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@Kenneth_Belkin Do I look like I’m a part of the elite oligarch class. This was taken at a super 8 motel off I95 by the way.
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
it sounds dumb but it took me until 30 to internalize that people just say anything and it behooves you to ignore them and focus on what they do and how what they do makes you feel.
𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛@muheediva01
I think genuine people often assume everyone else is genuine too.
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
When people say “you need to just unlearn your trauma and go to therapy, you’re an adult” they seem to think there’s a magical therapy switch where you go to therapy and within 180 days you just become a more socially acceptable person that’s released their baggage
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
Lake Superior is 1,333 ft deep, but 25 miles offshore lies a reef that kisses the surface of the water. It’s the home of Stannard Rock Lighthouse, the furthest offshore lighthouse in the US and most boring place in North America
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
“All of the agents who had been to Minnesota told me they never wanted to go back for any reason.”
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
Hasan Piker responds to heckler asking if he called for Charlie Kirk's death
"I was supposed to debate Charlie. He respected that.
It's sad to see the the conservative movement refuse to carry the flame.
I on the other hand, do carry that flame. Because we are Charlie Kirk."
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
we were not meant to be compartmentalized and diagnosed like this lmao there’s no way all of u on here have Never people pleased or been avoidant or anxious or jealous or a little Messy ever like you are a Human and Humans famously have Ugly Feelings that’s what it’s all about
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
guys sometimes ppl just do shit and it isnt a permanent category. you cannot find the perfect abuser or avoid them. you have avoided conflict, you have people pleased, you have been confrontational, you have been wrong, right, and neither. this society isn’t kind like
anj@bye_anj
non-confrontational people are dangerous esp when they tell everyone *but* you their problem with *you* because you go around them thinking everything’s okay but everyone is being weird towards you and sometimes even hateful
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
me: how was school today
6yo niece: i already told everyone. i'm tired of these conversations. how was school how was school
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
Banner above Pineda Tacos on Lake St in Minneapolis:
THANK YOU MINNESOTA
Our Gratitude and affection go out to each and every one of you. Thank you for all the support received. Because in moments of darkness, you were the light on our paths
MINNESOTA: Loves - Feels - Resists
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
My take on the whole cat sitter discourse on TikTok is that the owner should be allowed to shoot the cat sitter.
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caroline รีทวีตแล้ว
Something most people don't understand is that you can't heal a trauma response by trying to shame it out of the person displaying it. In fact, that's a really good way to reinforce it and make it worse.
🩸Kit@KitsuneKismet
I think calling people-pleasers and avoidants manipulative when it’s a trauma response makes you a super bad person, actually
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@shestryingxjd im not arguing that people pleasers dont need therapy lol. thats quite obvious. just like people who physically or verbally assault others when their nervous system is activated. i also didnt call for “endless emphathy” ….. i literally said “a little goes a long way” …. :)
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@caragresh the harm of people pleasing (avoidance) in interpersonal relationships is unfortunately one that is not conducive to endless ‘empathy’ in the way you define it.
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people pleasers are some of the least vulnerable people i’ve ever met lol. the defining trait of people pleasing is dishonesty, how can you be dishonest and vulnerable at the same time? you’re prioritising immediate reputation over morals, it’s cowardly lol
lonely lonely@lonelyholdme
they hate it because observable vulnerability invokes a disgust response in a lot of people. it may be unconscious, but the tone with which people talk about people-pleasing on here makes it clear to me that the problem is with the pleaser being pitiable, & therefore disgusting.
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