Bey-Z

A lot of men are not being ‘disrespected’ in their relationship, they are just being accurately confronted for the first time in their life. If every time she names a pattern you hear it as an attack, you will keep turning ordinary feedback into destructive arguments. It is easier to label her as ‘disrespectful’ than is it to admit you have never learned how to be in a relationship where your comfort is not the main priority.

3:37  מִי זֶה אָמַר וַתֶּהִי אֲדֹנָי לֹא צִוָּה׃

Lmaooo Tumelo went to the club and saw her friends deadbeat baby daddy there and confiscated the bottles from the table and took whatever cash he had on him 😭😭😭😭😭😭

RUN. He is using YOU. His friends are pressuring/abusing you to take a horrible deal. Break up with him. Praise the Creator for revealing their wickedness. 1. 70% of downpayment is not the whole mortgage. 2. Don't purchase with boyfriend only a husband.

My boyfriend and I are planning to buy a house together after dating for 3 years. He earns significantly more than I do, so he’d be contributing about 70% of the down payment. Because of that, he wants the house to be only in his name. He says it’s just “fair” based on the numbers, but we’d both be living there, splitting bills, and building a life together. I’ve been watching a lot of relationship content about equity vs equality, and it made me realize things don’t always have to be 50/50 but this feels like I’d have no security at all. He said if we ever broke up, he’d “do the right thing,” but that doesn’t really reassure me. My friends say don’t move in unless my name is on it. His friends apparently think I’m being entitled. Now I feel stuck between trusting him and protecting myself. Is this a red flag I’m trying too hard to rationalize?

This will only make sense to a few, but I actually knew a girl like Cassie. In her mind, I think she wanted to apologize and always felt bad, but at the same time she was excited to get Maddy’s input on her business. I do not think she was trying to be evil, she is just a very selfish person who does not know how to say the right things at the right time. So from Maddy’s perspective, it feels like Cassie is playing her, when in reality Cassie is just not that self aware or considerate of others. These types of people are a nightmare to be friends with because they do not think of others before themselves, Cassie thinks about Cassie first even though she loves the people she is around.