son

A virgin woman should never marry a non virgin man. Keep your dignity for a man who also has dignity.

Hot take: Real feminism doesn’t shame women for enjoying motherhood, homemaking, or traditional roles.