Abusive men don’t lose power when a relationship ends.
They take it into family court — where they can legally force contact, punish mothers for protecting their children, and use the system itself as a weapon.
The risks don’t disappear in court. They often increase. Because now the abuser has the system on his side.
The System Is The Weapon
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Men are not depressed because of women. They are depressed because, from childhood, they are burdened with responsibilities imposed by their own family: Study hard, support us financially, contribute to household expenses, take care of your sisters, arrange their marriages, get a good job, marry a "good" girl and bring dowry.
Their own family is responsible for their frustration and depression.
But then the woman he marries ends up bearing the consequences of all that accumulated frustration....
@ravvokk personally, i dont have a problem if they wanna "find themselves" in their 20s
the problem is when they turn around and say that they want a man to fix their mess and pay their bills in their 30s instead of them working for their own money
Men get to "find themselves" in their twenties and thirties while women doing the same thing get told they're running out of time.
Both are growing. Only one gets penalized for the timeline.
@glitteryfem thats why only martial assets should be split not pre martial assets, she should not have stake in something he built without even meeting her
@sapphicnightowl if she doesnt have sex with him why should he pay her bills? wtf does he gain? why should he listen to her bitch about some bullshit in her friend group? why should he protect her?
The fact that feminists here have to explain every month to entitled rapey freaks that sex isn't a duty and women don't owe it to their husbands is so bleak, sexual coercion in marriages is still rampantly normalized regardless of location or culture
@Irina_exh Essentially, he’s planning for the relationship to end, so it isn’t real love, it’s an just an agreement or contract with an expiration date. It’s over now act! I’m a Life Coach & psychologist.
@Irina_exh@Sofia50020Sofia I think the fiancé (woman)has a right to be involved in the financial situation. Marriage is not an option and if children are brought into this world yes she should know… this is her future and her children’s future.
@IpadEm13@tufdaxx Don't divert attention to the main and real issues. She was armless, only committed financial blunder not with Gun or knife of stick. So How do you justice beating as the adequate punishment for her offense?
A Chinese man beat his wife after she invested all of his money in a massive amount of silver ingots and lost everything when the stock market collapsed
@AlyssaLogic Yes, I can, but I think it's a mistake unless you can really deprioritize sex. I personally can't, but I think that sex ideally should be less important than people treat it in a relationship.
@xynifyy Yes and no.
She ran up on him and she is the aggressor.
But,
She’s shorter (leverage), weaker (muscle) has less momentum and clearly not 100% sober. He could have just easily shoved her. Her attack was probably 3rd degree assault, but his slap was premeditated murder.
@DaizyZeeX "Men are not into marriage nowadays."
Translation: Men are tired of being ATM machines for narcissistic, lazy, stubborn, selfish ladies for the privilege of female companionship.
“Women are too picky nowadays.”
Translation: Women are no longer willing to endure abuse, boredom, and unpaid labor for the privilege of male companionship.