Wealthy_bush_man ×͜×

Here’s why zkSYS is changing EVERYTHING for @syscoin 👇 🔐 Bitcoin‑level security the strongest foundation in crypto. ⚡15K+ TPS speed transactions at lightning pace.💸 Dirt‑cheap fees scaling without draining your wallet.🛡️ True privacy zero‑knowledge proofs protecting your data. No more trade‑offs. @syscoin is delivering the modular future @Syscoin_Africa needs for mass Web3 adoption. 🌍✨ This isn’t just theory the zkSYS testnet is LIVE. Builders can start experimenting today with scalable DAOs, DeFi, NFTs, and AI‑powered dApps. 🎥 Watch the deep dive video ❤️ Like if you’re bullish 🔁 Retweet to spread the word Syscoin is fusing Bitcoin’s security with Ethereum‑style programmability and zk‑rollup scalability. That’s how we unlock the next billion users and Africa is ready to lead. 🚀 #Syscoin #zkSYS #zkStack #SyscoinAfrica #CryptoNaija #Web3Africa #BlockchainNigeria $SYS

Hey hi, beautiful comrades 😍 At BwB, we do many things... understanding the technology, get unstuck, reason together. Blockchain is something very complex that the normal day person may not understand, but you can. See you on Saturday by 10am at next.bwbseries.org

@Maxtheairbnbguy Facts

One of the ways I know a person lacks sense or maturity is when they flex their flaws or toxic traits instead of working on themselves. "I'm emotionally unavailable". "I'm blunt". "I'm nonchalant". "Take it or leave it". Flexing your flaws is not confidence. It is a refusal to grow. A mature person acknowledges their flaws and works on them. They do not wear dysfunction as a badge of honor. If you are rude, get help. If you have a bad temper, get help. If you are manipulative, get help. Stop flexing your flaws. It is not cute. It is a cry for help wrapped in arrogance. Get help.Change.

Apparently, a lot of people have been texting me because of this thread as it has been an eye opener for them. Some have broken up and gotten back together six times. Some just discovered they are anxious. Some just discovered they are avoidant. Some just discovered their partner is avoidant. And now everyone is asking the same questions. Can this relationship still work? Should I just end things? Can I change? Let me answer them all here. You Don't Have to Break Up Discovering that you have different attachment styles is not the end of the road for your relationship. It is a diagnosis. Now you know why you keep having the same fights. Now you know why you feel like you are speaking different languages. Now you know why she runs and you chase, or why you run and he chases. Knowing is the first step. Breaking up is not the only option. In fact, breaking up without doing the work just means you will repeat the same patterns with the next person. Yes, You Can Work on Yourself to Get Better You can change. Not overnight, but by working on yourselves. By learning to self soothe if you are anxious. By learning to stay when you want to run if you are avoidant. By learning to communicate your needs without manipulation or withdrawal. By learning to sit with discomfort instead of reacting. Seek Therapy If you can afford it, go to therapy. A good therapist can help you understand where your attachment style came from, usually childhood, and give you tools to heal. If you cannot afford therapy, read books. Watch videos. Listen to podcasts. Follow accounts that teach attachment theory. Do the work yourself. It is harder alone, but it is possible. What to Do Right Now If you are anxious: · Learn to self soothe. When your partner needs space, do not panic. Breathe. Distract yourself. Remind yourself that space is not abandonment. · Communicate your needs without accusing. Say "I need a little reassurance right now" instead of "You never text me back." · Stop trying to make everything about you. If you are avoidant: · Learn to stay. When your partner wants closeness, do not run. Sit with the discomfort. Remind yourself that closeness is not a trap. · Communicate your fears without withdrawing. Say "I need some space to process, but I am not leaving" instead of disappearing for three days without communication. · Practice vulnerability. Share one feeling a day. If you are with an anxious or avoidant partner: · Be patient. They are not doing this to hurt you. They are doing this because they are wounded. · Set boundaries without building walls. Be kind but firm. · Encourage them to do the work, but do not try to fix them. You cannot heal someone who does not want to heal. You do not have to break up. If you both commit to healing, to communicating, to understanding each other's wounds, your relationship can not only survive but thrive. If only one of you is willing to do the work, then you have a hard decision to make, end things and move on. Love is not supposed to be you carrying everything while the other person refuses to grow❤.

@techy_clare The wax seal analogy is genius it instantly makes verifiable data so much clearer. Timely stuff with AI and DeFi moving so fast. Solid work

As for those who doubted me you can see for yourself from the horses mouth that she is an avoidant. I just dey laugh una, i have studied a lot of books on psychology and understanding the human mind and nature. I can analyze and spot people from miles away. It's so easy to do that for me. Like I'll normally say I argue with my equals all others I teach. Some of you guys on this app red pill has fried your brains you can't even reason or know anything asides it. Olodo rabata😂😂.

