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Honestly it's tiring and time consuming and drastically changes every aspect of your life, I can't do anything now without factoring my child first. That's why when I see cases of people bring pregnant when they are not ready, I'm always pro choice. And if you choose not to be a mum, sis I'm 100% behind you cuz I get it

I used to think women who chose their careers over motherhood were selfish. 
Like… how do you willingly walk away from something so “natural”? But after the last 3 months of my life, I get it. I really do. Motherhood is not just cute pictures, soft baby giggles and “bundle of joy” captions. It’s exhausting, it’s consuming, and some days it feels like you’ve completely lost yourself. Nobody really prepares you for that part. I’ve had to turn down real opportunities good ones. Not because I’m not capable, not because I’m not ready, but because of distance, timing, and the reality that I have a whole human being depending on me. Your career pauses. Life shifts. And somehow, you’re expected to just… be fine with it. So no, women who choose themselves, their careers, their freedom they are not selfish. If anything, they are honest. And please, let me not see one of those takes that “we don’t owe our parents anything,” especially our mothers. Some of you are talking from a place of pure ignorance. The sacrifice is not theory it’s lived experience. Because if you’ve ever had to put your life on hold for another human being, you’ll understand that motherhood is not just love it’s sacrifice on a level words can’t fully explain. That being said… even with all of this, even on the days I feel like I’m losing myself… It’s still worth it, I’m grateful, I’m blessed, I’m thankful 😍 SAPPHIRE

@ajepakobutty @Bond_not_james The way these work, the surgeon knew it was both legs, but it's rare to see a surgeon that would operate both at the same time, because of the chances of complications, it's easier to manage one leg than both of complications arises

@Bond_not_james I’m not against people contributing, but I’m trying to understand something: why would a surgeon give a price for only one leg and not mention the other until it’s time for the second surgery? Are you saying your surgeon thought you were only going to work on one leg or what?

Might sound insensitive but crowdfunding 40m to straighten someone’s leg doesn’t make sense to me. It is not a life threatening condition neither does the straight leg give any form of return or impact his earnings significantly. For example, crowdfunding to give an athlete a leg surgery will save their career and give financial returns. If it was 5 or even 10m, ok. But 40m? Especially in a country like ours where people are going through more severe health problems and need finances, it doesn’t make sense. I don’t even want to go into this their so called miscommunication. Because there’s no way from first contact with the influencers to fund raising to surgery to his return, it wasn’t communicated that the operation was for one leg till today. I no dey wear pampers.

RE: BADDY'S FIRST SURGERY It's good I clarify due to speculations about Public spending Many were earlier clarified in Oct 2025, I'll reiterate them. NB- Not a naira went to I or Wizarab, All funds were to the Hospital, agent & Baddy chats are attached for transparency

@higureshuuen Hello

私の呟きも誰かが自動翻訳で外国で読んでくれてたりするのかな。 そうならいいな。 外国からもコメントもらえたら嬉しいな。 冷蔵庫とエアコンと洗濯機を買わないといけないのに、お金がなくて途方に暮れる私に、 「こんにちは」でいいから…

@higureshuuen Im reading from Nigeria

Know your body before putting an IUD in, if you usually react to some type of jewelries, please don't use IUDs

Government for the people is definitely after the people's life, because why is fuel price increasing because of a war happening in a far away place, crude price is increasing, isn't it supposed to favour us. Oti sumi o. Staying so far away from work is not helping, cuz fuel of 35k only lasts 2-3 days, public transportation too is almost 70% of salary, I'm really tired fa, I wish I had travelled during post COVID when I had the opportunity

@MeetJMB Babanls insult, just collect and lemme rest, leave me alone

please what does: “ọmọ gba jẹ nsinmi” mean? is it an insult? please talk fast!

@UniqueEunice6 My memory, it's still a struggle though it's getting better

When I was pregnant I had Hyperemesis- this is a condition in which pregnant women has excessive vomiting. It got so bad that I had a vomit bag I walk around with, because the vomit can decide to come not minding where I was. Always going in and out of the hospital. So I decided maybe I needed a change of environment so I went to the UK for one week holiday. Honestly I didn’t see any difference, because it was embarrassing while I vomited on the plane and on trains during sightseeing. One mistake I made was always brushing while I was home after every vomit. This destroyed my teeth and my oral health. What I was supposed to be doing was rinse my mouth after a vomit. It’s over 2 years now and I’m still seeing a dentist. What permanent damage did pregnancy give you?

@MeetJMB God abeg, do you have children

my mum did everything to convince my dad that I was possessed, but he always dismissed it as nonsense talk. to him I was just a restless child. until the day they all saw me fight with monkey they brought for demonstration at the Kawo Motor Park! my papa no believe him eyes!

@notcee_fan I see an ape smoking

If you're right-brained, you'll see a chicken laying an egg. If you're left-brained, you'll see a man riding a horse.

@boye4christ2006 Krest, limca

One drink is missing here. Only legend can know it. What’s the drink that’s missing?

@drharveee You and you, I'll safely assume your legal name is all of us sha, be use you and who is all of us

Funny enough, all of us did this when growing up

@Yeesourlarh 6

Help me choose the perfect thread 👀

@26ers_bp115 And yet your country has the rule where you have to keep your camera shutters sound on so as not to take underskirt pictures of innocent girls. Please, the only pervert here is you

Venezuela minimum wage is ₦200,000 Fuel is ₦30 per liter. Libya minimum wage is ₦300,000 Fuel is ₦50 per liter. UAE minimum wage is ₦2.1 Million Fuel is ₦300 per liter. Nigeria minimum wage is ₦70,000 Fuel is ₦1,250 per liter. UK minimum wage is about ₦2.5–₦3 Million/month (approx) Fuel is around ₦2,700–₦3,000 per liter Canada minimum wage is about ₦2–₦2.5 Million/month (approx) Fuel is around ₦1,500–₦1,800 per liter You all are being ruled by d£mons in Nigeria. On Your Mandate 🤡

@Halee_marh123 Honestly its not the same, at all, you guys get to go home, guess who lives with them 24/7 with nowhere to hide, you can't even report

Boarding school students will be talking like they’re the only ones that suffered, as if day students were just chilling the whole time😭

@meiGirma NANNM and NMCN abeg now, it's getting too much

Association of Certified Auxiliary Nurses (ACAN) 😂😂😂😂 We are not ready for this conversation

@meiGirma Audacity on steroids, God abeg