@LLcoooltweet Both of these things are so my dad and why I cannot fathom settling for a man who complains about driving me thirty minutes to the airport 🥹
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turtle
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turtle
@code_mom_
Retired traditionally trained Direct Entry Midwife. Now a tech mom, Compiling Motherhood with too many open threads.
เข้าร่วม Kasım 2024
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For my wedding, i put the incorrect postage on 300 invitations and my dad was at the post office for an hour putting the rest of the postage on each invite for me. He had very gnarled hands so this was a big deal for him, and I just miss him so so much.
Wolf of X@WolfofX
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This is my appeal to tech hiring managers, whatever you’re paying them, pay me 1/3 the salary, cap me at 1/3rd salary in tokens and both of our bottom line will be up by 1/3rd 😂
sunny madra@sundeep
“If your $500K engineer isn’t burning at least $250K in tokens, something is wrong.”
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@cardamomkiss @Lurker01234 Harmonica, kids handheld microscope, prism there are tons of good gift ideas on the cheap
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If we want to retvrn to traditivn (a frequent request) and the idea that people in a community owe each other things (true), we are going to have to include “givers owe the recipients the respect of thoughtful giving”
🍃@cardamomkiss
We sent this message to family ahead of our son's first birthday party and it was well received if any of you are extremely particular In the same way I am
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@lilydsmith Mechanics buy their own tools. Quit crying about a pencil.
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@lilydsmith @bonjourblonde No they don’t. If they do it’s their counties fault.
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@Beerbuddy69 @lilydsmith You know what your teachers funded out of their own pockets?
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@lilydsmith Mine didn't. Actually they gave parents lists of all the supplies they wanted us to have. Then we never used a majority of them.
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@tinfoilHT @lilydsmith Other people do not buy classroom supplies in bulk on a regular basis.
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@WillyBobWard @lilydsmith @jakelouque You’re welcome! Just gifted you $300 a year for as long as you work as a teacher!
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@lilydsmith @jakelouque Cool. That is probably in line with lots of people’s jobs (especially since work from home picked up) but without the $300 tax bonus.
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@bmore555 @lilydsmith @jakelouque A tax deduction is a completely inappropriate method of funding necessary classroom supplies.
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@lilydsmith @jakelouque They also get a $300 tax deduction for these expenses.
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We perceive DV deaths as a result of long term overt violence
You need to know DV doesn’t always have visible injuries and might not happen regularly.
Even if “it only happened once”
Or you didn’t have bruises
You are still in danger if it happened EVER or you intuit it could.
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Lastly, this is 0% comment on HIS intentions or their history.
But of all the dangers in DV, strangulation/suffocation EVER, even once, is one of the strongest predictors of future death.
In these cases, it is common for her to die *the first or second time* he touches her
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We often don’t realize how LITTLE the abusers *intentions* matter
We believe we aren’t in danger because “he wouldn’t INTENTIONALLY kill me”
With suffocation men often DON’T intend to kill the victim.
In fact the suffocation event may be the first time he physically harms her
Zoya🕊️@Zoya_ki_batein
She appeared emotional and distressed while her fiance calmly labeled her “crazy” and the aggressor. Weeks later he strangled her to death, proving he was the true danger all along.
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@galacticcbobaa @heyyitsjanea I have exactly 0 knowledge of their age by a screenshot of a dog and I’m not going to attempt to zoom or scroll their profiles.
Either she’s a minor and they have authority, or she’s not and it doesn’t matter
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@code_mom_ @heyyitsjanea really? because after looking, both girls (the poster & her friend) are in their 20s ..
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This actually seems like … super gay.
Is it satire?
Health & Fitness Campus@fitnesscampus_
2 grass-fed steaks a day keeps the gays away. 🚫🏳️🌈
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There are different types of abusers.
Some DO want you dead, do plan to kill you, that is their intention.
But again **HISTORY AND INTENTIONS DONT MATTER** when you’re dead.
If he has EVER “lost it”, “snapped” or you suspect he could, it doesn’t matter. Your life is in danger.
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He didn’t want me dead. He wouldn’t have planned my death. He wasn’t a sociopath or a psychopath. I actually believe he really loved me.
But his thresholds was a flying plastic cup.
And because he never “lost his temper” before or again, I didn’t comprehend the danger I was in.
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