@BigLily_C That's what @Maxtheairbnbguy is trying to explain and we are so clueless in this part of country.

Korty’s new episode on love or lies, I have someone like that in my life! We’ve been that way since we broke up 2020 but let’s move on, na lie. Just got off an hour long call with this person 😭

@MrMekzy_ Ahhhhha

Grounded crayfish on sliced bread as a spread then you add another slice on it and dig in. Tastes like heaven. Try it and thank me later.

@Nnewi300 Nairaland. Old good days

Our last born called me sometime ago to say that his name was on the list of those going for NYSC.. I said my congratulations, happy that he will soon become a government pikin earning minimum wage. The next thing he said made me hiss so loudly that my colleague at work asked me what's wrong.. "Bros they said my jamb registration number has been used by someone else" "How is that possible?" I asked. "I don't know." He replied. Obviously frustrated with the whole thing. I dropped the call and went to the only place I was sure I could get the information I need. NAIRALAND. I looked for the NYSC thread for corpers and started to read through over 50 pages of information.. People complained about the same issue in the past and they wrote about how they resolved it. I called my brother back and told him to go to jamb office in owerri to complain. He simply told me the student affairs officer suggested the same thing. He went to jamb office, made some payments and the issue was sorted out. He went back to the student affairs officer with some information from jamb and that was it. Dude was in camp weeks ago.. This morning I learnt of someone who missed camping last month because of the same issue. He had a nairaland account but wasn't aware that he could have gotten the information there. They simply told him to wait for the next batch and he went home to sleep. Today is Monday.. I just want to remind you how valuable NAIRALAND is if you are a job seeker, looking for how to apply for a study visa, following up on current recruitment, infact anything. Just Google the information you need and add nairaland.. Boom you will see information that will help you sort whatever problem you are having. Please we also have people fraudulent intentions on nairaland. So be careful too. Have a great week!

@Maxtheairbnbguy Smart take....

People calling him a fool, calm down. 😂 The guy doesn't even know he has an anxious attachment style. He is not choosing to be desperate. He is reacting from a deep, unconscious fear of abandonment & unhealed trauma. You hear his friend advising him to move on else he'll keep being in a loop. The girl is clearly avoidant. She leaves when things get close and comes back when the pressure is off. She breaks up quickly because vulnerability feels dangerous. Not because she is cold. Because someone taught her that depending on people leads to disappointment. Both are unhealed. 😂 He clings. She runs. He chases. She flees. They are not villain and victim. They are two wounded people triggering each other's deepest fears. They can work on themselves & make things work if they desire. It's very workable.

@livinggthing @osemagnum Omo....

@Local_bush_boy @osemagnum It’s in his personal blog/website local bush boy.

there is no single benefit in watching pornography and masturbation.

@_Thrixian No ECWA Staff, no Baptist high ur list no correct

MY TOP 10 SECONDARY SCHOOLS IN JOS, PLATEAU STATE. 1. Hillcrest School, Jos 2. Kent Academy, Miango 3. White Diamonds Academy 4. Mount Carmel Christian School 5. Rhemaville Christian Academy 6. Kingdom Citizens College 7. Peakfield Academy 8. Infant Jesus Academy 9. St. Louis College 10. Omega High School Which other school should be on the list???

@livinggthing @osemagnum Naso him tell you?

@osemagnum Ezra Olubi - one of the main founders of paystack was an active masturbator yet he is still who he is. Stop blaming masturbation for everything please.

@thecharmingvybz @jon_d_doee 😂😂😂

@jon_d_doee Is there any girl again in this life that doesn’t lie and cheat? Cus it’s seeming like they all do and it’s scary. Trust no dey many men dictionary again.

How a man's 26 year old churchy girlfriend was cheating on him.

@EhisOjeks U no go like see 9k for the account. If yes send am

u posted this last weekend, i had 5k in my account and i told u it cannot go this weekend i have 4500 be like my life no dey better oo

@MichaelLeg75024 @__Toluwanimii__ Use Momo e still dey

@__Toluwanimii__ Bro I spam 200 for 1GB till them rusticate me

MTN you stupid b!tch, I'm never eligible for the good bundles.😭

@EhisOjeks 😂😂😂😂

Na today I go finally download Carding collect that 3k This hunger don serious

@Fantastic_wale @iamscrummy_ Everyday??? That's too much just twice weekly is okay

@iamscrummy_ Got it 6k, took one dissolved in 250ml water daily.

I learnt this is one of The best vitamin C supplements. It boost immunity and keep your skin skinning so I got many

😭😭😭😭superdad don finish me Can I get 5k likes and 1k retweets Abeg I never buy cloth this year😔😔😔 Help me like and retweet my dearest mutuals, we go share the shirt😔😔😔

@wizkidayo Long awaited 😂😂😂😂

Pussy nigga Jump a dj with 10man carry diddy towel Dey dance. 😂 I never see fool like this diddy babe for my life 😂🤣