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If you're setting up a loyalty test, the relationship isn't the problem. You are.
Loyalty tests don't reveal anything about your partner. They reveal everything about you — your insecurities, your fears, maybe even what you've been doing behind closed doors that you're projecting onto them. I've seen men do it and women do it. In both cases I'm thinking the same thing.
A woman who runs a loyalty test is either already cheating and looking for an exit that isn't her fault, feeling invisible because her man stopped speaking her love language, or so bored she's manufacturing drama to feel something. A man who runs one either suspects she's already gone or wants to know she's worth the next step.
Neither one is about the relationship. Both are about the person holding the camera.
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